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  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    Miroslav wrote:
    Okay....so, no news from 'S'

    It's not as if

    1. She's popular
    2. She's busy
    3. She does much but sit at home

    So, not text her since Sat night..........would it be too much to text her today to ask what's happening about Friday????

    Too pushy? Or am I just being over cautious?

    Could she be not texting me for the same reason, she thinks it would be too much?

    I thought of adding a jokey comment in.......if you know of any ladies who want my body, tell them Britney is filing for divorce from Kevin and they have until the weekend to make there move, or I run off with Britney...............or similar :rotfl:

    Hmmmm :think:

    :whistle:

    Bear with me hun. I gotta go into a bl00dy meeting now. I'm coming back to you x
    4 May 2010 <3
  • geminilady
    geminilady Posts: 1,922 Forumite
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    Miroslav wrote:
    No, you'd be saying Bruciiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeem I love you :)

    My point was, you get less fussy, and if you don't, you end up on your own! :o You learn to appreciate, the outside is not as importnat as the inside, if you didn't know that already that is :)

    Britney!!!! Gonna have to text 'S' to tell her she has 3 days to grab me (!!!) before Britney does!

    Lyrics - darn, must e-mail them off!

    Good point miro and true someone could look like brad pitt or brittany lol but be an awful person, the inside is much more important.I don't think it would be pushy to text "S" not sure about the joke though she could possibly take it the wrong way,i know i do sometimes.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    I'm a little hungover, but feeling alright thankies.
    Nervous about Monday - got my doctors appointment - I find out if I've been refered. Don't know how she'll react to the fact that I haven't take the meds tho.
    Are you going to tell her why you aren't taking the meds?

    I am glad you are doing something about it but I am concerned about the lack of support you get at home.

    It is a blooming strain when people you live with undermine you, you need to be on your guard so much.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
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    I feel so strange today.

    I am going to ring my mum later, so need to feel strong.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • blinky
    blinky Posts: 1,684 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote:
    I feel so strange today.

    I am going to ring my mum later, so need to feel strong.

    Good luck, thinking of you..

    Paul
    Hug provider for depression thread :grouphug:
    "I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell.." - Unwell by Matchbox Twenty
  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    CCStar wrote:
    I feel so strange today.

    I am going to ring my mum later, so need to feel strong.

    I bet you're feeling exhausted after everything too. Hope the call goes ok... x
    4 May 2010 <3
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    I feel like giving up - I want to crawl in to a hole and die.
    I can't win - there is nothing I can do to make me happy/healthy, without scxrewing someone else over.
    Plans for going abroad have all fallen thru, and we've lost about £400. We need to rearrage it all, and he still wants me to go with him, which will cost about £400 more. I tried to explain that I don't feel up to it - I don't want that stress, but he got angry, then all moody saying he didn't mind, and that he'd get over it eventually - making me feel really guilty. I ask him why he wants me to go - I wouldn't mind so much if he would say that he'd miss me - but he wants me to go so he knows which terminal to go to, and will have someone to talk to and smoke with, otherwise he will be bored.
    I had a huge panic attack while trying to sort things out, and he said how he hates it that I get all dramatic and can't do things. Can't he understand whats wrong with me?
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    I don't want to go, but can't see a way to stand my ground and not go - he'll make things unbearable.
    I don't know what to do now, I really don't.
    I give up x
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    Miroslav wrote:
    Okay....so, no news from 'S'

    It's not as if

    1. She's popular
    2. She's busy
    3. She does much but sit at home

    So, not text her since Sat night..........would it be too much to text her today to ask what's happening about Friday????

    Too pushy? Or am I just being over cautious?

    Could she be not texting me for the same reason, she thinks it would be too much?

    I thought of adding a jokey comment in.......if you know of any ladies who want my body, tell them Britney is filing for divorce from Kevin and they have until the weekend to make there move, or I run off with Britney...............or similar :rotfl:

    Hmmmm :think:

    :whistle:

    I think GL's right - don't see harm in texting, joke may be ok so long as you think she'd take it as that x
    4 May 2010 <3
  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    I don't want to go, but can't see a way to stand my ground and not go - he'll make things unbearable.
    I don't know what to do now, I really don't.
    I give up x

    Don't give up fg - try to stand your ground if you can. So far as I can tell he does not and will not consider your needs - so you must do it for yourself. You know you can't cope with the trip and that's the main thing. And anyway, as you say, he only wants you along so he doesn't get bored - again - only thinking about himself. Do this for you hun BIG HUGS xxx S
    4 May 2010 <3
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