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Murphys no more pies club Member #41 :dance:
12 stone down! :j
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EthelBloggs wrote:Then you know what? Sod him!! try to focus on yourself for a while, your interests and the thngs that will make you feel better.. his behavour could be his way of coping with you feeling so down. Could be that he feels guilty and that it's his fault somehow?
Or Sazbo could be right.. he could be using this punishment/reward thing as a means of controlling you and keeping you where he wants you to be.
I think you're the only person who can answer that and decide how much you're willing to tolerate. :hug:
All I wanted was a cuddle and some closeness.
I don't feel I am getting any reward. He tends to give me what I want after he has upset me tho'. Never the same - I don't want it after I have been upset. Is that what you mean?
I'm still not sure what punishment/reward thing is going on, how does it control me and where does he want me to be? Depressed and blaming me? Why would he want me low when he says he hates me being low?
Is he sick or something?An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T
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I like Marmite too but kissing someone who has eaten it is vile:DEthelBloggs wrote:OI!!! don't diss the marmite!!!!!:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
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CCStar wrote:All I wanted was a cuddle and some closeness.
I don't feel I am getting any reward. He tends to give me what I want after he has upset me tho'. Never the same - I don't want it after I have been upset. Is that what you mean?
I'm still not sure what punishment/reward thing is going on, how does it control me and where does he want me to be? Depressed and blaming me? Why would he want me low when he says he hates me being low?
Is he sick or something?
He upsets you.. you feel even lower... then you're almost grateful for him being nice to you.. that kind of thing☆ §ügÅr cØÅTëÐ pØï§Øn ☆
Murphys no more pies club Member #41 :dance:
12 stone down! :j
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Should I leave it or try and sort it out?An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
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Miroslav wrote::mad:
Flatmate has lost her housing benefit form, which was due in today, and of course it's my fault.
Just discovered i'm 4 months behind with my water bill too...........thought it was only 3, not that that's okay........:wall:
Of course it's your fault!
Don't get me started on the water companies, Miro hun, they're appalling :rolleyes: 
Are you really 7 foot?! :eek: OMG - I'd need two boxes instead of my normal one :rolleyes: 4 May 2010
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Miroslav wrote::mad:
Flatmate has lost her housing benefit form, which was due in today, and of course it's my fault.
Just discovered i'm 4 months behind with my water bill too...........thought it was only 3, not that that's okay........:wall:
Of course it's your fault.. you're a bloke aintcha?
just kidding
I don't get a water bill like that.. it's paid weekly so it's much easier.. just £7 to find. Call them up and offer to pay a lil bit more than the normal monthly payment and you'll soon catch up ☆ §ügÅr cØÅTëÐ pØï§Øn ☆
Murphys no more pies club Member #41 :dance:
12 stone down! :j
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EthelBloggs wrote:He upsets you.. you feel even lower... then you're almost grateful for him being nice to you.. that kind of thing
I see, like crumbs. Yes letting me be happy with him, then withdrawing closeness to cause a drama.
He is like that about jobs. He causes such a hassle over it that by the time it is done I am so relieved.
He seems to have nasty answers. Someone tell me I am not going nuts, please!
What is the best course of action to take tonight? Should I thrash this out or leave it?An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
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We pay ours with our council tax up here.Sazbo wrote:Of course it's your fault! Don't get me started on the water companies, Miro hun, they're appalling :rolleyes:
Are you really 7 foot?! :eek: OMG - I'd need two boxes instead of my normal one :rolleyes:An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :rotfl: :rotfl: :eek::mad: :beer:
I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.0
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