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  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    rose07 wrote:
    well me fingers will be crossed for ya

    i know i hate starting from the beginning. like starting over!!!

    well relationships take a while to form miro but when they do, you can have them for life.

    lets just say i havent quite been all here in the last few days....:o

    I've got everything crossed :rotfl:

    Yep, it's like, here's my story............again!!!!

    I hope this works. My worst fear, is she attracts guys who treat her really bad because she's so kind & easy to take advantage of. She so wants to be cared for and loved, she's even told my flatmate that she likes who I am, but doesn't understand why i'm being so nice to her, so if I'm not with her, then some other !!!!!! is gonna be hurting her, and that is my worst fear, seeing her go through hell again :( I mean, i'll be there as much as she wants me to be, but man that'll be tough :(

    Not been here? I thought I saw you on the moon :) Seriously, I hope you are feeling better, it's always nice to read your essays :)
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Sazbo wrote:
    So you're all ready for action now Miro :D I'm only kidding with you hun :D:D Try to get some sleep Sx

    :rotfl:

    I always carry 'protection' in my wallet anyway. Not that I expect anything, but it'd be irresponsible of me if I didn't, as we're all human, and you never know..............even the likes of me :rotfl:
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    Sazbo wrote:
    No, not compared to Miro's exciting day anyway :D Just gonna do some chores around the house. Very glamorous, me! :D

    :rotfl:

    Let's hope it really is exciting tomorrow and I come home and :p at you doing your housework ;)

    I've gotta do alot this week though, so you'll get your own back ;)
  • rose07
    rose07 Posts: 2,442 Forumite
    Sazbo wrote:
    No, not compared to Miro's exciting day anyway :D Just gonna do some chores around the house. Very glamorous, me! :D

    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    know what you mean, lol. my mum is like a boss att home. :rotfl: , but she can f**k off if she thinks im working on a sunday, hahahahaha
    BB B*TCH NO 8
    May your dreams come true and set you free :kisses3:
    Tiff A.S.M 10


  • rose07
    rose07 Posts: 2,442 Forumite
    Miroslav wrote:
    I've got everything crossed :rotfl:

    Yep, it's like, here's my story............again!!!!

    I hope this works. My worst fear, is she attracts guys who treat her really bad because she's so kind & easy to take advantage of. She so wants to be cared for and loved, she's even told my flatmate that she likes who I am, but doesn't understand why i'm being so nice to her, so if I'm not with her, then some other !!!!!! is gonna be hurting her, and that is my worst fear, seeing her go through hell again :( I mean, i'll be there as much as she wants me to be, but man that'll be tough :(

    Not been here? I thought I saw you on the moon :) Seriously, I hope you are feeling better, it's always nice to read your essays :)

    even ya toes? :rotfl: :rotfl:

    you are not that kind of guy tho, and she will respect that. lol. sometimes when a girl is treated soo badly by men its hard to change ya head around and understand why is being soo lovely give this time, as i know this well.

    dont beat yaself up, let her ease into you, (god dont take that the wrong way, :rotfl: ), seriously, take it easy, and just chat and things, you will be ok.

    and well done you going to her flat scary stuff. :T

    oh yes i am on the moon all the time, just a days trip away, hop on a shuttle and off i gooooooooo. well as long as there are people to read my essays i will be here. lol xxxxx
    BB B*TCH NO 8
    May your dreams come true and set you free :kisses3:
    Tiff A.S.M 10


  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Yay Miro! That your ultimate Fanatasy then?

    I cant leave OH - I'm dependant on him and would have no where else to go unfortunatly
    He is a nice bloke, and he does love me. Its acceptable.

    Hi fg, :)
    I wish I'd read through to this point before my last post hun. It sounds like you're not in love with OH. It's not love when you describe it as acceptable. That's so sad. You sounded scared to be on your own angel. New possibilities aren't just going to happen if you rely on a safety net. Being on your own is not the same as being lonely. I hope you can find your way to your happiness angel. ;)
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
    ***
  • Miroslav
    Miroslav Posts: 6,193 Forumite
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    rose07 wrote:
    even ya toes? :rotfl: :rotfl:

    you are not that kind of guy tho, and she will respect that. lol. sometimes when a girl is treated soo badly by men its hard to change ya head around and understand why is being soo lovely give this time, as i know this well.

    dont beat yaself up, let her ease into you, (god dont take that the wrong way, :rotfl: ), seriously, take it easy, and just chat and things, you will be ok.

    and well done you going to her flat scary stuff. :T

    oh yes i am on the moon all the time, just a days trip away, hop on a shuttle and off i gooooooooo. well as long as there are people to read my essays i will be here. lol xxxxx

    Even my :whistle:

    I know she knows I'm not like that, but she can't get her head around it. Her last b/f not only abused her, but ran off........with another man :o Even her real dad and step dad abused her. The only person who hasn't, was her Mum who died around the same time mine did, 4 or 5 years ago. Scarily, both had breast cancer that spread & a breast removed. We were amazed at how similar our Mum's were in that respect. So every guy she's had contact with has abused her, so even if we did get romantically involved, I would make sure first that she knew I cared about her, and that i'd never hurt her. I'm thinking way ahead of myself here, but hey, I have to have dreams :o

    :rotfl: at that comment, should I not ease into............no forget it :o Oh my :rotfl: :o

    I'll go with the flow. I'm afraid I have spolied her again, spending loads on our dinner tomorrow. I'm gonna make mistakes, I just wanna show her how much I appreciate her :o

    Scary stuff, going to her place. Apparently, last week, she tried on clothes in front of my flatmate and was often just in underwear........flatmate said she may do same to me and even ask me to try her clothes on :rotfl: Not only would they be umpteen sizes too small, but I don't think a red skirt and matching top would suit me :p

    Next time you go to the moon, can you bring back some cheese. Not had any for a while. Ta :)

    Keep writing the essays, always good to hear from you, and everyone of course :)

    Bed............I have to go..........Arrrrrggggggghhhhhhhh, scared :eek: :o
  • Sazbo
    Sazbo Posts: 4,617 Forumite
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    Night night Miro! Give the matching red combo a go... :)

    Sx
    4 May 2010 <3
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    Hey guys :)
    The situation is pretty complicated. I do love OH, don't think I'm in love with him. tho.
    I don't love this other guy, but I do like him, and its a bit sad that things can't happen.
    I kinda want to be on my own, but I know I can't. Ahhhh well, somethings better than nothing isn't it!
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Miroslav wrote:
    :rotfl: Someone's been on the blue smarties :rotfl:

    Miro...:shhh: don't be silly Miro - blue is c-a-l-m-....
    don't tell anyone but.........


    it's-the-red-ones - it's-the-red-ones - it's-the-red-ones -it's-the-red-ones -
    - it's-the-red-ones - it's-the-red-ones - it's-the-red-ones -it's-the-red-ones - it's-the-red-ones - it's-the-red-ones - it's-the-red-ones - it's-the-red-ones - it's-the-red-ones -

    :drool:

    yumyumyumyumyumyumyum

    :dance:
    :D

    I really must stop doing this! :o :rolleyes: :rotfl:

    Much love
    Tiff xx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
    ***
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