Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

Shoe_Gal

Fingers crossed for the 'conversation' -like Hypno (I think ) said - this is the start of the rest of your life :A

sallyx

Well have had a chat with OH and he is quite frankly useless....obvious to me that he wants to move on but doesn't want to be the one to say it, said the time apart might do us good.....trying to wiggle out of a definate end and take that responsibility. So ive had a conversation that ive said if you get offered job (should find out for definate tomorrow) then he needs to think about when, cost etc he will see B and whether he really wants to be that far away from her. He says he doesn't but its a job! Ive told him he needs to find a room for a couple of weeks and then he can find a place to rent....he seems happy to do this but I just feel like its me flipping pushing it all once again! I know things will take time to sort out but Id just like to wake up tomorrow and him have job, place to move to and be taking his stuff (clearing out all his crap) and sorting out his finances!

sallyx

Pass me the wine, and I keep thinking its sunday so no he won't find out tomorrow...will be Monday!

Shoe_Gal

Sounds like he wants you to push him :mad: Do what's best for you (and B of course)

sallyx

I'll quite happily push him....im looking at places for him to move to lol

Shoe_Gal

sallyx wrote: »

I'll quite happily push him....im looking at places for him to move to lol

Go girl :j

sallyx

just want him to take all his crap out of the house so I can have a mahoooosive spring clean and I can see what I need to buy. Said he can take whatever furniture he wants as to be honest I can replace at some point and we would get by

sallyx

Oh and Ive decided also with some of the money Ive got Im going to get a really nice photograph of me and B done...:)

hypno06

Getting there Sally - but I do think that you need to make it clear if it is the end. I know that no-one wants to be the one to end it, but if you are not careful it could drift. At the end of the day, if it is over, it is over.....so sit down and talk definite time scales. Won't be nice, but then you can both get on with it.

I am very pleased, though, that you look as though you will be able to stay in the house.

And when you come to Norfolk to bring B to see him.....pop in for a cuppa x

Shoe_Gal

sallyx wrote: »

Oh and Ive decided also with some of the money Ive got Im going to get a really nice photograph of me and B done...:)

Lovely idea :T