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Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

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  • dangers
    dangers Posts: 1,457 Forumite
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    Hugs to you Sally (sorry, don't know how to do smilies). Can't imagine what you are going through but I do think you seem to be coping really well.
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    !!!!ed off....just checked my Quidco account and flipping talktalk have declined by cashback of £55...!!!!!! Ive been using them since October 09 and waiting since then. Talk about luring people in under a pretense of money that talktalk are never going to pay...rip off merchants.
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    :mad: Kwik Fit have rejected my car insurance cashback - so I feel your pain :(
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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Its so annoying..I know you shouldn't rely on it, but there is absolutely no reason for them to decline it other than they are crooks grrrr
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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  • dangers
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    Have you queried it with Quidco?
  • beanielou
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    Chase it up wth Quidco hun.
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  • hypno06
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    Definitely take it further - quidco normally manage to sort these things out eventually.

    If it is dry tomorrow evening after work.......I may go for a run. Only "may" mind you, but it will have to do for now!
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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    hypno06 wrote: »
    Definitely take it further - quidco normally manage to sort these things out eventually.

    If it is dry tomorrow evening after work.......I may go for a run. Only "may" mind you, but it will have to do for now!

    Yeah have queried it...will see what they say.

    No pressure to go out...might just clear the cobwebs even if its only around the block! :D
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Hey Sal xx

    Hope you feel better soon and enjoy your day off

    hugs
    Buffy xxx
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  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Crap friend alert no 2....sorry Sal, I always forget the diaries...and I know I can subscribe but have been so so busy just lately and had t'internet issues.

    I am sorry but you have been carrying dead weight around for so long, you are a caring and loving person and even when he has treated you like !!!! you are still worrying and thinking about him.

    However, this is you and part of the process, believe me one day you will get angry. I believe you have shut your feelings off from yourself so much that at the minute you are incapable of feeling anything, you are just existing. This is good this is coping strategy and allows you to do the things that will get you through. I hope he gets a job so you can stay in the house.

    As a mother I do think you should tell your mum. We worry about our kids all the time and it hurts when you realise that they have kept things from us - as you say she will have an idea so its best to tell her what has gone on and reassure her that you are dealing with the problem.

    love you loads anyway.....mwah...and anything I can do....

    we are going away to Liverpool at the weekend if you need to get away to an empty house....
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