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Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)
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You are right BB...If I go back and read the beginning of my diary and see the crap he put us through...would I ever want to go back to that. I was sat in the pub last night with R having a deep and meaningful and we were talking about missing the children and his relationship and how he would never have been the one to leave because he didn't want to be seen as the one to walk out on his children. He looks back now and knows it was the thing to do and how really he didn't have a normal relationship either. I just remember what Bun said to me when I was in the midst of it all on how did I really want B to grow up thinking that the relationship we had was normal, one where there was no love, no communication, no affection and no family time. Bun you really made me think about my life and that it was time to leave that mess...I can't thank you enough and all the other Peeps on here for support through years of rubbish! That was the relationship we had...it was rubbish. I have one now where I have all of that, he loves B and treats her like his own daughter and she too has definitely turned into a more affectionate girl because she sees us hugging and comes and joins in.
I know that this change will hopefully mean she has a normal happy relationship when she grows up!
And here endeth this diary. Time for a new start and a new diary...Friday sees the new beginning and it seems appropriate to move on
I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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That's got me all choked.
Happy new life and happy new diary.
Love you Sal x26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%SPC 2019 #073
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I think you've summed it all up perfectly there Sal - so happy it's all worked out like this. Hugging is good
xxxxDebt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012."I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."0 -
I always knew things would work out for you Sally, you are one of the good people in this world xxxBut these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.0
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Good things come to those who give out the good - you see you have been patient and waited and something very very good and special and right for you has happened. You and Bea are going to have a wonderful life with R and his children - one big happy, loving and caring family. Well done Sally enjoy your life xx (So does that mean you are starting a new diary Friday!?!?):j I belong to Mike's Mob :j0
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Yes Friday I will start new diary Billie....trying to think of an apt title I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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LOvely post Sal.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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Just seen your post on the roll of honour.
Well done :jSuccessful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)0 -
Sally, well done on becoming debt free, you are so amazing.......
But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.0 -
Ah thanks Lou and Hypno...its been a long time and I never thought I would get there I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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