Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)

Buffythedebtslayer

*drools at the idea of a laminated things to do list*

give em hell on Monday Sal! xx

sammy115

how do you add to a laminated list....do you have a pen that writes on laminate....:rotfl:

I have bought white socks, I know what shoes she needs, I have seen the coat I want. I just need to get her pe kit and a red jumper and school shirts now. Oh and a tie...and a book bag and ........*goes to check list out*

sallyx

sammy115 wrote: »

how do you add to a laminated list....do you have a pen that writes on laminate....:rotfl:

I have bought white socks, I know what shoes she needs, I have seen the coat I want. I just need to get her pe kit and a red jumper and school shirts now. Oh and a tie...and a book bag and ........*goes to check list out*

Yes I laminated a piece of paper and carry it around with my permanent pens...cross them out and then clean it off once ive done all the things or I need to re-write it!

Yes I am sad but it keeps me happy

sallyx

Why does Ex still seem to make me feel bad, sad for him and like I want to tell him that i'll make everything ok. He's quite short and doesn't have much to say face to face, when I asked him where he was staying this weekend he said he didn't have anywhere to stay so would come down early hours this morning...thought fair enough. Saw him this morning and he was ok, when he dropped B off I said are you around tomorrow or going back tonight he was very vague. I text him to say thank you and that he'd left the photo Id got for him of B in the bag and he text back that he was just charging his phone before he left the sports centre (I can't imagine for one minute there would be anywhere to charge his phone and why is he hanging around if he is going back, surely he would want to get on). If I sleep on the beach or somewhere i will pick photo up tomorrow.

Just made me feel sad and guilty

Buffythedebtslayer

Not your problem, if he is tight/disorganised to bok a hotel and doesn't have a mate to stay with that is HIS problem. Why can't he sleep in the car?

emotional blackmail, one of his specialities.

Shoe_Gal

Well said Buffy :j

Sally - have been lurking , sounds like life is actually pretty good for you, am really happy for you

sammy115

sallyx wrote: »

Why does Ex still seem to make me feel bad, sad for him and like I want to tell him that i'll make everything ok. He's quite short and doesn't have much to say face to face, when I asked him where he was staying this weekend he said he didn't have anywhere to stay so would come down early hours this morning...thought fair enough. Saw him this morning and he was ok, when he dropped B off I said are you around tomorrow or going back tonight he was very vague. I text him to say thank you and that he'd left the photo Id got for him of B in the bag and he text back that he was just charging his phone before he left the sports centre (I can't imagine for one minute there would be anywhere to charge his phone and why is he hanging around if he is going back, surely he would want to get on). If I sleep on the beach or somewhere i will pick photo up tomorrow.

Just made me feel sad and guilty

Sally thats an awful thing for him to say....and he is seriously doing it to tug on your heartstrings...let him sleep on the beach. His choice...stupid bloody man...

sallyx

He is doing it to make me feel guilty...I didn't text him back because quite frankly there was nothing that I could say. Its a test on his part. Got another text from him last night around 7pm to say that he'd just got back and it had taken him 9 hours, didn't bother to pop in and see B today even if it was for 5 mins and quite obviously he stayed with a friend because if you were sleeping on the beach then he would have been up early and gone home.

Buffy he couldn't sleep in the car as he doesn't have one, remember he has the stupid Bike!!!

redsquirrel80

Oh Sal, that is totally unfair of him. I hope you're feeling better than you were x

sallyx

Im feeling good today actually squiz...I think my nice swim and run yesterday have given me a glow Had a fabby day yesterday with R...:)