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Sallyx's Sink or Swim, Swimerdy Swim Diary ;)
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When I have Ryan and I put him down for a sleep I keep forgetting I have him...:rotfl: I get a shock when I walk into the spare room and he's asleep in his cot...Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
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lol sammy...he's such a good boyI'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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Thought I would pop in and say hello, looks like everything is moving along for you Sally, did you manage to get Bea into a School yet?
I am also needing a huge kick up the bum re DFW, my debt has crept up again, own stupid fault but seriously need to get back on the wagon.But these things take time, I know that I'm, the most inept that ever stepped.0 -
Lou, no still haven't got her into school am having to go to appeal
Still waiting for date
I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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Oh yesterday I got a letter from court to say that my decree nisi had been granted on the 4th August by the judge...so 1st September I can apply for decree absolute :eek:I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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Oh yesterday I got a letter from court to say that my decree nisi had been granted on the 4th August by the judge...so 1st September I can apply for decree absolute :eek:
Gosh its all happened so quickly! KInd of weitd to think what was supposed to last forever can be picked apart so quickly:eek:
Have a hug because even though its what you want and need there must be some sorrow for what might have been...26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%SPC 2019 #073
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yep totally luc...on the weekend even though I had an amazing time away with R, there was an eliment of seeing ex and wondering if we could have worked things out! My mind plays tricks on me and seems to blot out all the crap times and !!!!!! life we actually had!I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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I often think - a lot - about the past and what could have been with my ex. I know all the factors that led us to split and whilst I think some could have been fixed with knowledge (ie financial stuff - MSE wasn't around then) and some things could be different now with hindsight (grass is not greener on the other side!) there are still elements which could never be fixed because it would take a whole change of personality and 'head stuff'. I couldn't go back to 'living' for 2 people, sorting everything, being responsible for everything, taking the carp when it happened for everything, however nice a guy he is. It's sad but it's about being realistic and knowing that moving forward really is the best thing. xx
"Stay Wonky":D
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Burlesque_Babe wrote: »I often think - a lot - about the past and what could have been with my ex. I know all the factors that led us to split and whilst I think some could have been fixed with knowledge (ie financial stuff - MSE wasn't around then) and some things could be different now with hindsight (grass is not greener on the other side!) there are still elements which could never be fixed because it would take a whole change of personality and 'head stuff'. I couldn't go back to 'living' for 2 people, sorting everything, being responsible for everything, taking the carp when it happened for everything, however nice a guy he is. It's sad but it's about being realistic and knowing that moving forward really is the best thing. xx
What a thoughtful post, makes pefect sense - I think we can all have touch of the rose tinted looking back from time to timeSometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56Weightloss : 0/34lbs0 -
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Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
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***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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