Does anyone else go through phases where they just dont like their OH?

Stephb1986_2

Yeah I'm having one right now!

It started last night, I txt him and said are you coming online for a bit? I was at home because I had work early he said yeah I'll be on in a bit (I'm full of a cold right now) come 10pm I said don't bother coming online I've got in bed because I don't feel great he replies with I'm just coming on now so I said don't because I'm not getting out of bed.

So we had a row and I said that I don't think we should get married the only reason he didn't come online is because he went to his sisters house to kiss her backside because she's a thick cow. So we left it as that.

Tonight we're supposed to go to the cinema I txt him at half 6 asking what time he was coming he didn't reply for 40 minutes and said sorry fell asleep so I said don't bother coming everything would of started by the time you get here. He's spent the day farting around with his mums car because she doesn't want to pay for an auto electrician to have a look at it or to call the AA out that she took a membership out 2 weeks ago when her car first broke (he's still not fixed it)

He's just too busy with his mum and sister who pick him up when they want something and don't bother the rest of the time. He's full of apologies which doesn't mean sh*t I'm sick of it now.

Is it me or what?

Steph xx

Raksha

Yes, only I'm not pregnant (was hoping it was the menopause, as I'll be 50 next year, but then I got 'the decorators in' so now I'm not so sure........)

MrsBuble_2

ohhh steph hun...

id be feeling like that as well

maybe have a word with him, and just say i appreciate you doing stuff for your family but we're missing out on spending time together because you're getting caught up with things that can wait....

Admittedly if I was having that conversation I wouldnt be that restrained....

Next time, leave it to him to text/call you for details, maybe he'll then think that he needs to work on his time management....

Shockingly..... dh has been given it all the sweetness...... asked if I want the remote etc, now that theres cack all on! And he's asked if he can go on the xbox if i dont want the tele...... hmmmmmm lets see how long this lasts...
I dont have the energy to have the chat with him tonight......

MrsBuble_2

delain wrote: »

I feel like that too sometimes.

Love him to bits, but sometimes feel like he doesn't understand me at all.

Oh well.

Keep soldiering on, I'll be thinking of you!

P.S where have you moved to? you might be able to meet some lovely MSE people for coffee

Have moved to county durham, where its cold :eek:

Stephb1986_2

He's going to be lucky if I don't kick sh*t out of him lol I'm not even pregnant! or menopausal.

I just feel like he's taking the mick, So now he's on his way it takes 35 mins from his to mine i've took my ring off to see if he even notices.

Steph xx

Sublime_2

Yes, I'm not pregnant either. OH was just moaning that the house was a mess, as the kids have trashed the living room as per usual.

He's now busy tidying up. :cool:

MrsBuble_2

crikey sublime....

how did you manage that one?!

Sublime_2

MrsBuble wrote: »

crikey sublime....

how did you manage that one?!

He'd been watching TV upstairs most of the afternoon before he made the comment. So I told him its not just down to me.

I can hear him emptying the dishwasher now. :T

ifonlyitwaseasier

well done sublime

and MrsB you are so in good company here, i really hate it when OH decides that he "needs" a dvd or a mag esp when we are trying to save as much as poss to snowball our debts away. he's been told on occasion if it's so bad living here he can f off and live with his folks!

Raksha

Mine complaines when I buy new clothes (I haven't put on any weight recently, but it all seems to be going south, so nothing fits anymore), says his underwear is falling apart, but manages to buy the things he 'needs' for his 'hobbies'.......

Sublime, I thought you were going to say 'I can hear him removing the frying pan from his left ear'.......