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lilmissmup

OMG have date with Irish Man 2 Saturday!!!!

Need help, suggestions of good first dates, clothes and do I tell him about the brace!!!!

Help!!!!! :eek::eek::eek::eek:

ziggles50

ooohhhh good luck dawn...will have all bits crossed for you on Monday!

i have a wee dilemma i thought i'd ask you about since you're on match.
i was chatting with a guy who seemed normal and nice but i had a chat with him and during the chat agreed to go have a drink on saturday after ballet(nutcracker). i have since decided i don't like him much at all...ignorant and doesn't get my sarcastic side at all...too much hard work involved actually. So...i need to get rid..no chat, no text, no date...in a non arrogant/aggressive way...how???????

lilmissmup

I think Souk will come along with a much better answer but either ignore him or say somethings come up, something like you are washing your hair so he gets the hint. Then block as much as possible.

Am sure he will take hint soon enough!

I am very new to match and internet dating, Saturday is gonna be sooo scarey :eek:

ziggles50

I take an immodium...don't laugh...nerves give me the squits...and then have a wee drinky poos and i'm off...smile, look confident, fill all gaps in convo with questions (that you really want to know) and if it's rubbish say i have to go...goodnight.;)
i have just said i can't make it and won't reschedule...so hopefully message received...i attract a lot of ignorants....why????:eek::eek::eek::wall:

claire0788

Lilmissmup, I wouldnt say anything about your braces, if hes worth bothering with he wont care about them.

Also as for the outfit, whats your favourite thing to wear that you feel good in and look good in ? The last date I went on I didnt realise it was a date until I got home and got the "well I had a good time, would you like to go out again" text, I was thinking ohhhh thats why he paid... so clearly im no help with the actual date its self lol

lilmissmup

:rotfl:Lol bless ya Claire!

If any of you haven't noticed the rolley eyes and confused smiles have been removed cos apparantly they scare newbies.

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=2220219

Please post there if you liked the rolley eyes one!

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=2218883

And here if you liked the confused one.

I am not happy!

Souk08

Sorry haven't been on as have just joined Plenty of fish and saw loads of hotties on there!!!!! My FWB's at the moment are all kind of around in theory but haven't actually seen many of them this month so decided to add a few to the gang to increase chances of actually having some fun!!!

Right advice, DON'T WORRY. Chances are you may not click so just look good, feel good and see it as a well deserved night out (Not being negative, just a fact). DON'T mention the brace. Honestly is he himself going to be a Gerard Butler lookalike with no imperfections? No, well he can't expect you to be perfect either!!! Hon, I've gone all done up in white jeans a la Liz Hurley only for some big drip in a washed out t shirt and trainers to turn up!!!! Worry not and enjoy XXX

lilmissmup

Just logging in on lunch as out tonight and not sure will get much of a chance to post tomorrow!

Your right as normal Souk.

I had another guy email me off Match today, another guy with the same name as one of my exes but not sure he is gonna get a reply as he loves hip hop and r'n'b and I hate them really apart.

I wish Gerard Butler was on match though!!!

doodledo_2

Have a fun night

lilmissmup

Today is the day!

I am at hairdressers in an hour (planned before date!), then coffee with friends, then need to buy something to wear for tonight, then hopefully meeting him at 6pm in a nearby nice pub.

Tomorrow my brother and nieces are down too

So nice action packed weekend, was out until midnight last night as well at one of my best friends houses with other best mate, her baby is 7 weeks old now and delightfully puked on me twice but also on his mum a lot too so didn't feel too bad, did a massive poo in his nappy and then when she took it off he pooed even more on her!

Makes me wonder why I did want kids so much with !!!!!!....:rotfl: