MSE Parents Club Part 9

got-it-spend-it

Thanks guys- I've seen girly long sleeve vests but not boys or plain ones.

Fitz- H&M have the leggings with feet in them, but I agree that they are hard to come by!

SugarSpun

Ours are plain GISI

Thank you Weezlie - I've asked DH but may come back to you!

fattybooboo

Ooh I bought our first long sleeved vests the other day in tesco too, just plain white and they were £2 for 3. I bought 3-6 month ones as Toby is growing out of some of the 0-3 stuff already. Actually that reminds me I must try one on him as I held it up against a 0-3 one and it didnt look a lot bigger!!

Can I ask a quick breastfeeding question please (hope its not silly!!). When your baby feeds more often to increase your supply, does this result in your milk coming out at the same flow but baby would be able to feed for longer at each breast, or does the milk flow out faster when sucked on (bit like having a faster flow teat for a bottle!!) Sorry if this is a really stupid question but some of Tobys feeds only last for say 7 mins and then he is satisfied so I was wondering if it was cos he is getting more milk during that 7 mins. Hope that makes a bit of sense!! TIA!!

got-it-spend-it

Hmmm... I think I need to find a bigger Tesco in that case.

Not sure on the BF question, but it's not a silly one.

feelinggood_2

Fatty, babies do improve and become more effeciant. My Toby used to feed for at least 40 minutes at a time (long story, he didn't take to it easily) but now is 5 - 10 minutes each time. I was a super effeciant feeder, I never fed for more than 8 minutes! As long as baby is happy, gaining weight and meeting milestones, then everything is great!

Dontknowanymore

mookiandco wrote: »

DKAM you seem to have the right attitude. Co-operation with SS is the key i'm afraid. Everything you say and do will be in the spotlight and all the things from your past that you thought were gone and buried will sadly come back to haunt you. I dont know if you have got yourself a Solicitor yet, but I would strongly advise you do. We have our uses sometimes and you should be entitled to legal aid. A solicitor should also help hurry things along for you and help you get that Non-molestation Order (injunction). You may also need a Prohibited Steps Order to prevent your ex removing the children from your care and control apart from for contact previously agreed in writing or ordered by the Court. I know you trust your ex as a dad but SS clearly dont. They need to see that you have taken all possible steps to protect you and the children. My PM box is always open if you want to ask anything or check anything your solicitor or SS tell you. xxxx

Hi thank you.
I have finally managed to get a solicitor who is going to help me, I phoned the national domestic violence helpline before and they took my details to get an injunction, should i just get them to carry on or ask my solicitor to do it?
Thank you xx

searching_me

oh found out today that my work did have a christmas party ... still waiting for my invite :mad: x

Dontknowanymore

Ok, so spoke to the SW again who said that the next meeting will be held at the school as they havent got a free room at the SW office.
I asked her if aston was allowed to go back to school and she said she didnt know and she would find out and let me know.
I text her just before 5pm asking if she found out, she replied saying that yes she thinks he should go back to school, so now i'm wondering if the legal advisors have said not to proceed with care proceedings, i'm trying to be positive but at the same time trying not to get my hopes up, god talk about an emotional rollercoaster!

SugarSpun

Good luck DKAM

fattybooboo

Thanks feelinggood Well here is a more up to date pic of Toby



DKAM, sorry i dont have anything helpful to add but just to say im thinking of u xx