***Weekend Chat-It's the XFactor Final Tonight! Come on in for a natter 12/13 Dec***

Pooky

Snaggles wrote: »

Think the truthful answer is 'not much longer'.

I have felt really quite angry tonight, and had he not sent a couple of brief messages and then signed off, I think strong words may have been exchanged.

On Monday, we have been 'friends' for 6 months, and I think that is long enough for anyone to be patient.

To be honest I think 6 months is long enough to not be going the way you'd hope.....

He's obviously got his own agenda, for whatever reason but I think it's time you made the move....

Onwards and upwards to someone who adores you....he's out there...give him chance to find you.

Snaggles

Thanks - I don't think there is anyone out there who will adore me though, at least no-one that I will adore too.

Even my husband never fell into that category.

Have just suspended my FB account, and am going to bed to try to read in between crying.

Pooky

Hope I didn't offend....

It's just so hard to sit on the other side and see you beating yourself up ove someone who is just so unworthy.

There is someone out there and they will find you when the time is right.


Life is on a course and it gives you the carpy bits as well as the nice bits - just to tease you - but it's all for a very good reason....

Toto

Well said Pooky, bless you, I didn't know what you had been through :grouphug:

Snags, I promise you that this time next year you won't be feeling like this over him. You will have moved on, you'll be wiser, stronger and hopefully with someone who treats you like gold.

We all kiss a bunch of frogs before we find our prince. I was 34 when I met mine, by accident, when I wasn't looking. It will happen to you too, he is out there looking for you.

Go and read your book and have a good cry. Then, write down exactly how you are feeling, every detail of everything in your head. Keep it somewhere safe and promise me that you will take it out and read it the next time he gives you the 'come on'.

I wish you were here, i'd give you a big old hug then go and kick him right in the goolies.

shell_girl

^^ What Toto said. Sorry I lurk much more than I comment...

bookseller1980

Morning!
Church for the nativity play and then I really will make some Christmas cards!
Lunch at Mum's. :eek:

Buffythedebtslayer

Hello. Christmas party.

got drunk do not remember how I got home. think I am still drunk. ugh.

xxxx

becky_rtw

Morning all

Am relaxing in bed reading mse while OH is out getting the papers and orange juice - going to have croissants and coffee soon for brekkie then watch all the politics shows then go out for a nice long run a bit later mmmmm the perfect Sunday

Have a good day everyone

tenmah

Morning All

Well after yesterday's 'can't be bothered' I am going to get as much done today as I can!

Off to start with the bathroom, I may be some time........

Have a good day all

Ames

Morning! OU/Here/Reading/Housework is the order of the day for me. I've felt pants lately, when I was ill I just didn't want to do anything so everything's slipped. I'm raring to go again now though, especially with the OU stuff after yesterday's tutorial.

Toto, that's awful. I really can't understand why my sister wants to go into that industry.