Don't want item I've succesfully bid on

willa

*Scottish*Lass* wrote: »

OMG!! lol found this when I was looking for the original one I saw! Have a look at this!

this is the one I found at the weekend. You've gotta laugh.......

Yep, those pictures show how really great those shoes will look on, I bet women will be fighting to buy these :rolleyes:.

flippin36

Anyway back to OP. If you have a good reason for not wanting to buy item ie. you hadn't read the details properly, or its not what you thought you were bidding on, as a seller I would be understanding (but a little miffed). If its just because you changed your mind I wouldn't be too happy at all about non payment. The worse thing is a buyer not communicating.

White_Panther

Have you checked to see if they have a "returns policy"? why not wait until it arrives and find some reason for returning it and get your money back. We've had to do it a few times due to the item not living up to the description, in fact a couple times they've just told us to keep it & still refunded the money....

*Scottish*Lass*

skintbint wrote: »

she must be doing something right she's got 100% feedback! did you not see the link about a fortnight ago for the un"worn" knickers now that was a listing to behold - she certainly didnae use DAZ! (get yourself round the back of the GIG on saturday and see what you can find -does it still exist?)

lol Yeah I saw that! *shudders* lol The Gig?? Aye, it's still there, it'd have to be a cold day in hell before I went trawling for used undies behind a grotty pub though!! :eek::rotfl:

Lotus-eater

White_Panther wrote: »

Have you checked to see if they have a "returns policy"? why not wait until it arrives and find some reason for returning it and get your money back. We've had to do it a few times due to the item not living up to the description, in fact a couple times they've just told us to keep it & still refunded the money....

Yep, you see, this is what I was talking about the other day, people are taking advantage of sellers not being able to leave neg feedback and people like this ^ are on the good side of the line, there are many out there that deliberately go out to get free or very cheap stuff.

flippin36

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Yep, you see, this is what I was talking about the other day, people are taking advantage of sellers not being able to leave neg feedback and people like this ^ are on the good side of the line, there are many out there that deliberately go out to get free or very cheap stuff.

I agree. I never had a NPBidder until the feeback rules changed. Now I get at least one per batch (roughly 1 in 20 items). I don't mind so much if the buyer contacts me with a good explanation, I'm very reasonable. But I have people just go very quite, no communication and ignore reminders. Which means I haven no idea whether to relist the item or offer it to another bidder. Very frustrating.

fiscalfreckles

As a seller, I have to say this is really annoying - it has just happened to me and I can try & second chance the item to someone, but its all a delay & hassle and I will lose out regarding fees on the initial "sale".

Not sure what to do really, regarding the winning bidder who has "changed her mind", very apologetic & has good feedback but aaaaargh!

Amber_Sunshine

*Scottish*Lass* wrote: »

OMG!! lol found this when I was looking for the original one I saw! Have a look at this!QUOTE]

From the description - PLEASE NOTE NOTHING IS BEING PORTRAYED IN A SEXUAL MANOR...

Sexual Manor ... sounds like something out of a Confessions film :rotfl:

Morty_007

*Scottish*Lass* wrote: »

LMAO :rotfl: YOU NEVER! :rotfl:

yeah

I can't believe some of the awfully stinky old shoes and what they fetch! You can almost smell them just by looking at them!!

Morty_007

*Scottish*Lass* wrote: »

OMG!! lol found this when I was looking for the original one I saw! Have a look at this!

this is the one I found at the weekend. You've gotta laugh.......

You see if I bought these I might have to report them for misdescribing the item. They JUST aren't as well used as SOME I have seen!
(Sorry OP for hijacking the thread, my lips are sealed now...promise)