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Sick pet and PDSA

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  • Minxy_Bella
    Minxy_Bella Posts: 1,948 Forumite
    I am so sorry for your loss.

    xxxx
  • I'm sorry for your loss hun, please remeber the good times with your little man and all the happiness you brought into each others lives you did the right thing letting him go. xxx
  • chris_n_tj
    chris_n_tj Posts: 2,659 Forumite
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    I am so sorry for your loss Lemma, just rememebr you did the one final special thing for your beloved friend, i send you a hug and my thoughts are with you.
    Chris n tj xxxx

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    RIP TJ. You my be gone, but never forgotten. Always in our hearts xxx
    He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog.
    You are his life, his love, his leader.
    He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart.
    You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion.
  • RacyRed
    RacyRed Posts: 4,930 Forumite
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    I'm so sorry to read this. Hugs to you and your parents.

    Run free at Rainbow Bridge little fellow.
    My first reply was witty and intellectual but I lost it so you got this one instead :D
    Proud to be a chic shopper
    :cool:
  • Kimberley
    Kimberley Posts: 14,871 Forumite
    I'm so sorry for your loss and the fact that you had to suffer from the hands of the internet police at the beginning of this thread.
  • lowis
    lowis Posts: 1,952 Forumite
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    i'm sorry for your loss...i too put a much loved pet to sleep yesterday so know exactly what you are going through. my thoughts are with you xxx
  • walwin
    walwin Posts: 8,713 Forumite
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    I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you xxx
  • moggylover
    moggylover Posts: 13,324 Forumite
    I wonder if you've mixed up the OP with another post?




    I see nothing derogatory about the PDSA.



    I don't see a request for financial support - just a general "what can I do" request for help.



    If we approach all new cases of uninsured pets on the basis that there's a history on the board of lack of insurance, then the Board will have no role to play in helping those who need some guidance. We could just have a standard response of "Sod off you irresponsible pet-owner, you should have got insurance" ;)

    If the Board is to have a helpful function, then we need to approach new posts with an open mind, initially - just IMHO. Those posting here clearly care for the welfare of their pets - if they didn't care, they wouldn't post, surely? :confused:

    Hindsight is a wonderful thing but "we are where we are" and finding solutions should be the only objective ...? :confused:

    I do think the OP has a valid point about the PDSA though. I wasn't aware that they operated "catchment" areas - I thought the only eligibility criteria was lack of affordability, tested by the reciept of certain benefits. I guess that if the OP's parents were able and willing to travel to another catchment area that they still wouldn't qualify as they would then be "out of area" ... which is difficult to understand, as if the owners travel at their own expense, then there's no additional cost to the PDSA. I wonder if those who donate realise that this is how they work? :confused:


    :T:T:T:T Very well said! And it really DID need saying.
    "there are some persons in this World who, unable to give better proof of being wise, take a strange delight in showing what they think they have sagaciously read in mankind by uncharitable suspicions of them"
    (Herman Melville)
  • patchwork_cat
    patchwork_cat Posts: 5,874 Forumite
    One problem that the OP is facing is one that we too face. Once a dog gets older the insurance cost is phenomenal if you can get it.

    I actually give all my second hand stuff to the PDSA shop, gift aided, and we have raised £300 for them according to their letters this year, but we are not eligible to use their services. I do hope that all those who are eligible also donate and gift aid if they can.

    Hugs lemma all the best.
  • moggylover
    moggylover Posts: 13,324 Forumite
    So very sorry for your loss lemma - and also for all the nastiness you originally incurred on this thread.

    The "perfect peeps" are legion on MSE and by far the best thing to do with them is ignore them;)
    "there are some persons in this World who, unable to give better proof of being wise, take a strange delight in showing what they think they have sagaciously read in mankind by uncharitable suspicions of them"
    (Herman Melville)
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