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essexhoney

Ahh i know Lee Chapel North well i lived there for 2 years before the council moved me to Laindon - i loved the place and didnt want to leave

Im sure its going to be another one of those days OH has the day off work and is attempting to put together bedroom furniture (he is bloody useless at any sort of DIY) and in the hour i have been up i have been told -
'Im a woman i have no idea what im talking about'
'Its a mans job leave it to the man'
'Its up to me to go to b&q and get the missing bit' (he has lost a bit and cant find it was all there yesterday when i checked)

I really do dislike him when he is like this he makes me feel compltely usless - except the thing is i know that i can do it without his help yet he wont give me the chance to prove it to him becuase for some reason he feels the need to prove himself that he is the man of the house

Sorry for ranting Not a very good start for the day is it

whatamess_2

Morning all.
miroslav ukb made some very good points listen to them and take them on board.

ukb, how are you?

kp, did you text him?

cg, where are you?:wave:

Urbs, what is going on re work?

essex is he getting in a state about the baby and trying to be all manly and protective?

Any body else a big :hello: :grouphug:

Its so humid here think I`m going to suffocate,

Have a good day Messy.

essexhoney

whatamess wrote:

essex is he getting in a state about the baby and trying to be all manly and protective?

i think that may be what it is, we still have 2 rooms to decorate and the kitchen floor to lay and more furniture to put together before the baby arrives.
It just upsets me so much when he is like that makes me feel really inferior

ukbadger_2

Hi Whatamess - I'm much better thanks

Will have to face Psycho (mother) tonight as it's Weightwatchers night.

Girls from work just surprised me with some leaving gifts and I had a few tears - they got me a gorgeous Radley pink leather notepad and a pink terramundi for my £2 coin collection. Both things I have longer for recently but wouldn't buy for myself - I am delighted !

Off to get us all pizza for lunch as a treat (Beggar WW !) don't really think it has sunk in that I have just two days left at work , mixed emotions and I love the girls in my office but hate the managers on the whole I can't wait to leave !!!!

I hope everyone is have a lovely day !

Hayley

waterlilyann

I hope you don't mind Wannabe but I've nominated you for Post of the Month!! By starting this thread we've all managed to find a place full of people feeling the same who give unconditional support - and it's all because of you....thank you!!!!

Careful_girl

Now you. We are here and we all care and you can rant all you want.You're part of our bunch and we all like you. Otherwise nobody would reply to your posts. You are the only one to ask for our likes and dislikes (some lazy-reports-cow just hasn't answered yet!). You have been through an unbelievable time and your partner search will be successful. If you are unhappy with going out and crowds why don't you do online dating/chatting. I found my first experience of this was amazement that suddenly what you say is what is important. I much prefer people to know what I think and like what I say rather than just look at what I look like. Many times I have been attracted to people by what they say and conversly gone off people by what they say.
We will be there coz we like you.
Hi messy bit busy but will be around a bit.
Hugs to all
CG

KathrynPenguin

Evening all

Good day for me, some great stuff happened at work (but can't discuss as others read this forum). Texted hubby this morning and he was OK, he came round for a while this evening and helped me get DS to bed and we didn't argue for once.

Glad this post has been nominated.

Miroslav, hope today picked up for you.

Essex, still have my fingers crossed.

How strange that essex honey lived in my area and cant cope really nearby. I always laugh at lifes little coincidences!

Careful_girl

Well I have added my little vote to our Wannubs -good thinking WL good job your brain was in gear. Now we have to make sure she wins. He He. Is it like BB and you aren't meant to discuss nominations?!!!!!!!:rotfl:
:j Kp glad you had a good day.
Shan't speak to soon but nearly finished them.
Major drinking needed when I do. Think I sorted a problem I had at work today too. Well it has improved.
Take care you lot,
CG (May be changing this to Cheeky girl):p

essexhoney

I have had one hell of an evening! Only been back from the hospital about 30minutes but im absolutly shattered so il update you all tomorrow but its good news for once! :T :T :T

Hope you all have a goodnights sleep im definatly off to bed in a mo xxx

whatamess_2

Morning all.:)
An ungodly o clock again.:( Have been up over an hour already. Lovely sunrise though.

Young people are all still asleep:) probably because its a lot cooler tonight.
My vote is going on there as well. Post of the month that is.

Some good news as well from others, excellent.

I managed to get a car dont ask at what interest rate cause I am not telling.
Very un mse. But its a lovely sports coupe. Must be having my midlife

Wheres urbs?

Waiting for follow ups to peoples news?

Messy