CSA taking to much,what can I do

chriszzz

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

But I am entitled to my opinion and no one has the right to judge me on that. Looks like someone needs to practice what they preach, then who gave you the right to judge others???

YOUR opinion is that I have no empathy. My empathy (and bucketloads of it) lies with the poor kids left behind. As I have said, when you become a parent, most decent parents know that the kids come first no matter what. You would do anything for them. I don't think choosing to take a parent away from them (via taking their own life) is a sign of putting them first.

And as there is a risk factor to suicide, due to family breakdown!! Not all suicides are men leaving children behind, so what your saying is that the people who commit suicide are selfish cowards or are you just saying that it just men who commit suicide are the selfish cowards ???

speedster

DX2 wrote: »

Indeed also MIA :whistle:

i think your paranoia is working overtime.

i don't need to hide. i say what i think and i don't need to collude with either alter egos or other posters to get the thanks quota up.

that's just sad.

speedster

chriszzz wrote: »

And as there is a risk factor to suicide, due to family breakdown!! Not all suicides are men leaving children behind, so what your saying is that the people who commit suicide are selfish cowards or are you just saying that it just men who commit suicide are the selfish cowards ???

chris.

don't waste your time. idiots spend their whole lives striving to get a bad attitude.

you'll get a sore head banging your head on that brick wall.

Loopy_Girl

I am saying that all people that do it are selfish cowards irrespective of gender but particularly cases where there are children involved.

Chris, you and I clearly have differing views on this and I do not want to get into a debate about it and get the thread locked. Those are my views, and whilst I appreciate not everyone will agree with them, I would ask you to respect them just as I respect your view.

With regards to the '62 CSA cases' my point is, which Lizzie picked up on, is that no one can say what other issues a person had so I fail to see how one organisation could be 'blamed' (if something can be blamed by a person choosing to do it) but then I can see that the headlines are more catchy that person doing it over their water rates.

speedster

as blob has already posted, they are being held responsible for driving men to suicide.

otherwise they wouldn't have lost their immunity. this draconian agency has plenty of blood on it's hands and the courts rulings confirm this.

facts carry more weight than a daft opinion.

chriszzz

Loopy_Girl wrote: »

I am saying that all people that do it are selfish cowards irrespective of gender but particularly cases where there are children involved.

Chris, you and I clearly have differing views on this and I do not want to get into a debate about it and get the thread locked. Those are my views, and whilst I appreciate not everyone will agree with them, I would ask you to respect them just as I respect your view.

With regards to the '62 CSA cases' my point is, which Lizzie picked up on, is that no one can say what other issues a person had so I fail to see how one organisation could be 'blamed' (if something can be blamed by a person choosing to do it) but then I can see that the headlines are more catchy that person doing it over their water rates.

Loopygirl, yes we both do have different views and you have been sharing your views for all to read, but you also have to understand that people will come back at you if they don't share the same view... as you do with them and others that share the same view as you, there does seem to be people on here who have their little followers backing them up and I ask you to respect my view that I don't agree on your attitude on people who commit suicide. I will not judge people no matter of age, gender or circumstances that makes these people take their own life.

I am not going into an argument with you because I can see whats happening here but if you cant handle people who don't share you opinion then maybe you should keep some of your opinions to close to your heart.

alwaysonthego_2

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