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Marriage Seperation - Help Please

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  • Mutter_2
    Mutter_2 Posts: 1,307 Forumite
    Thanks Mrs Tine. My posts are only worthy of the dreaded Arms :D

    Congratulations by the way on your new family member.
  • Thanks for all the advice. She is not a bad person and i did nothing wrong to end our relationship she did just decide she wanted someone else. That hurt cause she did start seeing other guys as soon as she said she wanted seperation.
    We BOTH need help but i am not involved in her affairs now so cannot give her side. She would hopefully be entitled to more benefits etc but only she can sort that cause i dont know all her ins and outs now.
    I now Rent a 3 bed house with my brother so i can have them stay. Its cheaper than renting a one bed flat where also i couldn't have them stay. After bills iam left with £400 per month to pay petrol and food. She is asking for £300 per month. I want to pay as much as i can towards my kids but obvioulsy i cannot live on £100 a month for food and petrol. This is why i need help.
    Its time to nut up or shut up......!:laugh:
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  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,539 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Hi

    The CSA say that you should pay 15 percent of your net income for one child and 20 percent for 2 or more.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
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