Advice on ex's new partner meeting son

red_devil

or do not want to offer advice then feel free to not reply.

i did offer advice in my first post. I also told you that you will not always agree on everything but you dont think im right. I also said what guarantees are there that any relationship will be long lasting? Its a case of muddling on with ex partners.

I think you only want to hear what you want to hear so so be it! I personally feel you are trying to control everything. Alot of women do this they forget the child has a father too who dosent have to report to the ex over every little thing or show off their gf for the exes approval.

red_devil

maggied wrote: »

I agree with Duchy.

It's your ex's decision as well as yours and I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate him telling you what to do with respect to new partners and your son's upbringing. If he was good enough for you to have a child with then he should be good enough to make these decisions.

Exactly.

ameliarate

I must say I agree with those who say it is up to your ex to make these decision. My brother's ex-wife is for ever trying to control things like who their children can meet/spend time with etc. Regardless of who does the majority of the caring the father has as much right to have a new life and make decisions regarding his own children. I doubt he is going to introduce your child to someone he doesn't like and trust.