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Weekly Flylady Thread 9th November 2009

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  • Poppytime
    Poppytime Posts: 8,353 Forumite
    ajmoney - Sorry to hear about your OH's father. I lost both my father and uncle within 2weeks of each other in February of this year. Has his diagnosis of dementia been confirmed? The reason I am asking is because although my uncle was showing signs of dementia, on further investigation when moved to a different hospital for scans they showed up a cancerous tumour on the brain. He deteriorated very very quickly after this. I hope you dont mind me asking and feel free not to reply if you dont want to :o
    I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints - the sinners are much more fun ;)

  • ajmoney
    ajmoney Posts: 6,470 Forumite
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    Poppytime wrote: »
    ajmoney - Sorry to hear about your OH's father. I lost both my father and uncle within 2weeks of each other in February of this year. Has his diagnosis of dementia been confirmed? The reason I am asking is because although my uncle was showing signs of dementia, on further investigation when moved to a different hospital for scans they showed up a cancerous tumour on the brain. He deteriorated very very quickly after this. I hope you dont mind me asking and feel free not to reply if you dont want to :o

    Yes, he was diagnosed with vascular dementia in September. He had a brain scan last week when his speech went a bit slurred and they have confirmed the clot on his brain (I guess this is part of the dementia) has got bigger. He may be in a hospital but I am not sure he is in the right place or getting the right support, or maybe I am being paranoid.
    MFW 2025 No. 7 £1931.07/£2700
    MFiT-T7 No. 6 £4868.07/£30,000
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    Triker wrote: »
    .

    DD1 has left college, apparently a tutor has decided that she is too behind in her work and will not catch up, she was fine for the other subjects though but they have a new policy and if one tutor says no then they have to leave. Others tutors have strongly hinted that she should return but not take any subject with that tutor as she has a reputation (the tutor not my daughter)!!! DD1 relieved and has a Connexions appointment on thursday and will see what her options are, she does intend to go back to college next year though which is something. Something will come up.

    There are part time position going at laser quest and game station if she can handle it??.. Any good?

    I hope she is a little happier now she no longer has the pressure of college around her now.
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • Poppytime
    Poppytime Posts: 8,353 Forumite
    ajmoney wrote: »
    Yes, he was diagnosed with vascular dementia in September. He had a brain scan last week when his speech went a bit slurred and they have confirmed the clot on his brain (I guess this is part of the dementia) has got bigger. He may be in a hospital but I am not sure he is in the right place or getting the right support, or maybe I am being paranoid.

    It is a difficult and very heart rendering situation. I am sure you are not being paranoid - we just want the best for them and it is hard to know what 'best' is. Familiarity is important to them and I hope things improve for you and OH
    I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints - the sinners are much more fun ;)

  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    edited 10 November 2009 at 4:53PM
    Hi

    Just to let you know I've heard from Diva she's OK......just a bit tired, so I'm sure she will be back soon :D



    No flying to report.....I'm having a rest day :o:o


    xx
    Glad to hear it, I was worried:o
    Thanks for letting us know:kisses3:

    And you are perfectly entitled to have rest days you know;)

    ETA: I have decluttered a load of emails :D
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • ajmoney
    ajmoney Posts: 6,470 Forumite
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    Don't think I am going to fly today, will catch up when I do tomorrow's list. I am cooking dinner at the mo (we didn't eat until 9.30 last night :eek:) and I have made sure everywhere is tidy, just a quick wipe round the bathroom to do.
    MFW 2025 No. 7 £1931.07/£2700
    MFiT-T7 No. 6 £4868.07/£30,000
  • froddington
    froddington Posts: 6,697 Forumite
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    List updated

    Monday~ Kitchen of Grot and Dining Room of Gloom

    Level One
    [STRIKE]Declutter [/STRIKE]and mop/vacuum the floors

    Level Two
    Clear a sticky dishevelled cupboard

    Tuesday ~ Living room, hall and stairs

    Level One
    Declutter and degrot the floors
    Vacuum floor

    Level Two
    Dust and deweb
    Wipe all the paintwork in the hall and stairs

    Daily
    - Exercise (walk; Wii; etc.)[STRIKE] M [/STRIKE]Tu W Th F Sa Su
    - Ebay at least 2 items [STRIKE] M [/STRIKE] Tu W Th F Sa Su

    My 2-a-day list!
    - bank cheque; [STRIKE]post x 4[/STRIKE]
    - sort mum's computer; collect Avon
    - sort through CDs; [STRIKE]sort through DVDs[/STRIKE]
    - optician's appt; [STRIKE]doc's appt[/STRIKE]
    - filing; shredding
    - sort blue box; [STRIKE]buy address book[/STRIKE]
    - buy tickets; sort through videos

    HHC 5:00 - 5:30 anyone?
    "There's only one way of life and that's your own" - Levellers

    "I'm feeling like a Monday but someday I'll be Saturday night" - Bon Jovi
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    edited 10 November 2009 at 5:11PM
    Listy-loo

    [STRIKE]WM [/STRIKE]x2
    [STRIKE]DW[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]TD[/STRIKE] x1
    [STRIKE]Laundry folded[/STRIKE] and away
    ring uni to make appt with tutor.. whom I have still not met yet!!!
    quote for new windows got and signed (£300 cheaper than last quote!)

    Monday~ Kitchen of Grot and Dining Room of Gloom
    Level One
    Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
    Wipe the worksurfaces
    Level Two
    Wipe the big appliances and units..
    Wipe small appliances and replace
    Clear a sticky dishevelled cupboard
    Level Three
    Clean the hob.. :D

    Tuesday ~ Living room, hall and stairs
    Level One
    Declutter and degrot the floors
    Vacuum/mop floor
    Level Two
    Wipe the sofas
    Level Three
    Clear and wipe the mantel and put back only what should be there.

    Clear Landing of everything
    wash and rehang curtains from DD1's room
    chucked DS3's old junior bed which hasn't beenused for 5 years so I doubt it will be needed!
    binbag dance
    x7.. and you can't tell!!
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • toochoosey
    toochoosey Posts: 7,371 Forumite
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    Daily routines
    washing, [STRIKE]M [/STRIKE][STRIKE]T [/STRIKE]W T F S
    swish and swipe kitchen [STRIKE]M[/STRIKE] [STRIKE]T [/STRIKE]W T F S
    swsh and swipe bathroom, [STRIKE]M[/STRIKE][STRIKE] T [/STRIKE]W T F S
    ironing, M T W T F S
    making beds, [STRIKE]M [/STRIKE][STRIKE]T[/STRIKE] W T F S
    vacuuming high traffic areas,[STRIKE] M [/STRIKE]T W T F S
    making meals [STRIKE]M T[/STRIKE] W T F S

    Night-time routines
    preparing clothes for the next day, [STRIKE]M [/STRIKE]T W T F S
    swish & swipes of the kitchen [STRIKE]M[/STRIKE] T W T F S
    tidying the living room [STRIKE]M [/STRIKE]T W T F S
    Ok here goes this week!

    Monday~ Kitchen of Grot and Dining Room of Gloom
    Level One
    mop the floors

    1. Wash the windows
    2. HHI
    3. Take a freezer/fridge inventory and see if you can start using it up and making space for christmas goodies!!
    Tuesday ~ Living room, hall and stairs
    Level One
    Vacuum/mop floor
    Level Two

    Wipe the sofas
    Level Three
    Check smoke alarms..
    Sort coats, shoes and bags into their proper places.. are any outgrown? need replacing?


    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. Declutter and make pretty the airing cupboard/linen store
    3. binbag dance
    4. Make sure you have christmas cards.. especially those 'special' ones you get.. you know daughter/mother/husband etc
    Have filled a large bag with clothes ready to go into school tomorrow, DD having dinner now so will run the hoover over the floors and sofa when she is finished....
    Glad to here Diva is ok.
    Hugs aj for you, hubby and famiy xx
    Triker, hope DD finds something she enjoys xx
  • Wow!!!
    It's the simple things that make a difference:o my settee is old and needs re-covering. It was a hand down from my mum and she spent over a thousand on it ten years ago, so better to re-do than buy new. I have throws on it to cover the patches and tidy them every day.

    Today I took them all off, shook them and put them back. It looked SO much better! Why didn't I think of it before?

    Also the man has been to fix my gutter/roof/flashing problem so tomorrow I can blitz the bedroom. As everything has been moved away to make room for the buckets, it's been pointless doing it, so tomorrow, me and my trusty binbags will attack it with a vengeance.

    No other flying done other than basics, S&S kitchen and bathroom.
    Debts at LBM - Mortgages £128497 - non mortgage £27497 Debt now £[STRIKE]114150[/STRIKE][STRIKE]109032[/STRIKE] 64300 (mortgage) Credit cards left 0



    "The days pass so fast, let's try to make each one better than the last"
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