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Weekly Flylady Thread 9th November 2009

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  • Triker
    Triker Posts: 7,247 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Gawd, I CBA'd today at all. Loads to do, no inclination to do anything.

    Went into town briefly aand looked at pressies but again, could'nt be bothered nor was I inspired even with super dooper Boots deals that I wouldn't have to pay with cash for (use points)....just lost my shopping mojo really.

    DD2 is having her friend over tonight so I'll pick them up later until then I'm doing nowt.
    DFW Nerd 267. DEBT FREE 11.06.08
    Stick to It by R.B. Stanfield
    It matters not if you try and fail,
    And fail, and try again; But it matters much if you try and fail, And fail to try again.
  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    edited 14 November 2009 at 5:36PM
    valli did you get my email ?
    thanks for tryting to help xx

    ok I had better go catch up with what you have all been up to and do stars back later
    toots xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    If you can-ba you are more than welcome to come for coffee once you've collected the extra.. ?? I totally understand if you want to stay home in the warmth.. :D.. Dunno about losing the will to shop.. I've lost the will to live today.. I have DS3 wailing because I charity shopped his age 7-8 dressing gown.. he is nearly 11!! DD's 4 & 5 are wailing because they wanted to tidy their room so I gave them a binbag and DD1 wailing because I told her to pick her crap off the landing!! .. !!!!!!....

    I am ringing their absent waste of atoms parent and asking him if he is not busy tomorrow to take them to church in the morning and get rid of them for a few hours before I murder them!
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    pigpen wrote: »
    If you can-ba you are more than welcome to come for coffee once you've collected the extra.. ?? I totally understand if you want to stay home in the warmth.. :D.. Dunno about losing the will to shop.. I've lost the will to live today.. I have DS3 wailing because I charity shopped his age 7-8 dressing gown.. he is nearly 11!! DD's 4 & 5 are wailing because they wanted to tidy their room so I gave them a binbag and DD1 wailing because I told her to pick her crap off the landing!! .. !!!!!!....

    I am ringing their absent waste of atoms parent and asking him if he is not busy tomorrow to take them to church in the morning and get rid of them for a few hours before I murder them!

    Poor you piggers, deep breath now my dear.

    I'd pop in for a coffee but there's no way I'm tackling that M62 right now!

    I cannot describe how I feel today - like I have been hit with a jugganaut and picked myself up and carried on as usual comes the closest to it. numby numb numb. Ex told me to go out at Christmas and meet someone else - thanks. Found a card his new love had sent him, declaring just that. No chance of any repairs to the relationship. Need to pack it up in a box and chuck it out. Ready to burn all the cards that no longer mean anything. Got a big box to put it into and then parcel tape it up and chuck it in the tip.
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • lav1979
    lav1979 Posts: 164 Forumite
    Dear Girls

    I have been missing in action for soooo long, family traumas, hubbie's grandad died 2 weeks ago, expected but still hard. It is was strange being the other side of the fence and other stuff - keeping the peace over xmas arrangements.
    Now i found out i'm 6 weeks pregnant i think haven't told anyone (well except hubbie lol) and u lot:rotfl:. A bit surprised tbh, not exactly trying and not stopping it either if you know what I mean. v. happy but cant quite believe it :A:D

    Right now to important matters -
    ZLJ - Big hugs and stay strong, u are a wonderful mum.:A
    TOOTS - Big hugs and hope u are behaving:rotfl:
    SEXY - sounds like u have had an awful time and u have come through the other side as a star:j:D:A
    LL- Big hugs:A
    VALLI - Does the flylady bar do non alcoholic drinks ??:beer:
    PIGGERS - U are wonder woman, the house sounds like its going under a transformation:j:D
    And BIG HUGS, CONGRATULATIONS AND SYMPATHY to all that need and no doubt I have forgotten xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    I have still been flying in a fashion so here is this weeks efforts.



    Monday
    ~ Kitchen of Grot and Dining Room of Gloom
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
    Clear and wipe the worksurfaces[/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards[/STRIKE]
    Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
    Clear a sticky dishevelled cupboard
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Wipe the table and replace the cloth if necessary.
    Binbag dance![/STRIKE]
    Clean the oven and hob.. :D



    Extras
    1. Clean blinds/curtains and light fittings
    2. Wash the windows
    3. HHI
    4. Take a freezer/fridge inventory and see if you can start using it up and making space for christmas goodies!!
    Tuesday ~ Living room, hall and stairs
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Declutter and degrot the floors
    Vacuum/mop floor[/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    Dust and deweb
    Wipe all the paintwork in the hall and stairs
    Wipe the sofas
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Check smoke alarms..
    Clear and wipe the table/mantel/etc and put back only what should be there.[/STRIKE]
    Check oil/coal stores and prices for those who need them for their winter heating. N/A
    Sort coats, shoes and bags into their proper places.. are any outgrown? need replacing?



    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]HHI [/STRIKE] X4
    2. [STRIKE]Declutter and make pretty the airing cupboard/linen store[/STRIKE]
    3. binbag dance
    4. [STRIKE]Make sure you have christmas cards.. especially those 'special' ones you get.. you know daughter/mother/husband etc[/STRIKE]
    Wednesday ~ Master Bedroom and landing
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Declutter floor and floordrobe
    Strip wash and replace bedding[/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    Vacuum Floors
    Dust and Deweb
    Binbag dance
    Level Three
    Tidy the under stair cupboard
    Wipe down the paintwork
    Tidy away and shoes or books that are strewn about



    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]Find some bits to send to charity shop/recycle[/STRIKE]
    2. Wash windows
    3. Wash any curtains etc that need it
    4. Sort through your make up and smellies.. are there any that can be rehomed/chucked?
    Thursday ~ Bathroom and study..
    Level One
    Declutter floors
    Clean bath, loo, shower.. etc etc.. you get the idea..
    Level Two
    Mop/vacuum floors
    Wipe the desk keyboard monitor etc..
    Pull out the desk and clean under and behind.. :D
    [STRIKE]15 minutes filing[/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Clean doors
    Empty and wash out bins
    Clean radiators/fires in these rooms

    Extras
    1. Wash windows and sills
    2. Decant dribbles from bottles into fuller ones and bin those empties
    3. Wipe over sofas & chairs in these rooms
    4. Clean paintwork
    Friday ~ Kiddies rooms, Spare rooms or another neglected room
    Level One

    [STRIKE]Declutter and vacuum the floor
    Tidy away all the toys and clothes and games and books that are in the wrong places
    Spend half an hour doing something for yourself.. you time is very important![/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    Strip and wash bedding and replace with clean.. vacuum and turn mattresses if needed
    Wash any other soft furnishings.. curtains etc
    Sort through a chest of drawers.. dispose of anything that is outgrown, worn out
    Level Three
    Dust and deweb
    Wipe over the bedframes and paintwork
    Binbag dance!
    Extras
    1. Wash windows and sills
    2. Wipe all the upstairs doors.. both sides!
    3. Sort through one box or drawer filled with miscellaneous gibble.. from any room.. it just needs it!!
    4. [STRIKE]HHI[/STRIKE]
    DETAILS OF CHRISTMAS CARD EXCHANGE ON THE FACEBOOK GROUP!

    No stars yet, but hoping for one by Sunday teatime:rotfl::rotfl:

    LITTLE STEPS
    Became a mummy 30/07/10 and 13/02/15:j
    keep smiling:D
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,561 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    The flylady bar serves whatever you want Lav
    congratulations BTW!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 18,076 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    onday~ Kitchen of Grot and Dining Room of Gloom
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Declutter[/STRIKE] and mop/vacuum the floors
    [STRIKE] Clear and wipe the worksurfaces[/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
    Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
    Clear a sticky dishevelled cupboard
    Level Three
    [STRIKE] Wipe the table and replace the cloth if necessary.[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE] Binbag dance![/STRIKE]
    Clean the oven and [STRIKE]hob[/STRIKE].. :D



    Extras
    1. Clean blinds/curtains and light fittings
    2. Wash the windows
    3. [STRIKE]HHI[/STRIKE]
    4. [STRIKE]Take a freezer/fridge inventory and see if you can start using it up and making space for christmas goodies!![/STRIKE]
    Tuesday ~ Living room, hall and stairs
    Level One
    [STRIKE] Declutter and degrot the floors[/STRIKE]
    Vacuum/mop floor
    Level Two
    Dust and deweb
    Wipe all the paintwork in the hall and stairs
    Wipe the sofas
    Level Three
    Check smoke alarms..
    Clear and wipe the table/mantel/etc and put back only what should be there.
    Check oil/coal stores and prices for those who need them for their winter heating.
    [STRIKE] Sort coats, shoes and bags into their proper places.. are any outgrown? need replacing?[/STRIKE]
    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. Declutter and make pretty the airing cupboard/linen store
    3. [STRIKE]binbag dance[/STRIKE]
    4. Make sure you have christmas cards.. especially those 'special' ones you get.. you know daughter/mother/husband etc
    Wednesday ~ Master Bedroom and landing
    Level One
    [STRIKE] Declutter floor and floordrobe[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE] Strip wash and replace bedding[/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    Vacuum Floors
    Dust and Deweb
    [STRIKE] Binbag dance[/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Tidy the under stair cupboard
    Wipe down the paintwork
    [STRIKE] Tidy away and shoes or books that are strewn about[/STRIKE]



    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]Find some bits to send to charity shop/recycle[/STRIKE]
    2. Wash windows
    3. Wash any curtains etc that need it
    4. Sort through your make up and smellies.. are there any that can be rehomed/chucked?
    Thursday ~ Bathroom and study..
    Level One
    [STRIKE] Declutter floors[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE] Clean bath, loo, shower.. etc etc.. you get the idea.. [/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    Mop/vacuum floors
    Wipe the desk keyboard monitor etc..
    Pull out the desk and clean under and behind.. :D
    15 minutes filing
    Level Three
    Clean doors
    [STRIKE] Empty and wash out bins[/STRIKE]
    Clean radiators/fires in these rooms

    Extras
    1. Wash windows and sills
    2. [STRIKE]Decant dribbles from bottles into fuller ones and bin those empties[/STRIKE]
    3. Wipe over sofas & chairs in these rooms
    4. Clean paintwork
    Friday ~ Kiddies rooms, Spare rooms or another neglected room
    Level One

    [STRIKE]Declutter[/STRIKE] and vacuum the floor
    [STRIKE] Tidy away all the stuff that is in the wrong places[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE] Spend half an hour doing something for yourself.. you time is very important![/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    Strip and wash bedding and replace with clean.. vacuum and turn mattresses if needed
    Wash any other soft furnishings.. curtains etc
    Sort through a chest of drawers.. dispose of anything that is outgrown, worn out
    Level Three
    Dust and deweb
    Wipe over the bedframes and paintwork
    Binbag dance!
    Extras
    1. Wash windows and sills
    2. Wipe all the upstairs doors.. both sides!
    3. Sort through one box or drawer filled with miscellaneous gibble.. from any room.. it just needs it!!
    4. HHI
    Not much done, but seeing as I've been away, I'm quite pleased! Hopefully enough will get done in the garden tomorrow that I'll be able to spend Monday morning cleaning the mud out of the house!
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    pigpen wrote: »
    FOUND : LARGE BLACK DOG

    Doesn't appear to be chipped.
    Has 4 legs a droopy tail and growls every time someone thinks about it. So far today has bitten everyone in the house

    Anyone missing such a beast.. come get the horrible thing back I don't want it!
    well it it is NOT coming back here:mad::mad::mad::p
    why dont you be really generous for once and donate it to your EX - tie it to him so he is stuck with it and they can become friends
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,561 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    yes toots- glad you got it sorted..
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • helen_jelly
    helen_jelly Posts: 2,982 Forumite
    3rd time of trying to post!!

    I've just seen the weather on the TV - hope those of you that are having bad storms are ok and calm wind vibes to you all

    Helen x
    Projects made for craft fair - 40 :)
    1st fair on 13/4/14 :j
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