Trying For a Baby part 4

LilDevil

Thought I'd just crawl out of my wallow of self pity to give everyone lots of :grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: as there are quite a lot of us that needs them at the moment. Jacobsmum, I'm sorry to hear your news, sadly there's a few of us that know all too well how you're feeling right now, please take it easy and take the time out to grieve (I'm sure you know all this already).

On the me me me front (again, sorry I must be getting really boring now), I decided to weigh myself of the Wii fit, and I've lost 7lb since af arrived - this really isn't good, I know I need to lose (a hellava) lot of weight, but not like this. My stomach won't stop rumbling, but every time I eat it reappears 2 hours later (as you can tell, the baked potato wasn't a success ). My official weigh in day is Wednesday, so I dread to think what state I'll be in by then

twinklie

Well I just spoke to my friend. It looks increasingly likely that shes going to miscarry. However, oddly she's ok. Said it's made her realise that it's what they both want more than anything. So if she does lose the lil bean they want to jump straight back on the horse. I'm so proud of her for the way she's handling it! Yey for her.

EDIT: 2 days till I can POAS for CBFM! Yey!

LilDevil

twinklie wrote: »

Well I just spoke to my friend. It looks increasingly likely that shes going to miscarry. However, oddly she's ok. Said it's made her realise that it's what they both want more than anything. So if she does lose the lil bean they want to jump straight back on the horse. I'm so proud of her for the way she's handling it! Yey for her.

EDIT: 2 days till I can POAS for CBFM! Yey!

Aw sorry to hear about your friend Twinklie, I was keeping fingers crossed for her, she is very lucky to have such a good friend. You are very knowledgeable, so will be able to help her when she is ready jump back on this crazy ole wagon!

moneysaver12

Hugs jacobsmum. Sorry to hear about your friend twinkle

twinklie

OMG...in other news. I could actually cry with how broody I am after playing with my nephew yesterday. OMG...I WANT ONE!!!! I even admitted to my friend that I want one and that we are not, not trying. She said that for some reason that cheered her up and made her feel even better about the whole thing. She's weird...but I love her.

EDIT: For the second time I forgot. Sooooo sorry to here your news JMum. (((Hugs)))

stef240377

Twinklie - i think when you have persistent bleeding/spotting and you know in your heart things arent right you come to terms with it alot easier than waiting for a scan to find out after having no symptoms. I think the realisation will hit her though when she has the scan done @ epu. From there on in emotions and hormones will be all over the place. You should tell her to get on here and enjoy dodgy group hugs :grouphug:

dustystar02

So sorry to hear your news jacobsmum. sending you lots of love...xx

gratefulforhelp_2

jacobsmum wrote: »

hi all thank you so much for the support, went this morning and had a scan which showed that i have lost another am back on wed for another lot of bloods to make sure my hormones gone down.
Have been to docs also,have asked about tests and hes doing the bloods on thurs(8 btls eeekkkk) then when they get the results back will refer me to a gynocologist(sp)
how is everybody?

xx

Hugs, lovey. Thats very sad news.

twinklie

Thanks Stef. I did say to her that if the news gets confirmed she'll probably have a wobble, but that it's perfectly natural and to just go with what her body is telling her. If she needs to cry or stamp her feet then she should. Her OH is being amazing about it all as well, so thats nice.

She's on a different forum...a mums and babies type one. So we are comparing notes now! She knows about this one but I think there is something slightly comforting about not knowing anyone here in RL. IYSWIM. I've nothing to hide though. Does that make sense?

Maddie

jacobsmum, I'm so sorry to hear your news. Hope you are feeling ok xxx