Trying For a Baby part 4

jacobsmum

Maddie wrote: »

jacobsmum congrats on the BFP! and as above try not to worry too much. Are you going to see a doc?

yeh am going to see doc but am going to wait till maybe week after next as i dont want to go for him to say youve m/c'd id rather wait and see,if the bleeding stops i may go sooner but if it carrys on or gets heavyer ill leave it till then and see what he says.
hugs to elliebobs after my last clean out i felt all achy for about a week
i think
xx

stef240377

I had a dnc years ago and from what i vaguely remember i was in agony for nearly a week - i went for bed rest and remember pulling up on the bars on the headboard cos every time i moved my stomach was in and ended up pulling muscles in shoulders. I was a single parent of 3 toddlers at the time too.

TwiceasNice_2

Hi all,

Lots for me to catch up with but from memory (and forgive me if i forget)

Hugs to gts, smartie, elliesbob, Jacobsmum and anyone else who needs it.

I LOVE the story through icons fuzz!

I need some strategies to stop me testings before next weds. How do you wait, is there any coping tips you can give me!

Hugs

TAN
x

Maddie

jacobsmum wrote: »

yeh am going to see doc but am going to wait till maybe week after next as i dont want to go for him to say youve m/c'd id rather wait and see,if the bleeding stops i may go sooner but if it carrys on or gets heavyer ill leave it till then and see what he says.
hugs to elliebobs after my last clean out i felt all achy for about a week
i think
xx

I don't want to sound insensitive but thought perhaps it might be a good idea to see a doc in any case due to the whole 3 m/cs until we start looking into why issue.

jacobsmum

maddie: i prob will the begining of next week but at the mo im sorta thinking to myself i dont wanna go for them to say the worst and end it all iykwim?! you wasnt insensitive :)t
xx

LilDevil

elliebobs wrote: »

Hi all

back from the EPU and they have confirmed that there is still a 'mass of tissue' at the top of my cervix. I am booked in for a D and C tomorrow at 8am. I was warned that I would feel cruddy for at least a week or so after; is that the case????

I have such cruddy af's generally that I didn't think the pain was too bad after my D&C - not that that helps you in any way but will be thinking of you nonetheless!

Anyways, CD27 for me and started spotting, so AF will probably be here by morning, no pain yet, but again that will also probably be here by morning :rolleyes: :mad:

billybobberyl

hi sorry to butt back in, i posted before xmas having had a m/c that was a bit confused and almost diagnosed as an ectopic, anyway i have almost finished my first period since it happened and we want to start tring again as soon as poss.
trouble is im already terrified before it even starts.
dont know how i'll cope if it was to happen again, dont know how i'll cope worrying every day that it will happen, im scared if i dont fall pg startight away that im ghoing to feel like its not meant to be, im sorry for going on and changing the subject away from others who i know are having there own troubles, i feel for you all it is not a nice thing for anyone to deal with.
i keep thinking im ok and then find myself in tears, or thinking about what ifs etc,
sorry

stef240377

IMO if you are having all these thoughts right now i would say you are not mentally ready to go ahead with TTC.

One of the main things that has been pointed out on the board is that you have proven you can get pregnant so hold on to that thought and dont let the possibility of a long conception time or fear of mc stand in your way. Have you carried on taking folic acid since your mc? If not get started now, they recommend you take it for 3 months prior to attempting TTC so once that timeline steps in you may be more mentally ready. Another thing have you dtd since mc? are you comfortable in going through the process and not connecting it solely with baby making?

Dont apologise for posting its what the threads for. xx

ladylegs

Confuzzled, LOL. That's genius! I actually had my mouth open in shock looking at those disgusting bananas. Fruit should not be engaging in such activity. Thank you for adding me to the list. Much appreciated.

Elliebobs, I hope things go smoothly for you tomorrow and hope your recovery will be speedy. Hugs.

NMUN, Sounds like you need a plan of action, hun. What are your priorities, job, home, babies? Are you of an age where you can delay ttc until you are settled together? Or are you in your 30s like me and thinking time is of the essence?

Twiceasnice, Hello. Nice to er, read you! and all others on the forum who I haven't yet had the pleasure/pain.

billybobberyl I'm so sorry about your mc. I've only just had one too and am also worried about next time (if I am lucky enough of course) but not to the point of being terrified.
I agree with Stef and think it is vital to be emotionally ready -
grieve, shout, swear and do everything you need to do before trying again. Don't rush into it even if the body is ready.
I suppose the important thing for all of us to remember is that we can not affect the outcome, nor are we responsible if it is sadly not viable. Nature knows best and wants to create perfect little beings. Your time will come and you sound like you want it so so much so keep positive and come here and post...it's a mecca for wisdom, recipes, grumbles, talk of fumbles, symptoms, hormones, man issues, bloody tissues and pornographic smilies.x

rach

Hello all

Sorry haven't yet caught up. DH found out this morning he passed his final professional exams so we've had a chinese to celebrate!

I've been majorly S/Sing today!! Only 7dpo so unlikely to be anything but thought my cup of tea tasted gross at work this morning (i love tea!), mouth had a weird taste and then I was convinced my urine smelt weird. BUT I think just being silly! Oh plus when I checked for cf I had loads, literally loads of creamy stuff! Seems to have gone back to a normal amount now though.

love and sticky babydust to all...will catch up later. xx