Trying For a Baby part 4

moneysaver12

Hi everyone, don't know whats going on with my cycle. on day 16 now and my tempture had gone down today to normal. Does that mean ive not ov yet.

notttmyusualname

I cracked i caved and did the test i had in the house (not sure why other than i was a bit bored and feeling not right) was bfn sooooo im not even thinking about it anymore roll on AF arriving and next month (Af aint due til next week so testing was stupid and a waste of a test really but least i wont be tempted and well im not having tests in the house anymore now

priorities - some one asked? erm house isnt a priority really he owns a flat and its pretty much our flat now apart from the official moving in and changing bank details and deed poll stuff ? baby - we both want one and its probably our biggest priority after actually moving in together (we would move in together tomorow if i had a job down there?or we get pregnant which ever happens sooner??) job- i have a job but its definately not a priority? money wise we could live on his wages where he is now without him looking for a better job?the point of me getting a job down there whilst not pregnant was to bascially stick in a savings account every month?
Wow my priorities actually seem less confusing when i typed them out than they are in my head
So i guess our priorities are- Baby/Living together, house and then job really

think i might take a break from here for a few days

rach

moneysaver12 wrote: »

Hi everyone, don't know whats going on with my cycle. on day 16 now and my tempture had gone down today to normal. Does that mean ive not ov yet.

Sorry ms I'm no expert but didn't want you to feel no one was listening! Is it your first month temping? It does take time to see patterns I think. My temp varies by about .10 each day - kind of zig zags up and down!

QQuaver

smartie12 wrote: »

I've had no more bleeding since and feel sick so I think everythings ok. If I get anymore I will seek medical advice,

Glad you are feeling sick (in a nicest possible way:D)
Feel free to virtuallyme:p.

**confuzzled** wrote: »

Happy to oblige...................[/SIZE]

Those ok Ladylegs?:p Or theres always _pale_

That'll be useful, thanks:D

jacobsmum wrote: »

hi everyone thank you for all the support, have had a trip out to york today with mil to take my mind off everything.
am still spotting its red and there every time i wipe(tmi) my af is due around the 27/28th so a couple of weeks yet. have got bad belly ache at the mo so amgoing to cook tea and have a nice relaxing bath i think.

xx

Do relax, it's probably implantation bleeding;)

QQuaver

elliebobs wrote: »

I was warned that I would feel cruddy for at least a week or so after; is that the case????

I'd take a week off work. I thought I was dying at one point - it was that bad;) Only for few hours after taking the uterus shrinking pills though (twice a day for me). Get some sanitary towels ready.

It may be easier for you, since you've passed most already. Mine was a missed mc, so had the whole thing. Was 11 weeks (baby died 10 weeks).

billybobberyl wrote: »

trouble is im already terrified before it even starts.
dont know how i'll cope if it was to happen again, dont know how i'll cope worrying every day that it will happen,

If it works it works, if not, another mc, and try again.

No use worrying about it. Even after birth, baby could die of SIDs or something else. A child could die, or anyone can.

But then I've moved on, it's been 5 months:p
I'm just happy that I did get that precious memory of few months of being pregnant.
Take as much time as you like Billybobbery, (((Big hugz))).

rach wrote: »

Hello all

Sorry haven't yet caught up. DH found out this morning he passed his final professional exams so we've had a chinese to celebrate!

I've been majorly S/Sing today!! Only 7dpo so unlikely to be anything but thought my cup of tea tasted gross at work this morning (i love tea!), mouth had a weird taste and then I was convinced my urine smelt weird. BUT I think just being silly!

Hmmm.... sounds promising:p

QQuaver

moneysaver12 wrote: »

Hi everyone, don't know whats going on with my cycle. on day 16 now and my tempture had gone down today to normal. Does that mean ive not ov yet.

It depends on your cycle length. You ov 12-16 days before AF.
In my case it is usually 15 days before AF;)

notttmyusualname wrote: »

So i guess our priorities are- Baby/Living together, house and then job really

think i might take a break from here for a few days

Perhaps conceive first, then after few months, get maternity leave, live with OH, look for job;)

moneysaver12

rach wrote: »

Sorry ms I'm no expert but didn't want you to feel no one was listening! Is it your first month temping? It does take time to see patterns I think. My temp varies by about .10 each day - kind of zig zags up and down!

Thanks hun. It is my first month. Just taken my temp this morning and its dropped by 0.4

jacobsmum

morning ladies well still spotting, but not as much last night as the night before, how is everybody today?did aother test with fmu again and still +tive just sat watching martin on gmtv before i take ds to school
xx

smartie12

Just popping on to say I'm ok

I won't be around much today so thought I'd better say something in case anyone worries that I haven't been on IYKWIM even though no-one would probably notice! I was hoping my googler might miss me:o;) You can google unusual baby names instead for me Fuzz:D

Oooooo Jacobsmum:j

Hugs and baby dust for all xxx

gettingthereslowly

CD1 for me Stupid AF has showed up

Gutted but onward and upwards - just fed up of feeling sorry for myself and thinking that it will never happen

Bug hugs to anyone that needs them - off to catch up now

Sticky baby dust to all xxxxxxx