Trying For a Baby part 4

ladylegs

Hello, thought I'd delurk and join in this year (I've read all the ttc threads now and felt the highs and lows with everyone here) - as you can see, this is my first post EVER:T I'm not even on facebook so this is momentous!

Congratulations to all BFPS - had a feeling Smartie would get hers after getting that cake list.

Anyway, I'm 31, OH, 34 - ttc #1 since 11/09. Lucky us got BFP first time on 18/12 -had to tell more family than would have liked as was obviously not drinking alcohol over Xmas (not that I'm a raging alkie). Went to Dr on 30/12 to get the ball rolling but MCed on New Year's Eve at 6wks. A bitter sweet holiday season. A pregnancy book I bought on Amazon arrived days later and I can't look at it now:(

Just waiting for 1st af so we can get back on the rollercoaster. Hopefully we'll all be waddling around by Autumn-Winter 2010 (but without that evil ice:mad:)
Thanks for being gentle with me - new to posting AND ttc

Penny35_2

ladylegs wrote: »

Hello, thought I'd delurk and join in this year (I've read all the ttc threads now and felt the highs and lows with everyone here) - as you can see, this is my first post EVER:T I'm not even on facebook so this is momentous!

Congratulations to all BFPS - had a feeling Smartie would get hers after getting that cake list.

Anyway, I'm 31, OH, 34 - ttc #1 since 11/09. Lucky us got BFP first time on 18/12 -had to tell more family than would have liked as was obviously not drinking alcohol over Xmas (not that I'm a raging alkie). Went to Dr on 30/12 to get the ball rolling but MCed on New Year's Eve at 6wks. A bitter sweet holiday season. A pregnancy book I bought on Amazon arrived days later and I can't look at it now:(

Just waiting for 1st af so we can get back on the rollercoaster. Hopefully we'll all be waddling around by Autumn-Winter 2010 (but without that evil ice:mad:)
Thanks for being gentle with me - new to posting AND ttc

Hi and welcome..

I too Mcd on New Years Eve, just waiting for spotting to stop and get negtive test then we will be straight back at it.

**confuzzled**

dustystar01 wrote: »

Just been to the loo and my AF is so heavy and I have the most chronic period pains. I'm sat at my desk in work and feel like crying with the pain. Have just taken some Feminax.

Why is my cycle like this? This does normally happen, a week of light bleeding and then a few more days of really heavy bleeding and about 35 days inbetween.

Can anyone help?

Oh hun hope you're ok and the pain is bearable! Sounds like it's a longer AF than you're used to....our bodies do like to flummox us on a regular basis!! Hope you're ok x

smartie12 wrote: »

I'm feeling a bit sickie and my boobs are growing by the minute... they feel so "heavy". I have big boobies anyway so I hate to think what size they're gonna be!!:o:rotfl:

Well you know that I didn't think I was going to get BFP;);):D Baby smartbubbles needs a friend:D

I have everything crossed for you and everyone!!

Hehe I'm a nightmare before I was like deffo NO! and now I'm like 'Maybeee' :rotfl: Emotional mess or what?!:p Glad you're feeling sick & I'm sure DH will enjoy the boob job;):rotfl:

ladylegs wrote: »

Hello, thought I'd delurk and join in this year (I've read all the ttc threads now and felt the highs and lows with everyone here) - as you can see, this is my first post EVER:T I'm not even on facebook so this is momentous!

Congratulations to all BFPS - had a feeling Smartie would get hers after getting that cake list.

Anyway, I'm 31, OH, 34 - ttc #1 since 11/09. Lucky us got BFP first time on 18/12 -had to tell more family than would have liked as was obviously not drinking alcohol over Xmas (not that I'm a raging alkie). Went to Dr on 30/12 to get the ball rolling but MCed on New Year's Eve at 6wks. A bitter sweet holiday season. A pregnancy book I bought on Amazon arrived days later and I can't look at it now:(

Just waiting for 1st af so we can get back on the rollercoaster. Hopefully we'll all be waddling around by Autumn-Winter 2010 (but without that evil ice:mad:)
Thanks for being gentle with me - new to posting AND ttc

Yay for de-lurking and :eek::eek::eek: for the Facebook confession...has you're stone only just got t'interweb or summat?!:rotfl:

Sorry to hear about the mc:( But(you're probably aware) you're unfortunately not alone in that:( You ok about it all now?? If you do need to have a tantrum/lifes not fair rant...go for it:)

Hope you're not here long:) xx

Becs looks like your 'Wall of Fame' is enticing out all the lurkers:D:rotfl:

gettingthereslowly

**confuzzled** wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl:Thats my approach to POASing too:rotfl::rotfl: Although I take ages to decide which tests to buy coz I'm too much of a tight-bum to pay too much for them:o:p If I have no boots points then I tend to go to savers...how MSE is that?!:rotfl:

Thats me all over - i walk around the shops looking for the cheapest and then go back and buy it! It is an MSE site after all

**confuzzled**

gettingthereslowly wrote: »

Thats me all over - i walk around the shops looking for the cheapest and then go back and buy it! It is an MSE site after all

:rotfl::rotfl:Thank god I'm not the only tight bum lunatic wandering around looking for pg tests:D:D

ladylegs

Penny35 wrote: »

Hi and welcome..

I too Mcd on New Years Eve, just waiting for spotting to stop and get negtive test then we will be straight back at it.

Hi Penny, I remember reading about your BFP and thinking ooh, we're due around the same time and then when both our luck changed again, I felt we had even more in common. Hope you are getting good support. We'll both get sticky beans...(probably on the same day)

I never had spotting - 1 day of medium-heavy red bleeding with clots and NO pain. It never consoled me though because although my symptoms vanished quickly, I felt in limbo - not feeling pregnant but not feeling like I'd miscarried either. That CB digital 'Not Pregnant' a week later confirmed it though.

Penny35_2

ladylegs wrote: »

Hi Penny, I remember reading about your BFP and thinking ooh, we're due around the same time and then when both our luck changed again, I felt we had even more in common. Hope you are getting good support. We'll both get sticky beans...(probably on the same day)

I never had spotting - 1 day of medium-heavy red bleeding with clots and NO pain. It never consoled me though because although my symptoms vanished quickly, I felt in limbo - not feeling pregnant but not feeling like I'd miscarried either. That CB digital 'Not Pregnant' a week later confirmed it though.

My DH gives me great support, :A could not be without him.

I have been bleeding/spotting for 2 weeks now, I done a pregnancy test yesterday and it quashed me as still shows pregnant. Wont be testing again till bleeding/spotting stops.

I think with or without symptoms a mc is so hard to deal with. But we have to keep moving forward.

Then I am DETERMINED !!! it wont be long before another BFP good job DH is fit and active lol.

We will have to keep each other updated

babyboysmommy

Hi everyone. I don't want to offer anyone false hope but thought some might like to know that during my pregnancy with my son I bled for the first 14 weeks, at times quite heavy, clots etc. I went for weekly scans at the early pregnancy unti & was sure every time I would get bad news. He's 3.5 now so sometimes miracles do happen.

I've had 1 missed miscarriage & 1 normal miscarriage with my son between the 2, we have been ttc #2 since my son was 1 with no joy, I'm now 40 so time is against us.

Metranil_Vavin

Hi all...I have some strange browny discharge happening today...terrified it is the start of something bad

ladylegs

**confuzzled** wrote: »

Oh hun hope you're ok and the pain is bearable! Sounds like it's a longer AF than you're used to....our bodies do like to flummox us on a regular basis!! Hope you're ok x


Hehe I'm a nightmare before I was like deffo NO! and now I'm like 'Maybeee' :rotfl: Emotional mess or what?!:p Glad you're feeling sick & I'm sure DH will enjoy the boob job;):rotfl:



Yay for de-lurking and :eek::eek::eek: for the Facebook confession...has you're stone only just got t'interweb or summat?!:rotfl:





Sorry to hear about the mc:( But(you're probably aware) you're unfortunately not alone in that:( You ok about it all now?? If you do need to have a tantrum/lifes not fair rant...go for it:)

Hope you're not here long:) xx

Becs looks like your 'Wall of Fame' is enticing out all the lurkers:D:rotfl:

Grrh! Tried to be all clever and multiquote and lost the whole darn thing. Silly newbie. Sorry Penny, had a lovely reply and everything for you too!! Bare with me.
SEE? This is the reason me and technology are not friends. And facebook just doesn't appeal. I'd like to think I have an air of mystery but it's essentially just laziness and the thought of all those dodgy ex boyfs coming out of the wordwork (not literally:rolleyes:) would be too much for me.

Anyway, what I was going to say was, YES, the mc hasn't dampened my spirits. It's made me more determined and appreciative of my lovely OH. You can't change the past and dwelling won't help me in body or mind to conceive again. I've cried a lot and done the Why us? tirade and now we're back and fighting!