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Trying For a Baby part 4

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  • Lauralou wrote: »
    Thanks stef, just not wanting to go through all this, am just feeling really low. suppose like everyone else will do anything to be pg. Yeah last time i passed clots and what i think was the sac, i just thought as i wasnt as far gone as i was before then maybe i wouldnt pass clots etc.

    Laura its the pits, I have been bleeding and/or spotting for 2 weeks now :(
  • twinklie
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    Ha ha ha I won't mention the twins suggestion (everyone in her family reckons thats what she's having - she ALREADY has a tum). However, she's not got any pains or discomfort. Has been a bit tired and felt sick off and on. It's literally a little smear on the tissue she said. Nothing there when she just went again.

    NHS direct just said to go to docs if she's worried.
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  • stef240377
    stef240377 Posts: 2,798 Forumite
    All she can do then is monitor it and as there are a few of us here if any more advice needed then im sure someone will answer any queries you may have.
    :j Was married 2nd october 2009 to the most wonderful man possible:j

    DD 1994, DS 1996 AND DS 1997

    Lost 3st 5lb with Slimming world so far!!
  • twinklie
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    Cheers ladies. I've told her to call docs for an appointment in the am...I'll cover for her at work (I'm the only one that knows). If nothing else it might set her mind at rest/ get her on the checking radar. I don't know if that helps or not. But I figured she'd feel proactive at least.
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  • Lauralou
    Lauralou Posts: 983 Forumite
    twinklie, can i just say you are a wonderful friend to her:D

    penny, i really dont know what my body is doing, just want it all to stop,
    suppose after i do the pg test i will feel like i can move forward as i just feel that will give the final answer and move forward.
  • twinklie
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    Awww thanks Laura. I appreciate it. I just wish I could do more for her. Mind you I was guiding her round like an old lady over all the ice last week. Ha ha. I just kept saying it was because I was scared of falling and hurting my shoulder again so she was helping me out! :D

    Hope things sort themselves out soon for you ladies. I honestly can't imagine how awful it is, and tbh, have no desire to even give it much though. But sharing your stories really does help people know they are not alone etc. So thank you for being brave and sharing. x
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  • stef240377
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    Lauralou wrote: »
    twinklie, can i just say you are a wonderful friend to her:D

    penny, i really dont know what my body is doing, just want it all to stop,
    suppose after i do the pg test i will feel like i can move forward as i just feel that will give the final answer and move forward.

    I was told that pg tests can still come up +ve for up to 8 weeks after mc, thats why we have to go for the blood tests and watch levels drop until below 1.
    :j Was married 2nd october 2009 to the most wonderful man possible:j

    DD 1994, DS 1996 AND DS 1997

    Lost 3st 5lb with Slimming world so far!!
  • rik1978
    rik1978 Posts: 96 Forumite
    congratulations to smartie, shelley, sir monster and merfe,:beer: that's fantastic news and with that my PMA has returned :j after a bit of a wobble today.
    went to see my best friend for the first time since she had her twins. they were born 14 weeks premature at the beginning of Nov and she's not been able to have visitors until now. they are so tiny (now 9 weeks old) bit they are doing really well now, I'm so pleased for her as they were told the babies wouldn't make it past 1 week.

    Well today is surprisingly cd2. My cycle was just 23 days when it is usually 26/27 days, last month my cycle was 30 days so now I'm wondering what day in my cycle it will be best to start using OPK's. I have two kits as they were BOGOF before xmas in boots.
    My hubby had planned his business trip around when I thought my most fertile days would be but now AF has turned up earlier I have a feeling that he will be away on my fertile days :(
  • Hugs for Lauralou.

    Congrats for the BFPs I've missed.

    And slight puzzlement for my body. CD17 here. My back hurts. My bobos hurt. Had some spotting this morning and got AF type cramps. I could swear that OH and I didn't dtd at the right time at all so unless swimmers managed to survive 5 days inside me, its not a mini-me. Is AF torturing me by arriving stupidly early?
  • Make-it-3
    Make-it-3 Posts: 1,661 Forumite
    Big congrats to sirmonster and merfe - a fab start to the new year on here - must have been lots of festive bding going on last month.

    On 2ww now, so its back to RDing as OH calls it (that's regular dancing).

    For anyone who's interested (and who wouldn't be) Jonas gets naked on CBB tonight.
    We Made-it-3 on 28/01/11 with birth of our gorgeous DD.
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