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Trying For a Baby part 4

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  • **confuzzled**
    **confuzzled** Posts: 4,228 Forumite
    edited 17 December 2009 at 4:11PM
    Fuzz, my grandpa died just before my mum had me, so I think that your DH's grandad will be looking over you and will bless you with a little angel in 2010!
    :rotfl:Mmmm knowing the selfish $od he's probably given me MRSA from being sat in his room than anything else:rolleyes: Thanks for the thought, I suppose we can just wait and see.......PMA has well & truly upped & gone today.
    Hi ladies :p can I join you??

    Me and OH have a beautiful DD who will be 1 on the 2nd Jan...we decided to try for another when she is 2 but I'm afraid I just can't wait that long! Has anyone else had different views about best time to have #2? Financially we are ok, we weren't when we had DD, but things have inproved since....

    Oh and you have me SO confused with your TTCs, TMIs and EWCLCKDDNs!!! :rotfl:
    Welcome:) If you go to the 1st page theres a link to all the abbvs, that should help a lot:)
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • Hugs fuzz. Im trying hard not to keep thinking about whether or not it will happen this month but its hard.
    Married 09/09/09
  • rudill wrote: »
    Hello, I've been reading this board for a long time now but only now have something to post about. I wondered if anyone has any advice for me please. For the last 6 months my cycles have been around 33 days and v. regular, before that they were a bit longer. A few months ago we started 'trying' and now this month it's been 44 days since 1st day of my last period. I've taken about five pg tests (most recently yesterday, tried different brands) and they are all BFNs but there's no sign at all of AF. My skin's really good (usually get spots), no aches or cramps and seem to have more EWCM than usual. Is there any chance I could be PG or are these tests always right? Any help appreciated, want to make sure if I am PG I do everything right. Thank you.

    PS: All these Pg tests are expensive aren't they?! I should stop doing them but they are quite addictive. Oh and my moods are all over the place because I'm hoping I am pg but am trying not to get my hopes up. Am I being ridiculous still hoping if the tests are neg?
  • rudill wrote: »
    I wondered if anyone has any advice for me please. For the last 6 months my cycles have been around 33 days and v. regular, before that they were a bit longer. A few months ago we started 'trying' and now this month it's been 44 days since 1st day of my last period. I've taken about five pg tests (most recently yesterday, tried different brands) and they are all BFNs but there's no sign at all of AF. My skin's really good (usually get spots), no aches or cramps and seem to have more EWCM than usual. Is there any chance I could be PG or are these tests always right? Any help appreciated, want to make sure if I am PG I do everything right.
    rudill wrote: »
    PS: All these Pg tests are expensive aren't they?! I should stop doing them but they are quite addictive. Oh and my moods are all over the place because I'm hoping I am pg but am trying not to get my hopes up. Am I being ridiculous still hoping if the tests are neg?
    Hi Rudill...sorry I missed your post the 1st time...probably too wrapped up in my own self-pity:o Sorry!

    Yes pg tests are expensive hence I only POAS when I REALLY have to;) If you were taking the pill then your cycles could still be sorting themselves out:confused: Also stressing about AF/pg(even subconsciously) can delay it, as can being ill. Are you using FMU to test?? If you are then I'd say you'd need to believe the tests I'm afraid and just hope that AF turns up soon, or if you're worried go to the docs and see what they say, they may do a blood test for you.
    HTH and Welcome to the board:) x
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • Hello Confuzzled, I'm really sorry you're having a bad day and really appreciate you taking the time to help me.

    I haven't been on the pill for nearly three years so it shouldn't be that, nor am I particularly stressed. :confused: I mentioned it at the docs as was there about something else, they did a urine test which was also neg but said to come back in two wks if still no sign. That's all fine but don't want to eat/drink anything I shouldn't if any chance I am pg, but also don't want to be hopeful if there's no chance. is being pg but getting a neg result at this stage really unlikely/ impossible?

    Hope your day is getting better and thank you again xx
  • rudill wrote: »
    Hello Confuzzled, I'm really sorry you're having a bad day and really appreciate you taking the time to help me.

    I haven't been on the pill for nearly three years so it shouldn't be that, nor am I particularly stressed. :confused: I mentioned it at the docs as was there about something else, they did a urine test which was also neg but said to come back in two wks if still no sign. That's all fine but don't want to eat/drink anything I shouldn't if any chance I am pg, but also don't want to be hopeful if there's no chance. is being pg but getting a neg result at this stage really unlikely/ impossible?

    Hope your day is getting better and thank you again xx
    Thanks, I'm sure I'll be fine:) Its just the sneaky arrival of AF thats got to me...normally she'll let me know of her arrival in advance:rolleyes::) Besides I'm going shopping tonight so can't be all that bad;):D

    How long are your cycles normally???
    try not to worry to much about what you eat & drink so long as you're not an alcoholic or soft-cheese-a-holic you should be fine:D
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • LilDevil
    LilDevil Posts: 684 Forumite
    Oh dear, I've got to start setting up for our Xmas party soon and I'm starting to have small waves of queeziness - not sure if it's the diet coke or the inssessant (sp) drilling outside our building!

    Sorry to hear the witch got you Fuzz!

    I think I saw a couple of newbies here, so hello to you as well!!

    Right, off to try and finish these minutes before I trek over to our party venue!
  • Thanks, I'm sure I'll be fine:) Its just the sneaky arrival of AF thats got to me...normally she'll let me know of her arrival in advance:rolleyes::) Besides I'm going shopping tonight so can't be all that bad;):D

    How long are your cycles normally???
    try not to worry to much about what you eat & drink so long as you're not an alcoholic or soft-cheese-a-holic you should be fine:D

    My Cycles are usually around 33 days. So I'm about 11 days late. Quite fond of both alcohol and soft cheese but not an addict so should be ok!:p

    Have a ball shopping tonight! There are some good offers around at the moment!:T
  • try not to worry to much about what you eat & drink so long as you're not an alcoholic or soft-cheese-a-holic you should be fine:D
    rudill wrote: »
    My Cycles are usually around 33 days. So I'm about 11 days late. Quite fond of both alcohol and soft cheese but not an addict so should be ok!:p

    Have a ball shopping tonight! There are some good offers around at the moment!:T
    Phew! thank god you took that the way it was intended:o I posted it and then thought !!!!!!....what if she thinks I'm serious:eek::eek::eek::rotfl:

    Fingers crossed for you that one thing or the other happens..either one has to be a relief doesn't it?!:)

    LilDevil have fun at your party xxxx
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • awww Fuzz so sorry hon...it is so supremely sh*t to get a BFN when you're praying for a BFP :mad:

    Onwards and upwards though hon...we're all in this together remember :)
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
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