Trying For a Baby part 4

mennie

mennie wrote: »

Hey!

I haven't read or posted here for ages as I felt I needed to have a break

I have been married 2.5 years and been ttc that whole time. I have had three m/c's. One at 10 weeks and I found out at my first scan, The second, we knew straight away something wasnt right, but the specialists kept scanning me every week and nothing was growing but betas were going up. They kept me going for 12 weeks and then I had a D&C, after 2 painful failed goes at medical management.
Then I had a large loop biopsy after severe cell changes and couldnt try for a while.

Last month I miscarried, very early on though, only about 4 weeks.
On Wednesdsay I have my first appointment for fertility investigations.

But................... now a/f is 5 days late, I have tested today and there is a very very feint line!!!! Hubby doesnt beleive it, but its there. I will test again with first urine tomorrow.

Dont quite know how to feel............................

Hey hoping for some advise.

Still havent come on. 9 days late now. I had a faint line on a test on Thursday but just negatives ever since.

I have light cramps, sore back, swollens bbs and thick white cm. I am also exhausted

I have my first ferttility investiogation on Wednesday.

What should I do?

QQuaver

mennie wrote: »

Still havent come on. 9 days late now. I had a faint line on a test on Thursday but just negatives ever since.

Perhaps the faint lines were the remaining hcg from your previous mc?
Just a thought;)

sexki11en

Morning girls. Just a quick one from me as I have to leave fore work.

Fuzz, could you put me down for testing on the 29th please. I get 2 goes this month lol. Yayyy for short cycle. AF due on the 27th and is usually reg as clockwork so if she hasn't shown by then, i'm testing. I want to know if I can have a good drinkies on NYE!

Catch up later, sticky babydust all.

SK x

smartie12

Morning

Well you know I thought AF was here... it's kinda of not Spotting turned to more than spotting yesterday but now it's gone to very slight spotting. Haven't got AF pains either which I always get. I just wish she would hurry up and get a move on instead of annoying me:mad:

Nearly sicky this morning again

Oh and I've just seen a pic of what I thought would be an ugly baby and she's not... and I'm very jealous:o

Oh and as I now type I think I do infact have AF pains:rotfl:

This post is depressing:eek: but I'm ok really!

Love, hugs and babydust to all x

tinkwings

Morning

Can i join you Smartie in having a CR*P morning :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

I am on such a downer at the moment and have really had enough so bad that I really don't know if i want to keep TTC.:eek:

xoxo

mennie

QQuaver wrote: »

Perhaps the faint lines were the remaining hcg from your previous mc?
Just a thought;)

Cant be that as I had a negative test blood test at the docs after my mc was confirmed.

took another this morning and still neg.

I suppose I will just metion it all at my appointment tomorrow and hopefully they will do scans/tests before they do anything too invasive.

mennie

Just really hope i am not having another missed mc!:(

**confuzzled**

Katy it was Rummers lat month because she'd had a chat with her OH and they decided that if it didn't happen that month they'd stop ttc

twinklie wrote: »

Hey ladies. I had an AMAZING weekend. Went away to Bowness with OH for his 40th. Such a good time....back to reality with a bump now though! Boooo.

Awww glad you had a nice time:D

mennie wrote: »

Still havent come on. 9 days late now. I had a faint line on a test on Thursday but just negatives ever since.

I have light cramps, sore back, swollens bbs and thick white cm. I am also exhausted

I have my first ferttility investiogation on Wednesday.

What should I do?

Hi Mennie, not sure what you can do to be honest, theres the good old try & relax and not think about it(Hah! Like that ever happens:rolleyes:) Other than that maybe do another test Wed morning to see if anything shows up and then explain everything to your fertility consultant and see what they say Are you worrying/stressing a little about the appointment?? That could be delaying AF
Sorry i can't be more help:) If you have any Q's about the fertility appointment you might be best asking on the ttc 12months+ board..they're amazing women and a fountain of knowledge:D HTH & good luck with your appointment:) x

tinkwings wrote: »

Morning

Can i join you Smartie in having a CR*P morning :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

I am on such a downer at the moment and have really had enough so bad that I really don't know if i want to keep TTC.:eek:

((((HUGS))) Tink..what is it thats getting you down?!

Nothing to report here I'm ??DPO:o have managed to put on 1lb over night:eek: Feel icky & have spots:mad: Me thinks my annual minging cold is on its way so be prepared for lots of whining:o I'm not a good patient:o:p

**confuzzled**

Testing List
Wed 9th Dec - neneromanova, Tinksy, Sir Monster
Thu 10th Dec - [STRIKE]Maddie[/STRIKE], KitKat
Fri 11th Dec - SammyGirl
Sat 12th Dec - Smartie, [STRIKE]Mrsmc[/STRIKE]
Fri 18th Dec -BeckyandJack aka B&J:), LauraLou
Sat 19th Dec - TinkWings, Courgette
Sun 20th Dec - Fuzz(Possibly 22nd)
Tues 22nd Dec - Daleigha
Wed 23rd Dec - GTS
Fri 25th Dec - :xmassmileSSL:xmassmileJustMarried aka MoleyMoo:xmassmileMoneysaver:xmassmileLilDevil:xmassmileMirrorimage
Tues 29th Dec - Sexki11en

tinkwings

mennie wrote: »

Cant be that as I had a negative test blood test at the docs after my mc was confirmed.

took another this morning and still neg.

I suppose I will just metion it all at my appointment tomorrow and hopefully they will do scans/tests before they do anything too invasive.

I know is must be hard but all you can do is wait to see the experts tomorrow & explain all that has happen and take their advice from ther. Hugs x