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Trying For a Baby part 4

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  • Hehe, thats the approach I'd gone for so far this year ladies but he's not having any of it now - 'I want to know when it's the right time' is a direct quote from him - he asks he gets!! ;-) Don't get me wrong, he gets his oats other times too (*childish snigger*) but I'm just more frustrated this month as I really don't think it's happening again - PMA all the way now, must get back into the happy place!!!!!

    Mmmm, happy place - I'm off to get some chocolate!!!

    JM xx
    Proud to be dealing with my debts :T DFW Nerd: 241
  • MERFE
    MERFE Posts: 2,133 Forumite
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    hello, I've got my scan booked for tomorrow to check everything has gone, really hoping I dont need an erpc after all, bleeding has pretty much stopped so will be trying again soon. I have a sick note to pick up from the doctors for 2 weeks so dont need to worry about work for a little while which i think helps with the ttc. Just want to put this all behind us now so we can move on.
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Hummmm chocolate!!

    I am sat with porriage oats & raisins! not really as exciting :p

    My sister went to the doc's last week as she is on month 5 of TTC and nothing she was told to DTD every other day & not stress!!!

    My DH said he wanted to know too but then he gets annoyed that I read too much into things................I can't win....
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • Lauralou
    Lauralou Posts: 983 Forumite
    MERFE wrote: »
    hello, I've got my scan booked for tomorrow to check everything has gone, really hoping I dont need an erpc after all, bleeding has pretty much stopped so will be trying again soon. I have a sick note to pick up from the doctors for 2 weeks so dont need to worry about work for a little while which i think helps with the ttc. Just want to put this all behind us now so we can move on.

    Merfe hope everything goes well for you tomorrow and nothing is left. Going to for the last scan making sure nothing was left, did kinda help me make that tiny step forward. Glad your doctor gave you a sick note. You can have time to relax and not stress!PMA!
  • Sammy_Girl
    Sammy_Girl Posts: 3,412 Forumite
    tinkwings wrote: »
    One question is last month my af ss started on the 21 but proper bleeding didn't start until 23 would you count start date of af as 21 or 23? this may account for why no OV ss yet????? hears hoping ......

    Hi tinkwings,

    I was told that your CD1 was the day that you start full on bleeding, not when you have twinges. Hope that helps :)

    Ooh, I've just had a lovely cheese ploughmans sandwich for my lunch :). Haven't had one of those in ages. I hope all you loveley ladies are having a nice day at home or work.

    Smartie - well done on the Xmas shopping! I told DH the other day that we will get all ours done before Dec, as I've had my fair share of running round Bluewater on Xmas Eve and I refuse to do it again lol
  • Sammy_Girl
    Sammy_Girl Posts: 3,412 Forumite
    Laura - How's your doggie and his paw :)
  • shazrobo wrote: »
    can you cross me off please confuzzled, af got me yesterday
    Booooo!!!! Ah well, onwards to next month eh?:)
    Hello ladies!! Confuzzled, could you add me on for the Friday 20th Nov please?
    Done :)
    katyj10 wrote: »
    Fuzz welcome back! I missed you! I don't know the answer to the temping as I've never done it but I guess consistency is the key to a sucessful pattern.

    Well done on the xmas shopping smartie I have got a few more to get but am stuck. It's mainly mens presents I struggle with. I have managed to win a few this year though too so it's all good!
    Aww Katy, bless ya little cottons:D I'm the same with xmas pressies too, women no probs, men and I'm at a loss:confused::rolleyes:!
    Re:brown sticky stuff......old blood mixed with cm;) No need to worry or panic...aches could be stretching pains to accomodate the precious load on board:D Tell yourself this everytime and I'm sure the stress will lessen:D xx

    Testing List
    Fri 30th Oct - [STRIKE]Lil Devil[/STRIKE], Getting Hitched
    Sat 31st Oct - BamNaggy, MsBella,
    [STRIKE]Sun 1st Nov - Jacobsmum
    [/STRIKE]Tue 3rd Nov - Maddie
    Fri 6th Nov - Nichart
    Sat 7th Nov - Smartie, [STRIKE]shazrobo[/STRIKE]
    Tue 10th Nov - Sexki11en
    Sat 14th Nov - Sammy Girl
    Sun 15th Nov - Confuzzled
    Fri 20th Nov - tinkwings, Just married
    Fri 27th Nov - Gettingthereslowly aka GTS :)
    Sat 28th Nov - LauraLou

    BFPs - CAFC, B2B, Katy, elliebobs, Astro_k, Sir Monster, hobo123, Catw0man Well done ladies! :T:j


    Merfe take it easy and do what feels right...gotta say though, I'm impressed with your PMA:T
    Tinkwings if your sister manages it every other day then I'll be majorly impressed :eek: I was looking into the SMEP plan but didn't think we'd manage it:o Not lost hope though, DH has been reading up(finally!) and once he's recovered from man flu:rolleyes: we'll be at it every 3days as he's read somewhere that this is when sperm will be optimum:D I'm so lucky and pleased that he's finally come round to the idea of researching, takes the pressure of me a bit:o
    And if nothing by March, thats our agreed fertility MOT at the docs:)
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Sammy Girl - Thanks I will work on the 23rd then which would fit in as no OV signs yet that means should be friday for best day.....Watch this space.
    Confuzzled - I know what you mean i would be surprsied if my sister could keep it up either as life does tend to get in the way!!
    Thank you all for being so amazing as a newbie I expect there are many in the same boat who has been reading the posts and have yet to join in. Just wanted to say that I am glad i did as you girls make me feel like I am sane and that things are normal... THANK YOU xoxo
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • tinkwings wrote: »
    Thanks for that post it made me LOL ;) my DH is the same "why do we have to do it agian!!!! etc etc " ;):rotfl:

    They are all the same bless them!
    Thanks for info on FF the whole temp thing & ov stick thing sounds very complicated.....

    One question is last month my af ss started on the 21 but proper bleeding didn't start until 23 would you count start date of af as 21 or 23? this may account for why no OV ss yet????? hears hoping ......


    SNAP!!!!! My OH doesn't want to come anywhere near me at the moment!! Feel very unwanted!!

    Thanks to all of you who helped with my little problem yesterday, we seemed alot closer last night, think he is just very wound up by everything but doesn't want me to know about it, as he doesn't want me to be upset about anything else at the moment, which is very sweet, but it does make a girl very paranoid!

    Hugs to all of you xx :p
    :pMarried June 26th 2009 :p
  • Lauralou
    Lauralou Posts: 983 Forumite
    Jenny glad you are a lil bit closer. and hope OH is feeling better.
    tinkwings i dont know how your sister can dtd every night, i've done it sunday and monday night last night i couldnt it all i wanted was sleep!
    sammy, he is better thanks, hasnt been biting it for a couple of days now but he was soon go back to biting it, oh toke him for a walk this morning and he was really bad, was pulling on the lead, didnt come back when i called him and just wanted cross and walk in the same place all the time. Dont think ill be able to take him out on my own when(hopefully) am pg.
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