Trying For a Baby part 4

Lauralou

woo 7days!!

Can anyone help?
As im obessed with poas, i did a OV test, its says i can start testing tomorrow, well i did it earlier and it says i am OV, can that be right as i only finished af mon/tues? and i did OV test a week before af and it said i was ov, can the tests i got be right?
i ov a week before af then i am now ov two/one day after af??

oh ellie i am so sorry, sending you big hugs.
i'll send you something in the post if you want ;-)

becs

Oh Ellie, huge hugs to you. I'm so sorry.
I read a wonderful post once on one of the threads about ladies that have mc'd, I wish I could remember it to quote it. The gist of it was that however painful a mc is it's life's way of ensuring we end up with the child we're meant to. How man women go through mc/mc's then go on to have beautiful healthy baby/babies? How many of those most precious loved children would not be here today if their mummies hadn't had those mc's? They would have other different children for sure but perhaps it's just fate sometimes. Bad things happen before something better is around the corner.
x

elliebobs

thanks for your quick posts and I am taking comfort from you. I'm certainly not the first and unfortunately not the last person this has happened too so I know that I'm not alone.

lauralou; no need to send me anything sweetie but thank you anyway.

Time to go and have a little comfort sleep under the blankey now for me I feel.

Ellie xx

**confuzzled**

moneysaver12 wrote: »

Hi everyone, feeling better today. Home from uni earlier today, got to start work on my assignment soon. Hugs to everyone who is poorly, hope you all feel better soon. Hugs to prudcent. Does anyone else eat when they are on their computer and end up with crumbs in the keyboard, like me.

Yup:D Tip it upside down and they should all fall out and you'll have a lovely clean keyboard:rotfl:

Ellliebobs I'm so sorry:( Have a big (((HUG))) and try to take it easy xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

smartie12

Hugs ellie Try to relax during the wait until next scan:A

Yes lauralou we were the first couple to marry on MSE We had to ask Martin if it was ok and luckily he gave us the go ahead;):D Our engagement was in the weekly email:p

My son is on FB so I can keep up with who he's married to this week:rolleyes::rotfl:

QQuaver

I'm so sorry (((Elliebobs))).

I had a missed miscarriage where the baby died at 10 weeks. I was so devastated but that was nearly 4 months ago, and it is now not as painful as it once was. I may never get over it, but am recovered enough to talk openly without crying:o

I don't have a child, so that experience may become my once and only time of pregnancy, and I'm grateful.

jennyfleur77

elliebobs wrote: »

Afternoon everyone. Sad news coming up so feel free to skip. I went for, what I thought was a, routine scan today and the 'baby' is only measuring at 5/6 weeks and they couldnt' find the heartbeat. Now I know for a fact that I am 9 weeks PG so it looks like it is a missed MC. I have to go in again next week for another scan but I know deep down that it's not going to be good news. I'm just hoping for nature to take it's own course now but accept that medical intervention may be necessary.

I'm trying to look on the brightside and taking comfort from the fact that I can get PG and that I can get back on the saddle soon hopefully and come back to join you lovely lot. I deliberately didn't 'migrate' to the PG board for this reason. I can't pretend I'm not devastated though and am dreading telling OH as he will be devastated too.

Good luck to all those testing soon and mahoosive hugs to those having a hard time at the mo.

Ellie xx

Ellie, huge hugs to you, I totally know what you are going through, OH will be so supportive, don't be afraid to tell him, he's the one that will be able to give you the best hugs at the moment! My thoughts are with you cry when you need to cry and don't feel bad if you smile about the positives

gettingthereslowly

Big HUGS to elliebobs xxx

tinkwings

elliebobs wrote: »

Afternoon everyone. Sad news coming up so feel free to skip. I went for, what I thought was a, routine scan today and the 'baby' is only measuring at 5/6 weeks and they couldnt' find the heartbeat. Now I know for a fact that I am 9 weeks PG so it looks like it is a missed MC. I have to go in again next week for another scan but I know deep down that it's not going to be good news. I'm just hoping for nature to take it's own course now but accept that medical intervention may be necessary.

I'm trying to look on the brightside and taking comfort from the fact that I can get PG and that I can get back on the saddle soon hopefully and come back to join you lovely lot. I deliberately didn't 'migrate' to the PG board for this reason. I can't pretend I'm not devastated though and am dreading telling OH as he will be devastated too.

Good luck to all those testing soon and mahoosive hugs to those having a hard time at the mo.

Ellie xx

Ellie I am so sorry honey. I have tears for you sat in work. I am sending you the biggest hug in the world. :A

jennyfleur77

A friend of mine told me the most wonderful thing the other day. The reason we have to go through something as painful as a misscarriage is becuase some babies are far too precious to be allowed on this earth, and they are the chosen ones that are sent back to heaven to become the angels, so I always know that I've got a little angel up there looking down and blowing kisses!