MSE Pregnancy Club 17

CAFCGirl

ymakesmile wrote: »

Mermaid85 - If it's We Will Rock You, I will be seriously envious. I've seen that 3 times and LOVE it

1more-Hugs to you hun, sounds horrible.

Cafcgirl - Sorry the house was no good. It can be so disheartening when looking for a house but hopefully the next one will be 100 times better.

Problem now is friend of bro-in-law has a house up for rent, but its £50 + a month than we were looking at..... but as ive pointed out to DH so far the houses we've looked at in that bracket have been horrid....:(

But we might be able to get away with paying much less of a deposit, and wouldnt havent to pay agents fees, and eventually soon I'll be getting maternity allowance (which will be most helpful), should be able to get some help from housing benefit (even if not for the whole amouint!).....

Im scared to go and look at it though just in case it is ideal......:eek:

ymakesmile

Maybe the extra £50 a month will be worth it for the ideal place though? I would go and have a look even if it was just pure curiosity. You never know until you get there..but best of luck

Courgette

Hi Ladies,

I'm after a bit of reassurance I know you're all so good at

10+2 and over the last few days there's been a massive decrease in symptoms; have felt only mildly queasy rather than full on 18 hours a day wretching, tiredness has lifted (did a 12 hour day at work yesterday trying to catch up and didn't die), can easily sleep on my front again, less boob pain. Yesterday I had the absolute tiniest amount of very old blood when I wiped and only spotted because I examine every single piece of tissue as am so scared of another mc. I've had cramping but not much but high up and feels absolutely nothing at all like AF more like I've been doing situps (I really haven't ).

I've tried to call the mw for a chat but it hasn't been possible to get through. If I were a bit later on I wouldn't be worried and just think it's the normal drop off that you get about 12 weeks but I'm worried it could be a missed miscarriage.

I don't want to call the EPU because last time I did that I saw the heartbeat bouncing away then lost the baby 2 days later anyway so I'd rather not ahve that image in my head.

I'm just looking for someone to give me an mse slap and tell me to be happy to have my head out of the loo for a few hours!

Thank you

Courgette

PS

This is number 2 and I have definite signs of a belly emerging but I don't think my dates are out as I'd been tracking my cycle on Fertility Friend

Thanks!

CAFCGirl

courgette hun, try and take it easy.
I had some old blood around the same kind of time, and although my sickness carried on for a while, my boobs were solidly aching and then one day (about week 11) just suddenly stopped. I still sleep slightly to my front....
And not everyone gets m/s...
Or (and Im sorry for saying this) maybe the past few days have just been really good days and you'll feel like utter carp again tomorrow?

ymakesmile

Courgette- I was feeling much much better by 9 weeks so I really wouldn't panic if I was you. It is difficult but I was very reassured myself because I had a home doppler so I could hear babe's heartbeat, even though that doesn't mean everything is fine but it helped me. This isn't helpful but I've known people to still have symptoms and then find they had a mmc when they go for a scan. You really must just try and relax (way easier said than done i know). If your not in a lot of cramping pain and don't have bright red bleeding then there shouldn't be anything to worry yourself over. I'm at 15 weeks now and still on edge at times but I've learnt to relax best I can because I can't spend 9 months pulling my hair out!

SUPER_SAVER_7

Hello

Started snowing here a while ago,really want it to stop :S

I'm absolutely drained out atm,want my bed
Had a good morning helping out at the nursery but was stuck in the book corner for nearly two hrs,lol.The children where giving me non stop storys to read to them whilst diving against bump to sit on my lap,eek!
Went to Tesco on an empty stomach and just bought crap,hehe. Well chocs,crisps,popcorn...tasty but not wise(ooops) Got three kinder eggs to munch on,starting on number two now. Their so yummy!

Sarah_Joanne

kindofagilr wrote: »

It annoys me on the american ones, cos tehre is like a room full of family, I said to OH nothing would put me off more than all those people being in there looking! its crazy, and sometimes the woman in labours dad is there like totally at business end staring, and I think ERGH god no thats gross her dad shouldnt be looking at his daughters foof! totally gross! that just my opinion anyway

I can't believe those shows either where there's so many people there in the room, in the waiting room and then back at the house when they go home. I can't think of anything worse!

Evansangel wrote: »

Im wondering why she didn't give a reason as to why they dont advise EPO and Calcium. If its bad for you and/or baby there would be a reason

I think it;s more that the MWs don't recommend that you DO take them, rather than them recommending that you DON'T take them IYSWIM?

Courgette wrote: »

Hi Ladies,

I'm after a bit of reassurance I know you're all so good at

I would try to not worry. As you've said you've previously had an early scan and then things went wrong after, and when that's the case there really isn't anything you can do / could have done, and plenty of people have symptoms that just disappear, have bleeding etc and then go on to have healthy happy pregnancies (I'm one of those people!!) You really just can't tell with these things and I for one am a firm believer that if things don't work out, there is a good reason for it. Try to stay positive and enjoy being symptom free!! There's more chance that everything is fine and well than not

I'm feeling quite annoyed this afternoon. DH was getting in a strop over putting the birth pool up cos we don't have a pump for it, and becasue it's big and will just have to sit in the living room for potentially a few weeks til we use it, and then moaning there's no instructions (even though I found them on the website). All I can think is "well at least you're not the one having to squeeze this baby out of yourself". :mad: Rant over

ymakesmile

If I had a birthing pool up in the house I don't think I would ever be out of it. I'd have it in front of the telly with chocolate and drink to hand and just float about to my hearts content

Evansangel

Courgette, firstly, relax and take it easy

I know how you feel about examining the tissue, im 35wks and i still inspect each bit as i had a mmc in March09.

I had a few days of no pregnancy symptoms what so ever when i was 7weeks ish, and of course i panicked like hell. Then all of a sudden i was back to feeling sick, tired, everything aftera few days.

Its funny, we all want ms, then when we get it we wish everyday for it to go and then it goes and we wish it back lol.

((hugs))