MSE Parents Club Part 8

cazscoob

i wish he had somewhere to go might let him see what he is actually loosing, but due to no money and him refusing to go back to his parents then i have no choice but to let him stay here, which is only making things harder and causing more arguments

searching_me

cazscoob wrote: »

i think i have just got to the stage that im fed up trying and getting nowhere, wouldnt be so bad if he made an effort but he doesnt? i just feel like his mum now.

so say it .. its buck up or ship out and dont wait til hes ready say it for your sanity ....... sorry if im over stepping the line but i hate seeing people being taken advantage of by there OH x

Glamazon

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Glam I hate to tell you this but methinks you didn't spot the knitted character at all
Its on SFTWE right now
There is a thread on the comps board every week for it too if you want to enter

!!!!!!? We definitley did!
It was sitting on the desk that Ant & Dec stand behind

Unless there is a copycat :rotfl:

searching_me

cazscoob wrote: »

him refusing to go back to his parents then i have no choice

yes you do change the locks while hes at work and put his stuff in the front garden .. he'll have no choice then x

cazscoob

thanks SM! i know what i need to do but i feel ive just given up? i think im going to have to have it all out today and if he doesnt do anything or go then i will pack my stuff and leave him to it!

cazscoob

he doesnt work which is the main prob, and if he didnt look after kids then i would have to give up my job!

cazscoob

back soon erin is grumpy so going to see if i can get her to sleep!

Sami_Bee

Glam he was on both! I edited my post but you must have missed it, I went and watched iplayer look http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showpost.html?p=27119339&postcount=12
I'm now thinking we need to complain to those phone in comp pleople but can't think what they're called??

searching_me

oh caz really hope things get sorted ((hugs)) x

Glamazon

aw Caz - big hugs!

Well up at 2.30am and 6.30am - after the 2am feed he fell asleep on me downstairs but then was wide awake in his cot :mad: and wouldn't go back to sleep. Ended up sleeping on me again til 6.30am - means I get no sleep cos I'm constantly checking him! So tough love approach tonight, I need to stop being such a softie. He WILL learn how to go to sleep in his cot. If I can spend the next week slogging it out and just keep going in and calming him down I'm hoping by the time OH starts work he will be OK going down on his own. And hopefully the hungry baby milk might start having an effect and he might sleep for a bit longer. Should have done a dream feed last night cos when I went up his mouth was going like the clappers but I was tired and fell asleep

I WILL GET MYSELF INTO A ROUTINE THIS WEEK!!!!!!