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MSE Parents Club Part 8

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  • redmel1621
    redmel1621 Posts: 6,010 Forumite
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    edited 7 December 2009 at 1:42PM
    I think the moral of the story then, is that time is irrelevant. It's whatever feels right.

    Or whatever your kids want :o

    I do think though, and i'm sure you will agree it does really matter what your kids want....at least they like her, imagine how hard it would be if you had just fallen head over heels and they hated her;)

    Right off to bash some wood
    Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot,
    Nothing is going to get better. It's not.
  • jillie1974
    jillie1974 Posts: 6,997 Forumite
    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    Don't worry Jillie - I've just called and made my appointment :D we're going on Wednesday for the 1 week service, just txtin' my mum to ask her to get someone at work to bring their pp in 2mo and sign the form for Ed and then panic when I rush to find my marrage cert (I know exactly wher it is but I know as soon as I look I won't find it coz I'll be stressed!):rotfl:

    phew!! i was worried there for a bit. i know of one family who booked the holiday last minute then discovered that they couldnt get the child's passport in time...it was either leave child at home or cancel and lose their money. they left the child at home
    pookie5488 wrote: »
    hi all

    have not been on over the weekend, been worried silly cos I have found a lump in matthews neck. Cant get a doctors appointment until Wednesday morning.He is his normal wee self but I have been crying and imagining the worst posible scenario.

    hugs to those in need of hugs xxx

    pookie (((hugs))) would you not take him to a&e?
    'Children are not things to be moulded, but are people to be unfolded'
  • ManOnTheMoon
    ManOnTheMoon Posts: 2,815 Forumite
    pookie5488 wrote: »
    hi all

    have not been on over the weekend, been worried silly cos I have found a lump in matthews neck. Cant get a doctors appointment until Wednesday morning.He is his normal wee self but I have been crying and imagining the worst posible scenario.

    hugs to those in need of hugs xxx

    Just like SM with her Council earlier, surely they can be quicker than that? Always the hospital?
    redmel1621 wrote: »
    I do think though, and i'm sure you will agree it does really matter what your kids want....at least they like her, imagine how hard it would be if you had just fallen head over heels and they hated her;)

    Right off to bash some wood

    Well, that's true. I'm surprised they are so keen and I always think of them first as they've had such bad mothers. I guess there is hope in them that I pick a good one, one day.

    Pardon? Bash some...? :confused: :rotfl:
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    pookie5488 wrote: »
    hi all

    have not been on over the weekend, been worried silly cos I have found a lump in matthews neck. Cant get a doctors appointment until Wednesday morning.He is his normal wee self but I have been crying and imagining the worst posible scenario.

    hugs to those in need of hugs xxx
    I'm sure it'll be nothing :) hugs to you xx
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • Hate clogging up a and e for somthing that is not an accident or emergency. My friend works there so have texted her to ask her advice on whether to take him up or not. It does not seem to be bothering him and does not appear to hurt him when I touch it. Just driving me insane not knowing.
    Coming soon............
    Brand new baby first showing in November!
    Brand new baby boy (Matthew) born 3 weeks early weighing a diddly 5lb 4 oz!!
  • jaydens laughing not completely sure what at but hes laughing x

    Aw - isn't it just the best sound in the world :A

    :eek: The 'M' word. How quickly were you living together?

    At this rate, she'll be arriving with suitcases this evening :o

    LOL - he came to visit me in my house as our 2nd date (40 miles away from his family and friends) and he never really left!! Although we used to stay at his mums pub once or twice a week :D I proposed on our 3rd 'date' LOL

    It worked out well for us in the end but I did effectively marry a stranger (I was with my previous partner for 8 years without even getting engaged) and it has been hard work to get through stuff at times. This time 2 years ago we were having a very rough time but by the May we were deciding to try for a baby!!
    pookie5488 wrote: »
    hi all

    have not been on over the weekend, been worried silly cos I have found a lump in matthews neck. Cant get a doctors appointment until Wednesday morning.He is his normal wee self but I have been crying and imagining the worst posible scenario.

    hugs to those in need of hugs xxx

    Oh pookie - you must be beside yourself. I am sure it isn't anything too scary, kiddies get lumps and bumps all the time.

    Very angry that you can't get a docs appointment until Wed though :mad:

    ((HUGS)) hun xxx
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
  • ManOnTheMoon
    ManOnTheMoon Posts: 2,815 Forumite
    LOL - he came to visit me in my house as our 2nd date (40 miles away from his family and friends) and he never really left!! Although we used to stay at his mums pub once or twice a week :D I proposed on our 3rd 'date' LOL

    It worked out well for us in the end but I did effectively marry a stranger (I was with my previous partner for 8 years without even getting engaged) and it has been hard work to get through stuff at times. This time 2 years ago we were having a very rough time but by the May we were deciding to try for a baby!!

    Blimey! Now that is fast!

    I'm hoping for a little slower. If my girls will allow it of course. I did kiss and hug on our date yesterday (kiss on cheek)

    Have a good afternoon everyone. Must get ready to go out with 16yo and get some things in for tonight. I feel I must buy something special for her first meal with us and of course the replacement decorations.

    Hope the remainder of the day treats you well

    :wave:
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    ((hugs)) pookie hope everythings ok ..

    had to call the council just to make sure they're coming .. they are sometime between now and about 4 x
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • carlamagee
    carlamagee Posts: 1,789 Forumite
    oohhh, pookie, hugs - u are probably most definitely more than likely freaking out for nothing at all!! although, i would phone the docs again and certainly demand to be seen tomorrow at the latest!!!! Our surgery has a policy where if it is a child the latest they should be seen is 24hours later!

    SM - your plumber conucil guy been yet?I wish i could send my OH over tomsort it for ya!!

    oohhh, MOTM! Whatcha got in mind for dins tonyt!!?

    both children off to sleep! yay. going to stick the kettle on!! :)
    Carla-Farla!! :)

    Mummy to Katie (27.11.07) and Christopher (05.08.09) ♥♥
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    cheers carla but no still no council man :( x
    :)Still searching .....:)
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