where can I buy clothes for old person

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My gran is in hospital after a recent fall. She is 94, and is struggling with her clothes. She currently wears a 'corselet' over her underwear, with stockings, then a skirt, jumper and scarf. This is a lot for her to manage with arthritis and limited mobility.

She will not wear tights (thinks they are unhealthy!) but did used to wear trousers. I want to buy her some easy to put on warm fleecy trousers, or jogging bottoms, and I wonder if anyone has any suggestions?

High street preferably...

They need to be a short leg, but reasonably roomy round the waist, (size 16-18 I think) as someone else commented earlier, like so may elderly ladies, she has developed a curved back and rounded tummy, which combined with a lack of waist, means she is holding most of her skirts up with safety pins.

An elastic waist would be easier for her to manage than drawstring, but I could also replace a drawstring with elastic, so its not so important.

They also need to be warm - this is most important factor - she hopes to go home, but is terrible for switching all heating off except for in one room, so I want to ensure she has warm clothing.

Any advice appreciated,

thanks

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Bronnie

Like these? M&S Classic!!

http://www.marksandspencer.com/Classic-Collection-Drawstring-Fleece-Joggers/dp/B002TBLIOA?ie=UTF8&qid=1261861117&categoryNodeID=42967030&ref=sr_1_5&page=&node=43037030&sr=1-5&mnSBrand=core&rh=

They come in short length, but would be easy to shorten further anyway! This fleece fabric is much easier to wash and dry in the winter than the cotton joggers too.

The fleece jacket in a loose fit could be handy for popping on over jumper or cardi. Light to wear too and snug round the neck.

http://www.marksandspencer.com/Classic-Collection-Funnel-Fleece-Jacket/dp/B002Y7G4DY?pos=PDP_cwviv_6/9_image

Will she wear thermal underwear....thinking vests with sleeves.....can be kept on overnight and worn under night clothes so no need to struggle in and out of them twice a day every single day. What about the thermal nix with the longer legs?

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they look good Bronnie, thanks! Do you know if they are warmer than cotton?

Bronnie

I think so, the fuzzy side surely traps the body-heat!

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Bronnie wrote: »

Will she wear thermal underwear....thinking vests with sleeves.....can be kept on overnight and worn under night clothes so no need to struggle in and out of them twice a day every single day. What about the thermal nix with the longer legs?

That's a good idea - she wears thermal long legged pants, and a sleeveless vest - but some vests with sleeves would be good. I am beginning to suspect she has been sleeping in her day clothes - she really needs to accept more help, but she is very stubborn and independant, so these things are well worth considering.

Bronnie

foreign_correspondent wrote: »

That's a good idea - she wears thermal long legged pants, and a sleeveless vest - but some vests with sleeves would be good. I am beginning to suspect she has been sleeping in her day clothes - she really needs to accept more help, but she is very stubborn and independant, so these things are well worth considering.

Well if I were her I think there's a very strong probability I'd sleep in my clothes too :undecided. I think in certain circumstances it becomes necessary for us to adjust our thinking about what's OK.

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Bronnie wrote: »

Well if I were her I think there's a very strong probability I'd sleep in my clothes too :undecided. I think in certain circumstances it becomes necessary for us to adjust our thinking about what's OK.

I know - it is a fine line though between letting her keep her independance, and respecting her choices, and neglecting her...

Bronnie

Changing tack slightly, have found these which may be suitable for dad

http://www.bigaclothing.co.uk/xukh95236904/WORKWEAR/BIG-SIZE-WORK-TROUSERS/CARABOU-Expand-A-Band-Trousers--BLACK/p-146-79-1519/

The even better news is they are in stock in his size at TJ Hughes at less than half price!

http://www.tjhughes.co.uk/fcp/product/brands-for-less/Others/Expand-A-Band-Trouser/1035?colour=steel%20grey

Bronnie

foreign_correspondent wrote: »

I know - it is a fine line though between letting her keep her independance, and respecting her choices, and neglecting her...

You're touching a nerve! I had 10 years experience of this with my mum. You should remember there's no 'right' answer. You can only do what you think is best at the time.

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Bronnie, I have found some nice things from cotton traders for my dad - they wash and wear well in my experience too.

Would anything like this be useful for him?
http://www.cottontraders.co.uk/ProductDetail.asp?ProductID=1394

or these, perhaps in the chocolate or stone colours?
http://www.cottontraders.co.uk/ProductDetail.asp?ProductID=7886