What would you do if..

Kandipandi

houseofboys wrote: »

Wow,thanks for the replies!


Me and hubby have had a day off together today and lets just say we didn't get time to have lunch till 3pm!

Go Girl!!!:T

vaio

houseofboys wrote: »

.....................................BIG SNIP..................................Am I making a mountain out of a molehill??:o

From your latest post it sounds like you are

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northwest1965

Dancing_Shoes wrote: »

Yes i would be bothered but it would be the deleting of the browsing history that would worry me more:eek:

Oh I agree aswell, why delete the browsing history. I only ever do this if I'm booking my OH's Birthday/Xmas pressie.

When i moved in with my OH he & I destroyed/threw out old cards etc. Why keep them? I couldnt see much point, if that person meant that much to you, you'd surely be with them. If they didnt want to be with you and you still cared for them, then why be with someone else. Sorry I feel like I am waffling

hot.chick

Sounds like you feel better already...

Well done

Sounds lke you know your man loves you - as you are, but this other woman niggles you...

put it right out of your mind, you have a man who loves you and all your ample assets ;o)

Congrats and have a lovely weekend!

consultant31

Pee wrote: »

Is that a money saving wok?

Love it, thanks - made me laugh out loud :rotfl:

consultant31

houseofboys wrote: »

I have spent the last 5 yrs grieving the loss of our only daughter and have just seen the light thru the clouds so to speak.

BTW hot chick I am far prettier than her ,used to be blonde am now brunette,she is thinner with no boobs,I have more than a handful ...

I'm so sorry about the loss of your child, that's very sad and surely a lot to do with the way you feel about yourself and OH.

However, your last sentence (above) says it all - good to see you've had a rethink and realise just what you've got going for you.......go girl :T

BARGAINHUNTER!

If you are worried about what your partner is looking at on the internet why not install a keylogger on the pc? That way you can check exactly what he has been typing and looking at even if he deletes the history. Perhaps leave it on for a month, and if there is nothing untoward on there then remove it! Obviously you need to do this without your partner knowing!

Gavin83

carolan78 wrote: »

I would be jealous inside but ultimately after 18 years of marriage I would realise he would have gone long ago if it wasn't me he wanted. I would however be concerned with him deleting his browing history and request him to stop it as it just leads to mistrust.

Why shouldn't he? She shouldn't be checking up on him anyway. If I knew my partner was looking through my browsing history I'd delete it as well even if it was harmless.

Frankly I find the mindset and attitude of some of the members of this board shocking at times, really shocking. You do make me glad that I've got the girlfriend I have though and just how poor my relationship could be.

Anyway, to the OP. I don't blame you for being upset but he hasn't done anything wrong. Most people look though ex's profiles on facebook, I think it's natural. It doesn't mean you miss them or want them back, just curious. It's really not his fault he see's her down the pub and you've no idea what he said to his friend, if he laughed I'd say it wasn't complimentry! He should however get rid of the cards if they bother you.

My girlfriend speaks to an ex of hers sometimes and saw one at a club at month back. It really doesn't bother me to be honest and we haven't even been together as long as you. Frankly if my girlfriend complained about this I'd be showing her the door.

northwest1965

Gavin83 wrote: »

Why shouldn't he? She shouldn't be checking up on him anyway. If I knew my partner was looking through my browsing history I'd delete it as well even if it was harmless.

Frankly I find the mindset and attitude of some of the members of this board shocking at times, really shocking. You do make me glad that I've got the girlfriend I have though and just how poor my relationship could be.

Anyway, to the OP. I don't blame you for being upset but he hasn't done anything wrong. Most people look though ex's profiles on facebook, I think it's natural. It doesn't mean you miss them or want them back, just curious. It's really not his fault he see's her down the pub and you've no idea what he said to his friend, if he laughed I'd say it wasn't complimentry! He should however get rid of the cards if they bother you.

My girlfriend speaks to an ex of hers sometimes and saw one at a club at month back. It really doesn't bother me to be honest and we haven't even been together as long as you. Frankly if my girlfriend complained about this I'd be showing her the door.

I think houseofboys had a strong suspicion, prompting her to look. I dont see a problem with that. I do see a problem with the deleting of your browser, it shows you are guilty of something or afraid your partner wont like the sites you look at.
I agree about looking at old profiles its normal and natural. I like to see where some have ended up.

As for the cards.....not a chance they'd be in the attic if mine had been thrown away.