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The best things in life aren't free!!

So here goes nothing, after lurking (or just being plain nosy) at other peoples diaries I have decided to start my own. Hopefully I will manage to keep it short and sweet but hey I like to talk, so if you can sit tight then this is a little journey into my life.

I am a 28 year old female currently renting a house with my fiance of 6 years, I would like to say soon to be husband but at the moment that is just a dream. We share our house with our 'boy' DJ he is a rabbit, yes that's right a rabbit but I treat him like my child and love the little bones of him.

As my title says, The best things in life aren't free and I am a sucker for beautiful things. My main passion are cars and I have spent a fortune on my Golf GTI, love it to bits but the car is my main debt. I think I owe approx £5500 on it now. I am also a 'typical' woman and spend a LOT of money on clothes, shoes, accessories, bags, make up, perfume.... well you catch my drift! But and this is a big BUT I have discovered Big Wardrobe and have recently got into the habit of swapping my clothes instead of taking up room in my walk in wardrobe (Trust me I am just trying to sound posh, really it is a rail in my spare room!) I have managed to get my credit card bill down to £950 (This is good for me!) and pay it off as much as possible every month.

My debts are what I would call 'managable' as I am never looking under the sofa for pennies at the end of the month, however I have NO savings whatsover. Which is not good as we are currently looking for a house to buy (My OH has £10,000 in savings)

I earn £1450 per month after tax but I really am rubbish at saving (I take after my mum) My opinion is that life is to short to save and I work damn hard for my money, however, I know my opinion is never going to get me far!! I will try and put an SOA on here as soon as I figure it out and see if any of you clever people can see where I am going wrong (This shouldn't be too hard :rolleyes:)
xx
Married 1st October 2015:heartpuls

1st Baby due June 2016 :happylove
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,772 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Shiney new diary :)
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  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,087 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Happy new diary. If you can get your debt sorted now - then it will give you so many more options in life - Go for it!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • Thanks :) My debt is defitnately what I need to get rid of first, at least then I can see what I am left with per month and how much I can put away.
    Married 1st October 2015:heartpuls

    1st Baby due June 2016 :happylove
  • Hey I started a diary today aswell just popped in to wish you luck
    Debt at LBM £19700 :eek:
    Arrears £4800

    :j married 14/08/2010 :j
    Date wife can move to live with me 28/02/2011 (date she can leave work for good) :beer:
  • Yay thanks, I'll come over and check yours out!
    Married 1st October 2015:heartpuls

    1st Baby due June 2016 :happylove
  • Primula
    Primula Posts: 953 Forumite
    Oooohhh, lovely, a new diary! Now you have to keep posting since you have had so many visitors already!
  • haha thanks Prim I like a challenge, lets just hope I stick to it! :T Don't ask why I'm clapping I just love this smilie!
    Married 1st October 2015:heartpuls

    1st Baby due June 2016 :happylove
  • hmmmmmmm so it's now my second day of my brand new spanking diary. I thought me and OH could go out to the garden centre today as he was feeling fragile after a heavy night out and I only ever look around garden centers I very rarely buy anything. Anyway to cut a long story short I found an Aroma Diffuser I just had to have for the living room, £45 later it was mine :o but that's okay as OH bought it for me so that doesn't count right?? That means I have had a no spend day yay :j
    I know it's still early in the day but it's x factor tonight so doubt I will be going out again later.
    Married 1st October 2015:heartpuls

    1st Baby due June 2016 :happylove
  • Hello just to say i am reading and good luck! X factor is so good for keeping you in isnt it i turn down all invites on a sat! ha ha.
  • haha thanks BEAT, I think it's what Saturdays were made for (god I'm getting old :rotfl:) Good luck with your debt, have you got your diary up and running? If so I'll pop on over and have a look at your progress.
    Married 1st October 2015:heartpuls

    1st Baby due June 2016 :happylove
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