Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

eco

Butterfliesarepretty wrote: »

he just texted me to say he is shampooing his carpet and sweating like a long night sex session and will phone me later and called me babe too.
But am still worrying.

He might be cleaning his place to impress you when you visit, but agree with Yargo try to remain calm.

Yargo1

Hi butterflies and eco.. hope you both having a nice evening..

ive just got in from job two so am shattered.. had some reduced price salmon out of the freezer (defrosted) and some parsley sauce. was lovely...

Being picked up at half six tomorrow for my 2nd stint at the exhibition.. lovely..so am just watchin the end of corrie thenwill be in bed!

Butterfliesarepretty

eco wrote: »

He might be cleaning his place to impress you when you visit, but agree with Yargo try to remain calm.

hi he has texted to me to say to not be sad please so have replied back to say i will try and wished him a good evening. think i will have an early night as i have a headache with all the crying:wall:, think i am looking into things too deep.
all my friends are saying take it easy and relax and let things go slowly.;)

Yargo1

Hey butterflies, you should have a hot bath with lots of bubbles and a cuppa and chill for a bit before u hit the sack.. dont stay upset .. IMO he asked u then either decided it was too soon for you to meet others / or thought U would be thinking that it was ... and so cancelled...

He is Still texting...thats the main thing... he sounds lovely from what uve said so just see how it goes......

sending u a hug and hoping u feel better after a good nights sleep, x

Yargo1

Makeup, hope you still having a good time away..... been raining all day here !!

Souk, hope your mums birthday went well. and youve had a good time.

Sarahb....what you upto? xx

Butterfliesarepretty

Yargo1 wrote: »

Hey butterflies, you should have a hot bath with lots of bubbles and a cuppa and chill for a bit before u hit the sack.. dont stay upset .. IMO he asked u then either decided it was too soon for you to meet others / or thought U would be thinking that it was ... and so cancelled...

He is Still texting...thats the main thing... he sounds lovely from what uve said so just see how it goes......

sending u a hug and hoping u feel better after a good nights sleep, x

well he did text later on and said bingo was rubbish and was I ok and did i want him to come over. i replied only if he wanted to.
he also said he would phone me later.
at 10pm i went to bed and tried to phone his mobile once at 10.30 and even texted 'whats happening' but the phone went on to voicemail. and no reply from text.

so my guess is its over already, i texted him this morning nicely to ask if he is still talking to me and i will now wait.

i hate this stupid game of chase.:(

Butterfliesarepretty

Butterfliesarepretty wrote: »

well he did text later on and said bingo was rubbish and was I ok and did i want him to come over. i replied only if he wanted to.
he also said he would phone me later.
at 10pm i went to bed and tried to phone his mobile once at 10.30 and even texted 'whats happening' but the phone went on to voicemail. and no reply from text.

so my guess is its over already, i texted him this morning nicely to ask if he is still talking to me and i will now wait.

i hate this stupid game of chase.:(

just got a text back 'sorry tracey even thou we got on when we met i just could not see us long term and i would not want to use you for a short term fling babe'

i felt really distraught, i really dont understand life sometimes and i seem to get a lot of knockbacks and i cant understand why.

Souk08

Oh dear! Honestly though you can't rely on anyone else to make you happy, you have to have that from you and then anyone else is a nice add on. Take care and remember that two or three days ago you'd never met him so how can a stranger upset you.

Look after yourself X

Having a nice time at Mum's. Thanks all X

Butterfliesarepretty

Souk08 wrote: »

Oh dear! Honestly though you can't rely on anyone else to make you happy, you have to have that from you and then anyone else is a nice add on. Take care and remember that two or three days ago you'd never met him so how can a stranger upset you.

Look after yourself X

Having a nice time at Mum's. Thanks all X

hi souk08 i am ok now, had a friend come round to cheer me up. to be honest when i look back at the date he asked me whether I shaved under my arms and hes now got back to me and told me it was because I had hair on my face and he commented my eyebrows needed doing too. he said that put him off enjoying kissing me.
maybe he wants a plucked chicken. anyway after my friend left i spruced myself up and went to asda and got some stuff for weekend. Ill be damned if any snobby guy is going to put me off enjoying my life.

He lived in a flat and i don't think he would look good in my little car anyway.

I just got my blood test results back about my hormones and they are normal apparently so can anyone recommend what I should do about these few facial hairs?

makeup

Butterflies - he sounds quite mean and I'm glad he is now off the scene. Onwards and upwards and all that.

Re: facial hair, depends really. You can tweeze but it can make it worse, you can use a facial wax or removing cream or go to a salon for threading or waxing. Long term you can look at laser treatment but it is quite expensive and works best on dark hair and if I recall you have blonde hair?

Hope you have nice weekend