Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

Yargo1

Blimey souk, that is a long day! you must be shattered too!

Hope your mum has a lovely birthday and you enjoy the time with her too x

makeup

Hey Y'all

Am in Cornwall, gorge hotel and had a fab day. Visited the Street Shopping Village and got a few bargains. Stuff I needed though...will head over to Clothes Challenge shortly.

Looking forward to Eden project tomorrow and getting my fill of good food!!!

Mortgage appt was ok, horrendous rate but expected it. However feel a bit railroaded so going to have to make sure my views are heard I think! I'm not the sort of person to just take the first price I'm offered for something. I like to do a bit of looking around to be sure I'm getting the best rate.


Souk - enjoy your Mum's birthday, sounds like you'll have a lovely day.

Rosa - good luck with deadlines

Yargo - loving the gym session / sauna all sounds fab and a nice reward for a long day.

Butterfliesarepretty

Hi all, happy today. date went really well. He texted me to say meet him at traff ctre at half seven so he could ring his kids. I set off and there was a massive traffic jam at 7.15 on m60 all way to the centre so had to come off at m61 and come off at walkden and drive all way down and then got lost. he had to come and find me and we went to a pub and chilled out with coffee and drinks and we just clicked and lots of affection etc and it was amazing. He was a gent and saw me off home in my car so I drove home and so did he. Hes invited me to bingo tonight with his brothers and sisters ! Gotta take £7.50 to play.;)
hes lovely. :T

Yargo1

omg. so you met him last night and seeing again tonight!!

wow! so so must have gone brilliantly.. were you pleased he was into bingo? or not!! i mean i like it ..but have never met a guy who is... last time i mentioned it to a guy he laughed at me.. but he was a loser to be fair!!! ...

Hope you win some money too!! so glad uve met someone nice...

Butterfliesarepretty

Yargo1 wrote: »

omg. so you met him last night and seeing again tonight!!

wow! so so must have gone brilliantly.. were you pleased he was into bingo? or not!! i mean i like it ..but have never met a guy who is... last time i mentioned it to a guy he laughed at me.. but he was a loser to be fair!!! ...

Hope you win some money too!! so glad uve met someone nice...

problem already, he sent me a text hoping i did not mind but he thought it too soon i meet his family and friends and bingo, he thought it good idea at the time and he would call at my house after bingo, and see me over weekend as he now has my address, he did not want to jump in too quick and hoped i understand that he does like me and dont want to rush. I got tearful and sent text back feeling let down but told him if he was not sure about me to tell me now before going any further. I also asked him what time he would be coming round.

As yet no reply but I will leave it.

I guess i liked him too much but he did do all the chasing and now I feel that I have messed things up.

Trying to chill out and not worry but I am preparing myself for being dumped.

Yargo1

AAAAgggh... I did think it seemed a bit too much too soon when i read it hun. BUT that was him asking you! so not you being pushy or anything...Maybe one of his mates or family said its a bit soon? which u probably do think it would have been too?? it would be better for you to meet again on your own a few times first?

Im sure youve not blown it or anything of the sort.. he is probably feeling bad that he has "mucked you about" and is thinking how he can get to see you again very soon....

Im sure you will hear back before the night is over hun . try not to worry! xx

Butterfliesarepretty

Yargo1 wrote: »

AAAAgggh... I did think it seemed a bit too much too soon when i read it hun. BUT that was him asking you! so not you being pushy or anything...Maybe one of his mates or family said its a bit soon? which u probably do think it would have been too?? it would be better for you to meet again on your own a few times first?

Im sure youve not blown it or anything of the sort.. he is probably feeling bad that he has "mucked you about" and is thinking how he can get to see you again very soon....

Im sure you will hear back before the night is over hun . try not to worry! xx

he just texted me to say he is shampooing his carpet and sweating like a long night sex session and will phone me later and called me babe too.
But am still worrying.

Yargo1

see! told you you would hear from him soon... He was just feeling awkward about getting back in touch after letting u down...

thats fab news! nothing to worry about at all... just take it steady and keep cool.. he obviously likes u so just carry on as you are!

xx

Yargo1

Lol... just realised i am fabulous at giving advice...but not at taking it...hence my being single! lol x

Butterfliesarepretty

Yargo1 wrote: »

Lol... just realised i am fabulous at giving advice...but not at taking it...hence my being single! lol x

yeh thats me I always give advice but terrible at keeping cool. best not to keep texting and let him chase me. I am just too sensitive but he said he is too. there was a lot of eye contact too last night and cuddles etc.