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Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

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  • Yargo1
    Yargo1 Posts: 1,047 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Hello.
    Not sure at all about the new chap now... he text me last night at half nine to say he was too tired to come round, hed been up since 3 am and was due to wake up at 3 am again this am!!! grrr. i was moody..sent mess back saying i was sure he knew way before half nine he felt too tired to come round!!!!

    Now he is not taking my calls (only tried him twice mind) and hasnt replied to a text...NOT going to contact again now.. so unless i hear from him... LOL i do not want to turn into mad stalker type....BUT why now he is ignoring do i feel compelled to harrass ..... not good... His loss if he dont ... hmmmmm ... just when i thought maybe just maybe this one is a good one..... BUT i hate being messed about ... maybe thats why i get arsy if plans change...

    hope you are all having a better time of it today... im on my t break at mo ...so better get going... catch u later x
    DEBT FREE - MARCH 2012 - NOW JUST THE MORTGAGE!
    MFW 2012 No.148:£1600 / £450.00
    Mortgage - 102,57.16
  • makeup
    makeup Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    Hey All

    I went to see a new build development (shared ownership) on saturday and I've put in a preference form for one of the flats (well, three choices!)

    I heard back today that they are going to have the final viewing day on 6th March and then week commencing 8th March I should hear one way or another.

    I'm not sure how successful I'm going to be, I'm feeling a bit pessimistic about it as they were quite negative about allocating a 2 bed flat to a single person so will just need a bit of luck to come my way!!!

    It will be quite tight financially if it goes ahead, won't leave me much cash spare but I know that I have quite a few areas that I can cut down on so I'm hopeful I can learn lots of frugal lessons!!!


    Sarah - yes is a big faff for the 99p stuff but at least is good practice for more expensive stuff and worth learning the lessons on those things! I'm hoping to get on with the ebay stuff again, I've lots to go on there and will be fab to get it out of the flat and I don't mind if it is just 99p bits - all adds up!!
    I've got my own flat :j:j

    Now I have to pay the bills :eek:

    And feed my interiors addiction ;)
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Yargo1 wrote: »
    Hello.
    Not sure at all about the new chap now... he text me last night at half nine to say he was too tired to come round, hed been up since 3 am and was due to wake up at 3 am again this am!!! grrr. i was moody..sent mess back saying i was sure he knew way before half nine he felt too tired to come round!!!!

    Now he is not taking my calls (only tried him twice mind) and hasnt replied to a text...NOT going to contact again now.. so unless i hear from him... LOL i do not want to turn into mad stalker type....BUT why now he is ignoring do i feel compelled to harrass ..... not good... His loss if he dont ... hmmmmm ... just when i thought maybe just maybe this one is a good one..... BUT i hate being messed about ... maybe thats why i get arsy if plans change...

    hope you are all having a better time of it today... im on my t break at mo ...so better get going... catch u later x


    Ah hope he doesn't turn out to be an a hole hun. I would feel like you do, I go a bit Glenn Close don't I souk? ;)

    I started emailing another two guys on match last night though, although part of me thinks shouldn't date at all as I got so mardy about the other guy who ditched me, can't be arsed with getting upset over men but I do it so easily.

    I am enjoying my day off today, been doctors for more pill just incase I do get lucky :rotfl: and sainsburys where I purchased lots of snacky rubbish!!! :D
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Where are you all tonight?
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • I am here but off to bed soon, been chatting to a nice guy on ok cupid, my eyes are tired now bed soon.
    Tomorrow its going to be curry and wine for tea roll on the weekend and see my dad at weekend and visit my mx5 friend for a chat.;)
    Mortgage Free 2016Work Part Time:DHouse Hunting In France 2023
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Good Luck with the new man! I had a man wobble earlier due to the wonders of internet stalking again. Lets just say last man seems to have defo dumped me for someone else. I wanna be the winner for a man! :o

    Just need to be a winner for a better man.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • makeup wrote: »
    I'm hoping to get on with the ebay stuff again, I've lots to go on there and will be fab to get it out of the flat and I don't mind if it is just 99p bits - all adds up!!

    Just think, anything you manage to sell you can put towards your deposit and it will make life easier as it will be less stuff to carry when you do move.:j

    Will keep my fingers crossed for your flat, getting a two bed one would be fab:)
    Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000
    June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40
    Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j
  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Ooooh makeup - how exciting about the flat, sending positive vibes your way :)

    I am going shopping with DD1 tomorrow ( yes, it could be disastrous) but I am so wiped out with all the events at work this week that I cannot muster any enthusiasm for either that or pay day :(.

    I've had my medicinal G&T so no longer stressed, but really just cant be bothered with anything. I think I need to top up my karma again.
  • gwen80
    gwen80 Posts: 2,255 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Aww Lula, I'm sure you'll enjoy it when you get out. What about a nice (but cheap) lunch somewhere leisurely too?

    Also have my fingers crossed for the flat, makeup :)

    Gwenx
    Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending
  • Lula-Hula wrote: »
    Ooooh makeup - how exciting about the flat, sending positive vibes your way :)

    I am going shopping with DD1 tomorrow ( yes, it could be disastrous) but I am so wiped out with all the events at work this week that I cannot muster any enthusiasm for either that or pay day :(.

    I've had my medicinal G&T so no longer stressed, but really just cant be bothered with anything. I think I need to top up my karma again.

    I am just looking forward to the (pay day) fish and chips plus wine and sitting very still in front of the TV

    Karmic hgs xxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
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