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Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

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  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Bibbitybob wrote: »
    I love the idea of FWB but I'd probably only end up getting attached :rolleyes:

    Yeah agree it could be risky. But needs must lol.
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Money_Fritter
    Money_Fritter Posts: 2,293 Forumite
    Sorry bibbitybob, did not mean to ignore you!!!!!!!

    Lincolnshire is indeed closer, but I live in durham, which is still to far away, unless you want to meet half way :p

    Money Fritter
    DFW#972 LBM2 (09/07/12) £25938.84; Current £23783.35;
    Credit Credit Card1 £128.47/£6424.24 (2%);
    Credit Card2 £443.86/£15663.25 (2.8%); Overdraft £0/£2500 (0%)
  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    Getting attached is the biggest problem with FWB's mainly because it's normally just one of you that develops feelings! I told mine the other day that we wouldn't ever work in a proper relationship and she told me exactly the opposite! She keeps dropping hints that she feels far more for me but I honestly don't reciprocate so it's hard cheese for her!
    The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha

    I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    TDQO wrote: »
    Getting attached is the biggest problem with FWB's mainly because it's normally just one of you that develops feelings! I told mine the other day that we wouldn't ever work in a proper relationship and she told me exactly the opposite! She keeps dropping hints that she feels far more for me but I honestly don't reciprocate so it's hard cheese for her!

    Be careful then hun!!! :eek:
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Money_Fritter
    Money_Fritter Posts: 2,293 Forumite
    Well at least you are honest TDQO, some people would string somebody along for awhile and mess them about, better to be truthful from the begining.

    Money Fritter
    DFW#972 LBM2 (09/07/12) £25938.84; Current £23783.35;
    Credit Credit Card1 £128.47/£6424.24 (2%);
    Credit Card2 £443.86/£15663.25 (2.8%); Overdraft £0/£2500 (0%)
  • Souk08
    Souk08 Posts: 3,240 Forumite
    I'm obviously just a gay man trapped in a Page 3 girls body (LMAO) as the thought of any kind of comittment feels like a big fat noose around my neck. I LOVE going out and flirting, meeting someone new and knowing you're going to take them home, having lots of different types of men on the go and being able to potter and do my own thing too. Won't live with anyone again (unless it's family and I need to) and have never imagined myself in a big white dress. Why would anyone want one men when they could have 6?! XXX
    'The road to a friends house is never long'
  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    I don't think I will ever get married souk, never imagined a wedding but do want children and dont want to bring them up alone if can help it.

    I blame my homelyness on being Cancerian though!
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • Money_Fritter
    Money_Fritter Posts: 2,293 Forumite
    Well my problem would be juggling six women at once. lmao

    But I would be prepared to give it a try, not!!!!!!!

    I quite like the idea of having a FWB, but I would never cheat on anybody.

    Must be old fashioned.
    DFW#972 LBM2 (09/07/12) £25938.84; Current £23783.35;
    Credit Credit Card1 £128.47/£6424.24 (2%);
    Credit Card2 £443.86/£15663.25 (2.8%); Overdraft £0/£2500 (0%)
  • eco
    eco Posts: 1,147 Forumite
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    Sorry bibbitybob, did not mean to ignore you!!!!!!!

    Lincolnshire is indeed closer, but I live in durham, which is still to far away, unless you want to meet half way :p

    Money Fritter

    Yorkshire's closer.

    I'm getting to work cos the main roads are ok, it's the back roads that are like ice rinks. Sarah I'd get the cheap wellies, my sis knicked my last pair, but I use hiking boots mainly cos the grips better. Although I was walking the mutts on the canal the other day and nearly fell in, cos I slipped I didn't notice the ice.
  • Money_Fritter
    Money_Fritter Posts: 2,293 Forumite
    Eco, when do you want me to come down. lol

    Money Fritter
    DFW#972 LBM2 (09/07/12) £25938.84; Current £23783.35;
    Credit Credit Card1 £128.47/£6424.24 (2%);
    Credit Card2 £443.86/£15663.25 (2.8%); Overdraft £0/£2500 (0%)
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