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Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women
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misslauren wrote: »I'm not too sure what to do with this ex of mine.
He really can infuriate me sometimes, but with other things he really seems to be trying. I would get mad at him for not replying to messages, and so now he'll reply to every one of them. But then again I don't really want to know that he can't chat because he's with a mate at midnight.
I wasn't going to get him a christmas present but then he brought it up and he was getting one for me, so I got him this Aston Martin model... I kind of want to keep it for myself, and I certainly don't want him to have it if that 'mate' of his was of the female variety.
how 'ex' is this 'ex' Sounds like a lot of feelings/stuff on both sides :rolleyes: Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56Weightloss : 0/34lbs0 -
Mmm.. We were together 2 years, broke up the day after our anniversary.. which was a little over a month ago. So not that long, and apparentley it was nothing to do with me... Haven't been able to get a straight answer out of him as to why.
It's just.. weird? We've seen and talked to each other more since we broke up than we did when we were together. Not sure what to think at this point...LBM - June 2014 DFD Goal: June 2016 (28th Bday!)
Car: [STRIKE]-$13,109.06 [/STRIKE] -$12,221.26
Amex: [STRIKE]-$7,154.38 [/STRIKE] -$8,000.00 :mad:
M/C: [STRIKE]-$3,172.73 [/STRIKE] -$3,034.50
Overdraft: -$2,500
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No advice really - but don't get taken for a ride (having his cake and eating it type stuff) :rolleyes:Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56Weightloss : 0/34lbs0
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Ummm I'd tell him where to stick it... he broke it off in the first place so he doesn't deserve the time of day. Don't be fooled into becoming just a FWB so he can play around.The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha
I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.0 -
misslauren wrote: »Mmm.. We were together 2 years, broke up the day after our anniversary.. which was a little over a month ago. So not that long, and apparentley it was nothing to do with me... Haven't been able to get a straight answer out of him as to why.
It's just.. weird? We've seen and talked to each other more since we broke up than we did when we were together. Not sure what to think at this point...
2 years... that's quite a while I know people who've been married (and divorced..) inside that timeframe.. just allow yourself time to heal.. and that requires some amount of distance, I am quite close with some of my ex-bf's but it took time not speaking to get there. Just remember to protect yourself. Not always easy to do if the yearning is still there but he chose to break away for his own reasons and its important to concentrate on what you want / need now...
Dodgy F_F_ fabulous hugs hunni :grouphug::grouphug:
You deserve the very best xx
FeeFee Barclaycard CC18.9%[STRIKE] £1800 [/STRIKE]£0NationwideOD[STRIKE] £2550[/STRIKE] £0 Prudential Loan 7.9% [strike]£1260[/strike] £0 0% Debt £[STRIKE]720[/STRIKE] £0 Catalogue debts £[STRIKE]470[/STRIKE] £0 - 0%
Total Debt - [strike]£6800[/strike] £[STRIKE]6550[/STRIKE] £[STRIKE]5042[/STRIKE] £[STRIKE]4616[/STRIKE] £[STRIKE]3420[/STRIKE][STRIKE]£2450 [/STRIKE][STRIKE]£1606[/STRIKE] £0:jDFB no.220 -
p.s. forget to eat??????????
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:FeeFee Barclaycard CC18.9%[STRIKE] £1800 [/STRIKE]£0NationwideOD[STRIKE] £2550[/STRIKE] £0 Prudential Loan 7.9% [strike]£1260[/strike] £0 0% Debt £[STRIKE]720[/STRIKE] £0 Catalogue debts £[STRIKE]470[/STRIKE] £0 - 0%
Total Debt - [strike]£6800[/strike] £[STRIKE]6550[/STRIKE] £[STRIKE]5042[/STRIKE] £[STRIKE]4616[/STRIKE] £[STRIKE]3420[/STRIKE][STRIKE]£2450 [/STRIKE][STRIKE]£1606[/STRIKE] £0:jDFB no.220 -
Thanks guys...
Was supposed to see him today but I think I'll leave it... I have a medical certificate he needs so I'll just drop it off in the post. I think i need some me time.LBM - June 2014 DFD Goal: June 2016 (28th Bday!)
Car: [STRIKE]-$13,109.06 [/STRIKE] -$12,221.26
Amex: [STRIKE]-$7,154.38 [/STRIKE] -$8,000.00 :mad:
M/C: [STRIKE]-$3,172.73 [/STRIKE] -$3,034.50
Overdraft: -$2,500
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Sounds like a plan
Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56Weightloss : 0/34lbs0 -
Yeh having thought about this a wee bit more I was going to suggest distance... you can't move on when you're spending so much time together. Back it off a load and see how you feel in a month or so...The size of a glory hole in an open pit should not be greater than the cross-section of the haul trucks that dump into it. Otherwise, you are bound to lose a truck, sooner or later. Source: Sergio Cha
I'm sorry for the demon I've become but you should be sorry for the angel you are not.0 -
Yay:j All the presents are wrapped:j I forgot how awful it was but everything looks nice now. The actual wrapping looks terrible:rolleyes: but I have managed to disguise how bad it is with some nice Christmassy bags:D.
Just the food shopping to do now:rolleyes:Pay/save £20k in 2010 £5888.75/£20,000June Mini target 0/5lbs Total 23/40Ebay profit 2010: March £207:) April £95:) May £130:) June £0 Total £432:j0
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