MSE Parents Club Part 7

astonsmummy

feelinggood wrote: »

Did I not mention? :rotfl:

Only kidding. I expect there will be another baby in future. I assumed I'd have 4-6, but I think two will be enough for me, don't think I could go through this again

Does anyone have any thoughts on sex selection? Not at the embryo stage, but the sperm washing type thing that just increases the chance? It isn't to expensive in Mexico lol.

I'm watching My Shocking Story about conjoined twins

Good I would of been most upset if you hadnt told me yourself

Wouldnt persnally do anything like that, what will be will be.

astonsmummy

feelinggood wrote: »

Lol buttons, I wasn't being nosey, I was asking how your mouth was! Have you had any more attempts at eating pie?

AM - Is everything alright?

Sugar, sounds like you've managed to get lots done despite unhelpful OH.

Yeah! I'm actually ok! I did cry for about 5 mins when he left earlier but then I though, sod it, I've wasted to much time, tears and energy on him and he really dont give a fig, so why should I?
As long as he sees Ryry I'm coolio

elle_gee

And finally.. the child sleeps!

It's been a long day... lots of teething symptoms and painful crying, also no dirty nappy since Sunday (usually one a day) and taking ages over his bottles. Could 1ml of Calpol really take more than an hour to work? Either it had no effect or it's finally just kicked in :cool:

3onitsway

astonsmummy wrote: »

OH and I have only been together since Jan 2008 and havent exactly been steady the whole time so I wouldnt feel comfortable in Aston living with him, he's not his 'dad' and I know Aston would much rather live with my Mum, and My mum wouldnt have it any other way anyway.

Weezl: I'm ok, tbh it's been on the cards and since he got back from spain everything seemed to change, i'm just gutted to Ryry but it' not fair on the kids if were not getting on.

Sorry AM - it was me being a dippy bint and getting the wrong end of the stick!
When you said you and OH weren't together, I thought you meant Ex-OH, not OH.
To save confusion, ex-oh will have to be known as ex-ex-oh!

mookiandco

astonsmummy wrote: »

Yeah! I'm actually ok! I did cry for about 5 mins when he left earlier but then I though, sod it, I've wasted to much time, tears and energy on him and he really dont give a fig, so why should I?
As long as he sees Ryry I'm coolio

(((Smushy hugs))) to you AM. I've always thought of you as a very strong (and feisty!) person and a wonderful mummy too (but its okay to shed a few tears too, you've had alot of ups and downs with your ex OH and it must have taken it out of you). You concentrate on looking after you for a while. xx

astonsmummy

3onitsway wrote: »

Sorry AM - it was me being a dippy bint and getting the wrong end of the stick!
When you said you and OH weren't together, I thought you meant Ex-OH, not OH.
To save confusion, ex-oh will have to be known as ex-ex-oh!

Sorry! well yes I'll call him ex oh from now on lol

elle_gee

mookiandco wrote: »

(((Smushy hugs))) to you AM. I've always thought of you as a very strong (and feisty!) person and a wonderful mummy too (but its okay to shed a few tears too, you've had alot of ups and downs with your ex OH and it must have taken it out of you). You concentrate on looking after you for a while. xx

Seconded! *hugs* AM xx

astonsmummy

mookiandco wrote: »

(((Smushy hugs))) to you AM. I've always thought of you as a very strong (and feisty!) person and a wonderful mummy too (but its okay to shed a few tears too, you've had alot of ups and downs with your ex OH and it must have taken it out of you). You concentrate on looking after you for a while. xx

Aww thnx, I'm just going to concentrate on my boys first and foremost, and sort me out in the process, I'm thinking, loose loads of weight, and get a new wardrobe.....when I sort out me money situation! :eek:

money_maker_3

elle_gee wrote: »

Right, don't want to get excited yet and I'm not 100%, but I think the letter is bascally saying the fluid from the haemorrhage we knew about (when Rhys was roughly 3wks old) is still there (we knew it was when he was 8wks old and assumed it'd stayed) and not drained away. That is what they want the Notts specialist to see him about which is probably to discuss putting a drain in to get rid of it - we were warned about that at the beginning but it was made out to be not a huge thing when you consider the end result.

The good news is that there is "no significant celebral atrophy" which is the damage / loss of cells in the brain which could have meant cerebal palsy, and also he is showing "no signs of intercranial pressure", meaning the fluid isn't causing him any problems at the minute..

Am quietly confident

:j:j:j:j yeah

mookiandco

Just blinded myself for the millionth time with the deadly bottle brush. I'm forever putting it in the bottle and then pulling it out quickly so the bristles splurt my face with water and washing up liquid. Anyone else do that or is it just me?

My dad and little bro are coming over in a bit. Being the slummy mummy that I am, i'm just going to give everything a quick going over with a couple of baby wipes! I sooooo need a cleaner but i'd be too embarrassed to let her in!