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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Toto wrote: »
    Tell her to **** off snags, it's up to you what diet you do.

    I know it's because she cares, but she is adamant it's dangerous, when she doesn't know anything about it.

    And she smokes, which I never have a go at her about, because I figure she's an intelligent woman and she already knows the dangers, so the decision is hers.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Snags, a true friend may not agree with what you do, but should be there for you anyway.......

    That's why I'm upset really, just thought she would realise that I'm already at breaking point, and can't just shake things like this off.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Absolutely agree with what Scaredy says! Fancy spending time with you but not really being there (texting, on phone, on FB) Very rude! I would just say you understand what she has said and she might not agree with everything you do but this is you and you hope that she will support you all the same.

    Beanie that is just horrible..we are all still here BTW
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    beanielou wrote: »
    Well Snaggs not that its any conselation one of my good friends appears to have dumped me as Im too poor.Great eh?

    OMG how horrible. (((hugs)))

    You're better off without friends like that hun.
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • Toto
    Toto Posts: 6,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Snaggles wrote: »
    I know it's because she cares, but she is adamant it's dangerous, when she doesn't know anything about it.

    And she smokes, which I never have a go at her about, because I figure she's an intelligent woman and she already knows the dangers, so the decision is hers.

    I'm just a bit grumpy today :o

    I'm sure she does care but she should know you well enough to know that you wouldn't do anything dangerous. Does she feel she needs to lose a few pounds? Usually the only time people have a go at me for whatever daft diet I'm on it's because they secretly wish they could do something about their own eating habits.
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    "Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" - Albert Einstein
  • Toto
    Toto Posts: 6,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    aww beanie sorry you're having a rough time too.
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    "Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" - Albert Einstein
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Hows our resident tangoed girl today Toto??
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • Toto
    Toto Posts: 6,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    she's slowly going back to baby colour sally, she does look like she needs a good exfoliate and a top up though :)
    :A
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    "Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" - Albert Einstein
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Toto wrote: »
    she's slowly going back to baby colour sally, she does look like she needs a good exfoliate and a top up though :)

    Bath of olive oil and salt tomorrow then :rotfl:Bless her, I hope you have loads of pictures to show her when she is older!
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
  • sallyx
    sallyx Posts: 15,815 Forumite
    Right bedtime for me..catch you tomorrow xx
    I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
    Finally Debt Free...
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