MSE Pregnancy Club XVI

Evansangel

Oh no nikkit, *hugs*
My cousin is similar she thinks her kids are angels when they actaully would make satan look like a saint lol.

Fern, i couldn't have ginger with my MS either, i had some ginger tea (as i hate ginger so no way was i eating it lol) and it actually made it worse!

Maybe try a slice of toast? (even though i never fancied toast either lol)

x

aless02

*hugs* three...can you phone the complaints line with your concerns? My anti-D appt was made directly by my midwife as I sat right there & I've NEVER gotten my blood results in the post, but since you're in Scotland I have a feeling everything works differently? Best thing to phone the hospital on Monday just to check about your appt. It's prolly lost in the post!

Sorry to all those who are feeling sick...*hugs* it'll get better and then you'll move on to fun uncomfortableness and heartburn!

Was really awkward at antenatal yesterday. Basically our class has 2 midwife groups - one is caseload (meaning you are assigned to 1 MW) and the other is community group (you are just assigned to the group and see whoever) and I get the drift that the group MWs are a bit crap. Basically the caseload MWs do loads of extra stuff and all the group MW ladies were moaning about wanting to change...of course the MWs themselves can't do anything as it's all luck of the draw with the NHS, but it wasn't helping that they kept saying things like, 'oh if you're one of our ladies, we'll come and do suchandsuch but not if you're with the other team'! I'm really glad I'm with the 'better' group, but still I feel bad for the other ladies.

kindofagilr

Aww Nikkit thats !!!! that like, I would be well !!!!ed off with OH.

Yes your DD said that but she apolgised and they were being horrible to her, he is stupid if he cant see that!!!!

three2be

Nikkit so sorry that all of that is going on, try to understand it from his point of view(i know you shouldn't have too). When things have calmed down a bit more tell him you are sorry that your DD said what she did on a public forum for all to see instead of keeping it behind closed doors like his and informing you of it days later when it could have been sorted out more amicably(yes i am a sarcastic b!tch lol).

If he cant see it from your point of view then tell him perhaps it is for the best they stay away for the time being as the added stress they were putting on you during your pregnancy was taking it's toll and disrupting your DD adding to the stress.

Also point out that perhaps the time away will help them to appreciate the time they spend with you's and let things settle between the kids.

Thats my pennies worth as an outsider who is not in your position so ignore if you wish lol.

nikkit72

three,

I have put myself in hes position, i told DD what would it be like if it was her dads GF kids doing it to him , and exactly what you said i spoke to DD about she should of spoke to us and not put it on facebook etc,
The thing what is getting me is , hes kids come to see him and not my DD , i make my DD stay in every saturday to kepp hes kids occupied as you may remember all tehy want to do is watch tv all day , we dont have spare money to ake 5 kids out every week so i know its hard , but why he has to blame me when there is way around it , like i said he could of stayed round there house to see em for cpl hours , or even took em to hes brothers house , this is what i dont understand , he is blaming me and DD , when there is away around it , also he said they didnt actually say it was cause of DD !! i know it may be part of it , but if it was my kids i would tell em to go see there dad and ignore the girl theydidnt like.

LittleBit_2

Hi girls, not posted on here for ages!! I've just had a look at the due date list, and my date is wrong. It shows at 5th November, but it's actually 28th October!
I'm due in 5 days, but feel overdue already, as DS was born 6 days early, so I was convinced this one would be too. I've had a sweep already, as I have big babies, but nothing has happened :mad:
I've got an appt with the consultant on Thursday (day after my due date) to discuss early induction if baby isn't here by then...
Hope you're all doing ok x

three2be

Nikkit it the words of my dad it sounds like your OH has just spit the dummie lol and cut his nose off to spite his face. of course he dose not want to spend time with them else where because then he would have to admit their faults and reprimand them if they were else where(my opinion not necessarily true just what i feel) and would not be able to shift the blame.

He will no doubt concede their faults but may not admit that to you. Also may be let your DD go out from now on when they come over not fair keeping her in when they are just being silly and making her upset. If they just want to watch TV then let them although that seems to be a lack of imagination for them seems very lazy for young kids to just watch TV i can never understand ppl for that. Not getting at you just mean i could not have sat watching TV at that age, so it baffles me!

It will no doubt sort itself out, and they will be laughing in a couple of weeks.
Hugs for you in the mean time.

nikkit72

3 ,
i hope so too , i told him that once they come round and appologise face to face it will all be ok,

the other thing is , my DD was grounded for a whole week in her room , no tv , no computer , nothin !! she got through a few books that week , i feel she has learnt her lesson but no , he still says no computer and only tv in her room , he doesnt even want her to watch tv in the living room with us ,
i honestly what to do , its awful here . i feel she s learnt her lesson but he doesnt , he has said she aint allowed back on the computer ever!!

jha

Cant remember who was asking but midwife said everyone should do 1/2 hour a day on hands and knees to prevent back to back and allow baby to turn. It dosent matter whether you are on hands and knees or forearms and knees, leaning on a gymball etc as long as your belly has a chance to hang. (just popping a disclaimer in here - if you have spd / pgp or any health probs please check with midwife or doc first;))

Hugs three

Nikkit - i am so sorry about that scar of yours i meant to ask last week.

I would just say to your oh - My daughter has mis - behaved she has apologised to your dds and ex, removed the post and i have disciplined her by..... (whatever you did e.g no pocket money for a week).
The decision of your DDs or ex oh regarading visiting this week is nothing to do with me and my daughter.
Just leave it at that if you can (this is what i usually do if oh is ranting about something which invariably is not my fault). and concentrate on getting better and looking after your baby to be and 3 other kids.

Fernliebee - if lemonade helps - drink it:D I was stuck on carbonated water for the first trimester - dont forget to try out the travel sickness bands too.

No change here, hugs to all feeling rubbish and labour vibes / sticky bean vibes to all that need them.

nikkit72

JHA , you know what you are so right , i will say that later , my DD is staying at friends tonight as she wanted to , and i thought a great time ,

ty