MSE Pregnancy Club XVI

got-it-spend-it

Nanc- you're very patient! I think you're totally right though- it'll happen when it happens.

Mel- hugs for you. Hope you get the chance to rest today. Sounds like a horrid combination of cold and morning sickness. I don't know how you ladies with older kids do it- I'm struggling looking after myself!

three2be

Well i am certainly losing faith in my PCT given the advice i have got so far and none of it has been right. It is not exactly leaving me relishing the thought of giving birth surrounded by them. I've been sent to the wrong places given the wrong contact information referred for care to the wrong MW, and being pushed for a C/section when it's not necessary and no one will/can tell me why.

Now i'm left trying to find out about tests and jags that they should have organized appointments for, but have over looked.

I hate having to do other peoples jobs for them.
:rolleyes:I think i may be stressed out lol

nikkit72

done red all added

Evansangel

Merrrgh, the time when your not supposed to take loads of pain killers i get constant headaches

Nanc- *sending you loads of labour vibes* a girl on my facebook is due any day now and her status last night was "Im not coming back on until this devil child is out of me, im fed up with you all asking if she's here yet!" :rotfl:

I can now get on games at work, but they are all rubbish lol. A very boring day today :rolleyes:

fernliebee

Sorry everyone- moan alert! I try not to moan to much as I willingly signed myself up to this, but the last few days I have felt terrible. I have been sick every morning and felt constantly sick, and constantly hungry, but can't think of what I could eat iyswim. I have been so tired, been sleeping 12 hours and still having an afternoon nap, and not being able to drag myself up. I never had this with DD, but obviously I am running around with her so am going to be more tired. I just feel really bad that I'm being a boring mummy for her, she is only 16 months and she is such a good girl, just want to be able to feel ok for her. Only relief at the min is if I have a glass of lemonade, sorts me out for 1/2 hour or so, but can't be constantly drinking lemonade! Lol! The thought of anything ginger makes me ill even when I'm not sick, and the dry cracker thing makes me feel worse, I just want lemonade or carvery all the time lol! Surely I can't get cravings from 6 weeks? I don't think they started with DD until about 12-14 weeks.

nikkit72

fern , i used to have rich tea biscuits when i was felling nausea also drank water , only ever had the sickeness felling not actually doing it.

nikkit72

long post alert...

here goes,

about 2 weeks ago , my DD was upstairs with OH 2 girls (11 &5), well sometimes they have enough of each other and get on each others nerves , well my DD was on the computer at the time on her facebook , and wrote something like:
these !!!!!**s next to me are doing my head in they are swearing and hitting me, i hate them ,

well none of them came to say anything then on the monday hes ex emailed him and said my DD had wrote this and we checked , and hes ex said hes 2 girls would not be coming around here the following saturday , anyhow he went round as usal to collect them , the elder one said she didnt want to come and at her age (11) prob doesnt want to keep going to her dads as i know kids get to a certan age and just dont want to , any way the younger one was ill so she didnt come round ,
anyhow my DD apologised to them 2 to what she said and deleted it , i know what teenage girls can be like IFYKWIM.
Anyway he went round this morning to collect them , the 10 mins later comes storming in to the house and said 'guess what ?' they aint coming , and its all because of your DD , i said , dont put all the blame on her , why dont you stay round there and stop blaming me and my kids for your kids not coming round , or why the hell why dont you take em to ur brothers if they really dont want to come round her , i also said , why isnt youngest DD coming i can understand the elder but the younger no , he said she follows her sister , year right thats why a few weeks ago the younger one came round without the elder as she was off somewhere with friends !!!!.
I also said who said they werent coming round because of my DD , he said they didnt actually say my DD was reason but was obvious !!!!

Now i am up stairs as he wont even speak to me now , i am so upset this is going to cause such a rift in the house now ,,

oh and ofc hes girls are angels !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT, they were doing stuff to my DD that day by hitting her and swearing at her ....

I dont know what to do, if i wasnt pg , i would tell him to get out and find somewhere else to live and be happy with hes two perfect children

Sorry so long i am so angry

kindofagilr

gymfiend wrote: »

Morning

Hope everyone's well?

Weezl well done on the eBay listing

Miserable weather here today, OH & I have already been up and out Got myself 2 pineapples, no wish to induce labour for a while yet but yum, I love them No exciting plans today really, might try and buy some drawers for bubs so I can start to buy and put away his bits and pieces...but OH is going to the pub this aft so he'll be in no fit state to accompany me :rotfl:

Fidget I know the feeling of irritation when OH is drinking and I'm not - spent last night with his family, all drinking but me, very boring really! Tonight should be fun when he returns home..:o Nevermind, will get some girly DVDs on and subject him to them as punishment

Really pleased so many of you like the name Jude I love it, though OH's mum delighted in telling me yesterday that she didn't! Apparently, she liked Eliot better, or Alex. I really love Tobin too, but they all said that was 'disgusting' (bit harsh!!), grr. :mad: When will I learn to just not tell! Oh and whilst they were telling me this, they also told me it was unreasonable of me to not expect OH to go skiing with them!!! :eek: Selfish b******s.

But nevermind, his parents are now gone til Christmas time so no need to see them for aaaaaaaaaages

Awww stupid in laws!!!!

OH has just read it and he said he would have stayed at home as well and not gone skiing!!! Stupid OH's family lol

If you like Tobin and Jude and OH does too then go for it

I am totally shattered as well there must be something in the air

Nanc - I think you are very patient

Fern - I know this isnt much help but it will get better I was so tired in the begginng

Fitzio

nancmat wrote: »

Still no movement from me blahhh... I just cant sleep at the moment was on sofa last night with window wide open as well...

My friend who is due a week after me has been seeing a consultant for the last two weeks due to high blood pressure she went in yesterday and she was 3cm dialiated.. and they told her to come in at 8am today to break her waters, so she is in now said it will be a long process not in much pain just waiting for more contractions but they need to monitor her..

I still feel ok.. amm so fed up of being told eat a curry, get on bouncy ball, go for a walk argggg just shut up she will come when ready ha ha (I have done all the above, had rasp leaf tea every day for a month now, pineapple etc) x

You're right Nanc, she will come when she is ready! Try to enjoy your last days as you haven't had long on mat leave. I think curry etc will just make you poo yourself during labour rather than making it quicker (although you may do this anyway, who knows!). I had fully expected to go 2 weeks overdue so was lucky that I went a day early so didn't have to experience the excess waiting. Fingers crossed you don't have too long. Enjoy your weekend though. x

kindofagilr

I AM !!!!ING SICK OF OUR NEIGHBOUR!!!! every !!!!ing weekend he is doing some form of drilling, sawing, cutting, basically making a noise!!!!! ARGH