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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 5

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  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Miss_Piggy wrote: »
    If it cheers any of you up, the lovely Piglet just found an old furry raisin on the floor (I'm a fab housewife:rolleyes:), came running towards me to show me, tripped and the raisin went flying through the air and straight down my cleavage. Having kids is fab............

    Miss P
    xx

    I'm sorry to laugh at your misfortune but that's frickin' hilarious! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Thanks for all the virtual hugs.

    Unfortunately the hugs are not making any difference to how I feel. Don't any of you lot get upset with how I feel.

    Wish I could work it out with him, wish wish wish it would work out together.

    Maybe it will and he does a u-turn or it won't.

    Alcohol is not being used as a coping strategy, I am feeling all the pain on my own regardless. I know alcohol will not change a thing and in all likeliness make me feel a whole lot worse
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • 115K
    115K Posts: 2,678 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    My friend split up with his OH a year ago and he is still devastated about it. I imagine it must be very hard for you Fedup.:grouphug:

    I am doing rubbish with the AF-ness. I started off well this month too.:rolleyes:
    HOUSE MOVE FUND £16,000/ £19,000
    DECLUTTERING 2015 439 ITEMS
    “Don’t let your happiness depend on something you may lose.”
  • 115k - your afd's aren't rubbish - :) you've acheived alot don't disregard it!!

    About to update and post a list - ta for all the lovely comments :) just a bit all over place at mo - evil ex hubby not letting me speak to kiddies - pah!

    Onwards - went for a walk to blow away cobwebs.
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • fayjmck wrote: »
    Onwards - went for a walk to blow away cobwebs.

    What a good idea! A sunny autumn day is a great way to clear all those muddled thoughts. I'm going out there too shortly, planning to fill myself with lungfuls of fresh air and get positive for the weekend.

    Clara x
  • Pippilongstocking
    Pippilongstocking Posts: 16,336 Forumite
    edited 16 October 2009 at 8:51PM
    The Outrageous October AFD Money saving Adventure (Halfway mark)
    (Name.........................................AFD/Target........£saved to date/Total possible savings
    Nessa 56. ………...5/10 *****£20/40.00
    Fayjmck …………..10/31********** £50/155
    MrsDEE …………..14/23 ************** £70/115
    Icelandic maiden …14/31*************** £60/124 (30/100 day challenge)
    Clarabell 13………..16/20 **************£80/100
    Marthasdad ……….1/16* £4/ 64
    Mrs JC…………….. 4/20 **** £24/120
    Jo………………….. 11/31*********** £71.50/201.50
    Yellowmonkey.…… 8/NT ******* £48/NT
    Mollypolly ….………15/31 *************** £45/93
    Time2growup ..…….3/10 ***£12/40
    So Sad Angel ….….11/31***********£44/124 (44/100 day challenge)
    Marru ……….………15/31************ £16.08/41.54
    115K ……………..…6/10 ******* £30/50
    Different_Corner …...13/22 *************£36.53/61.82
    Dreamonsu……..…. 7/10 *******£56/80
    Cazzasmazza…….. 13/28 ***********£78/168
    FluffyB ………………?/10 £?/?
    40somethingmum …4/31 ****£20/155
    GreyPilgrim……….. 14/31 **************(41/100day challenge)£3?
    Price is Right..….... 12/25 ************ £60/125 (did I dream this PIR or did you say £5 a day?)
    Fedupandskint….… 10/21 ********** £18.50/38.85
    Barshamhillbilly…... 5/5 units a day :)
    69chick………….… 8/20******** £36/90
    Lurkio ……………....0/15 £0/75 :) hope to give you some stars soon :)
    Fakeplastictwee..… 3/10 *** £12/40
    Wannabefree………. 3/10 *** £15/50
    Maman ………………8/10 ******** £26.66/33.33
    Honeybear …………..2/10 **£10/50
    Stroppy ………………1/8 *£4/24
    Gromit......................1/10 *£4.50/£45
    Budgie......................2/15 **£10/£75
    Snowymalone............14/21**************£42/£63
    Mumofseven.........6/20 ******£24/£80
    so here we are......4/10 ****£?/£?
    suweb5.................4/12 ****£12/£36
    winebox ...............1 * :D
    Shaggydoo............4 ****
    McMalyn................12************
    Miss Piggy.............4/15 **** £12/£45

    Ok so its a bit sloppy but you get the idea :) will perfect it later on and pop some totals in :)

    And will amend thoroughout the day as folks show me where I have blundered:rotfl:


    Total AFD's reported in to date 284 (halfway!!)

    Total AFD savings to date approximately £1100.75

    Your individual savings are awesome well done everyone :T
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • 115K
    115K Posts: 2,678 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    fayjmck wrote: »
    115k - your afd's aren't rubbish - :) you've acheived alot don't disregard it!!

    Thanks Fay. Sorry to hear about the nasty ex.:mad:
    HOUSE MOVE FUND £16,000/ £19,000
    DECLUTTERING 2015 439 ITEMS
    “Don’t let your happiness depend on something you may lose.”
  • Thanks 115k - I should know better - he's always like this, at least its consistent - and I guess to be fair he just wants to have them all to himself - I get them 24/7 for most of the year so I should cut him some slack really and count my blessings that they live with me.

    Waves to all :)
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • Marru
    Marru Posts: 4,126 Forumite
    Hello,

    Just a fleeting visit as away for the weekend and without DD this time. She has already been placed at friends so I only need to pack for myself and get going.

    Lots of virtual hugs to everybody!!!

    Fay, I will be after Saturday on 15 AFD please. Won't commit to Sunday yet but should be ok as coming back late.
    "Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, it's not the end."

  • Meant to say earlier 15/20 for me please Fay :D

    Went for my walk earlier but the sun went in as soon as I got there. Hey ho still got a red nose and cheeks, and not from alcohol :rotfl:

    Off to choir practice soon so hope you all have a relaxing evening.

    Clara x
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