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  • nh
    nh Posts: 567 Forumite
    You seem to be pretty upbeat which is good. Sorry to hear about your dog. They can be expensive but don't we love them! Have a good Easter...
    I'm married now! Yippee!
  • laminki
    laminki Posts: 140 Forumite
    keep on going.

    keep on budgeting.

    keep on trying and working hard.

    don't give up.

    as well as "fighting the financial fires" you also need to spend some time looking to the future and the bigger picture - like the vaibility of the business
    and keeping the house - to make sure that your heroic efforts are focused in the right direction.

    you're doing the right things.
  • Fran
    Fran Posts: 11,280 Forumite
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    Hi Heddwen - Don't forget to get to the CAB or contact some agency!!! (Am I getting irritating - sorry.) That is your priority over all other business/house ideas. (Find out where you stand now and take the pressure off by letting someone else negotiate for you.)
    Torgwen.......... :) ...........
  • Heddwen_2
    Heddwen_2 Posts: 123 Forumite
    Thank goodness for Easter weekend, at least I can put my worry on hold 'till everyone comes out of hibernation on Tuesday!

    FRAN not irritating just reminding - carry on!

    Cheers

    HAPPY EASTER EVERYBODY!

    ;D
  • Spikey_2
    Spikey_2 Posts: 14,119 Forumite
    Hi,

    Anybody out there help me with a question?


    How long does arrears stay on your credit files even after the arrears have been paid off.

    Thanx in advance.

    Spikey
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  • System
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    Have a look in your local paper for vacancies in pubs. They take on all sorts of people for part time work, often pay cash in hand and they only require in their staff a pleasant disposition and be able to add up.
    When I was a penniless student they were a godsend!!
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  • Heddwen_2
    Heddwen_2 Posts: 123 Forumite
    :'(

    Unfortunately our Easter weekend has been awful, starting from last Thursday our dog Guinness has rapidly been going downhill, the vet diagnosed malignant cancerous growths last Thursday and it got so bad he was suffering as they grew from nowhere almost. Last night (Sat) was horrendous as we sat up with him all night as he was struggling to breath and settle. The vet was due to see him today anyhow so on calling the emergency vet last night it was the same one so she said to give him asprin, which he wouldn't take.

    We took him in first thing this morning (Sunday) at 10am to emergency and sadly had him put to sleep. We are naturally devastated (I know you'll understand) but at least Guinness is happy now.

    Have a good bank holiday tomorrow.

    :'(
  • MSE_Martin
    MSE_Martin Posts: 8,272 Money Saving Expert
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    That's terrible news when everything else is so difficult for you. Just sending you both my best wishes

    Martin
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  • Heddwen_2
    Heddwen_2 Posts: 123 Forumite
    Thanks Martin its much apreciated

    Cheers Andrea for the PM

    Lets hope we get some positive feedback this week from BOS re our Mortgage and letting.

    I wont say things couldn't get any worse as I dont want to tempt fate!

    Thanks everyone, will keep you all posted!
  • plumpmouse
    plumpmouse Posts: 1,138 Forumite
    Heddwen

    Sorry I'm not the person to advise you on your debts etc.

    But just wanted to say that I am sorry to hear about your dog and hope that you have some positive news soon.

    Good luck and keep smiling

    :):):):):)
    Give me the boy until he's seven and i'll give you the man.
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