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Weekly Flylady Thread 31st August 2009

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  • pigpen wrote: »
    lol.. dunno. where was I last you recall and I'll fill you in on the details

    You had split up with your husband and DS1, GF and Jacob were living some distance away from you...I think :)
  • Evening Ladys, Well going to start my night routine in a min, ds2 will not go too sleep, and is wanting me so i can't get anything done. I really do love this thread so thanks girls, cause my doctor came today, and is not going to up my anti d's and crisis team are going to cut down the number of times they see me, as they can see am coping fine now as my house is nice and clean and not choas before. lol

    I so need a bath, so heading off now too do that

    xxxx
    Money saving is my main plan now!
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    You had split up with your husband and DS1, GF and Jacob were living some distance away from you...I think :)

    Ooh.. missed heaps then... Had I had the glandular fever/tonsillyitis/kidney infection/water infection thing?? I did all those inthe space of 3-4 weeks.. erm... XH is seeing someone else and has been for a few months... erm.. I'm seeing OH.. the only thing he has in common with XH is he has slept in my bed! lol I've been seeing him a while but only announced it on here recently.. but he is a star.. he cleans.. :D:D:D:D and is just lovely. He is also fab with the children and they like him 99% of the time.. unless they are just back from XH's in which case he has told them loads of crap and they don't like him for a day.. things like.. OH doesn't really like them he is just pretending and they can't speak to him because he is a stranger and you don't talk to strangers.. just idiotic things really but it is very upsetting and confusing for the children.

    DS1 is back home here.. living round the corner costing me a fortune in phone calls, mobiles, nappies and food.. I'm getting a sign made for above my door saying 'TESCO'

    Erm.. I passed my college course easily and am off to uni in 3 weeks.. *quiver*

    XH is not paying towards to children and is being a prize [EMAIL="w@nkfest"]w@nkfest[/EMAIL]. nor is he seeing enough of them. and he is off to Barcelona for 2 weeks in a fortnight.

    Think that is just about all my latest gossip from the last 3 months..

    oh... I have kittens too.. if you want 1 or 2 come help yourself!

    There is other stuff but that is not common knowledge on here.. I do have SOME private stuff lol
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • hex2 wrote: »
    Depends on the wording. Consultation is telling you that you may be made redundant. Redundancy (and issue of notice) is when they tell you that you will personally definitely be going and when. Generally when they tell you you are redundant they will say I am therefore issuing you with formal notice. If they haven't said it or written it then you arguably haven't been given notice.

    Hex Thank you. Was told and given letter on Friday announcing redundancies (2) and had first consultation today (although on hols I said I would come in) Just going thru the motions by the sound of it.

    JennyBee Thank you. Trying to read up all the legal bits and that info definitely helps.

    On the flying front I managed to get a chair stuck in my bedroom door (have to climb over it to get to bed) and did my dailies. That's all for now...

    Goodnight all

    Mayfly
    "The secret of change is to focus all your energy, not on fighting for the old, but on building the new." - Socrates
  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    edited 1 September 2009 at 9:55PM
    Evening all,

    I'm just sorting my list for tomorrow.

    Marvellous Monday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs
    Level One
    Vacuum said decluttered floors!
    Extras
    HHI 1/2 done

    Twinkly Tuesday ~ Kitchen of Grot and Diming Room of Gloom
    Level One
    Declutter and mop/vacuum the floors
    Extras
    Wash/clean any pets and their bedding

    Wiggly Wednesday ~ Bedroom and Landing
    Level One

    Strip and wash the bedding, remake bed before bedtime!
    Declutter the floor and vacuum it! See if you can find a bit of floor you've not seen in a while!
    Level Two
    binbag dance
    Sort a box of junk/cupboard/drawer
    Dust and deweb
    Level Three
    Wash any curtains/nets/pillows etc that are in need
    Tidy up the shoes and clothes that are scattered about
    Tidy the linen cupboard
    Extras
    1. HHI
    My Extras
    Go through files & shred
    Clean out bathroom cabinets
    Turbo list as much stuff as possible Turbo lister is telling me there's an error in all listings and when i try listing straight to Ebay it's telling me there's no description
    Clean & tidy Utility room
    Get key cut
    Milk bottles recycling
    Pet & home insurance Quotes
    Book jabs for rabbits
    Order xmas presents with vouchers Will do when Ds2 has decided between the Peppa pig house & princess castle ( if Oh will let him )
    Check all school stuff fits
  • pigpen wrote: »
    Ooh.. missed heaps then... Had I had the glandular fever/tonsillyitis/kidney infection/water infection thing?? I did all those inthe space of 3-4 weeks.. erm... XH is seeing someone else and has been for a few months... erm.. I'm seeing OH.. the only thing he has in common with XH is he has slept in my bed! lol I've been seeing him a while but only announced it on here recently.. but he is a star.. he cleans.. :D:D:D:D and is just lovely. He is also fab with the children and they like him 99% of the time.. unless they are just back from XH's in which case he has told them loads of crap and they don't like him for a day.. things like.. OH doesn't really like them he is just pretending and they can't speak to him because he is a stranger and you don't talk to strangers.. just idiotic things really but it is very upsetting and confusing for the children.

    DS1 is back home here.. living round the corner costing me a fortune in phone calls, mobiles, nappies and food.. I'm getting a sign made for above my door saying 'TESCO'

    Erm.. I passed my college course easily and am off to uni in 3 weeks.. *quiver*

    XH is not paying towards to children and is being a prize w@nkfest. nor is he seeing enough of them. and he is off to Barcelona for 2 weeks in a fortnight.

    Think that is just about all my latest gossip from the last 3 months..

    oh... I have kittens too.. if you want 1 or 2 come help yourself!

    There is other stuff but that is not common knowledge on here.. I do have SOME private stuff lol

    I feel quite exhausted just reading that! Well done you for finding someone lovely. And well done you on going to uni!! Go pigpen :D Your XH is a nob, but we know that...messing with the childrens minds is pure evil and he will get his comeupance...I promise you. And you are obviously not bad to full health as you are seeing a chiropractor. Are you over the glandular fever/tonsillyitis/kidney infection/water infection? I remember nagging going on for you to see the Dr. I think I have seen your kittens on FB ;)
  • Hi all

    Haven't read all the thread yet so hugs to anyone that needs..
    Greenbee, I keep meaning to ask if you've posted any more cake pictures yet?

    Marvellous Monday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs
    Level One
    Level Two
    Wipe and water plants, dust and deweb
    Level Three
    Clear and wipe window sills, and any electricals and picture frames etc
    Empty and clear out a cupboard..


    Twinkly Tuesday ~ Kitchen of Grot and Diming Room of Gloom
    Level One
    Level Two
    Wipe the big appliances and units.. don't forget kickboards!
    Wipe small appliances and replace.. do one thoroughly.. descale or decrumb or degunge!
    Clear and wipe a shelf or window sill
    Level Three
    Sort through and clean out one cupboard
    Clean the oven
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    I feel quite exhausted just reading that! Well done you for finding someone lovely. And well done you on going to uni!! Go pigpen :D Your XH is a nob, but we know that...messing with the childrens minds is pure evil and he will get his comeupance...I promise you. And you are obviously not bad to full health as you are seeing a chiropractor. Are you over the glandular fever/tonsillyitis/kidney infection/water infection? I remember nagging going on for you to see the Dr. I think I have seen your kittens on FB ;)

    Health wise I am ok now mostly I've just had one hospital worthy problem a few weeks ago which is STILL not sorting itself hence seeing the homeopathy wonderwoman .. hopefully she can sort it without me having to go in to hospital again..

    there are kitty pics on FB I think.. one has been rehomed with OH's sister so he is being spoiled rotten over there and I have the other 2 here being manhandled by children.
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    Jinky do you have S&M smurf as your avvie?
    :o yes

    I was asked about my new avvy last night in the Arms, where one of them calls me the Perv Master:D so I had to go and find a pervy smurf:j:j:j

    took a while mind:p
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • Not done much flying today but have sent it with the children.

    Strangely enough when I was looking for my smurf I saw that one and did think of you ;)
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