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ShelleyC_2

doodledo wrote: »

Is it sad I am sat here blubbing

I was welling up at SH reply in CAFC's diary. Lucky CMD can blame her hormones.

clearmydebts

Hi!

I found you. Yay, you will be debt free soon! Good on ya missus. You have come such a long way!!!!!!!!!!!!!:beer::beer:

lilmissmup

If you want to hun than go and have one last look and then think of all the new memories you will have in your new home with DD.

clearmydebts

ShelleyC wrote: »

I was welling up at SH reply in CAFC's diary. Lucky CMD can blame her hormones.

I know, it was such a beautiful reply with honesty and compassion. Oh I might start off again

Doodles - you should go and see the house to say goodbye.Personally I am not emotional about property but then I haven't had children in a house so I probably would be then. When we left Scotland I didn't even turn around and give it a second glance. And it was my 1st house and I lived there for 4 years.

doodledo_2

Thankyou Ladies and Edinburgher :rotfl:you are all such good internet mates, I wish I could come and squeeze you all one by one

doodledo_2

clearmydebts wrote: »

I know, it was such a beautiful reply with honesty and compassion. Oh I might start off again

Doodles - you should go and see the house to say goodbye.Personally I am not emotional about property but then I haven't had children in a house so I probably would be then. When we left Scotland I didn't even turn around and give it a second glance. And it was my 1st house and I lived there for 4 years.

Its my first and only house so it has many happy memories, but mainly the bringing up of my children. It doesn't look like home anymore though as we did so much in the last few months and obviously none of my stuff there.

I think I will go on my own without my little girl as I know I will be emotional. I just worry I will regret it if I dont go and I would quite like to say bye properly to my neighbours too I think.

lilmissmup

You do what you feel is best hun. It might help you get some closure x

clearmydebts

doodledo wrote: »

Its my first and only house so it has many happy memories, but mainly the bringing up of my children. It doesn't look like home anymore though as we did so much in the last few months and obviously none of my stuff there.

I think I will go on my own without my little girl as I know I will be emotional. I just worry I will regret it if I dont go and I would quite like to say bye properly to my neighbours too I think.

I think it is the right thing for you to do to go back and say goodbye. It will be like closure for you and then you can really move on. Don't worry about crying, it's good to cleanse the soul!

ShelleyC_2

clearmydebts wrote: »

I know, it was such a beautiful reply with honesty and compassion. Oh I might start off again

Doodles - you should go and see the house to say goodbye.Personally I am not emotional about property but then I haven't had children in a house so I probably would be then. When we left Scotland I didn't even turn around and give it a second glance. And it was my 1st house and I lived there for 4 years.

When I finally sold my house it was about 6 months after I'd moved out so the final goodbye wasn't too hard but when I acutely moved out I did cry as I drove away. It may have been more about the fact I was moving miles away and starting a new job and role though

doodledo_2

I am proper blubbing, was going to crack open some wine but maybe not the best thing to do.

I will do it tomorrow I think, mums agreed to have DD for me for a bit so I can do it alone, I think going back there will just confuse her and she has settled in here now so well I don't want to rock the boat.