MSE Pregnancy Club XV

Evansangel

jillie1974 wrote: »

EA- i felt dizzy and faint at times when i was bout 8-12 weeks.
might be low blood sugar, have you had any blood tests done yet?

Well i was getting dizzy and light headed before i was pregnant and my heart dropped a couple of beats when the docs was testing it. So i had loads of tests and Diabetes was one of them, as its heriditry and he said its ok for now, but to keep an eye on it. And my blood sugars were a little low, and to eat regularly.

And i was given Iron Tabs to. Then i was fine until last week where its now constant light headedness and exaustion doing the simplest things, like showering, packing, washing up, sitting here on the laptop

I have moments where i feel out of it (like really drunk) then i suddenly have to steady myself.
Hopefully docs will make me better

jillie1974

can hear owls in the woods that are in the park behind me and they always scare me... daft... i feel frightened

Fitzio

jillie1974 wrote: »

flippin' 'ell what is it with all these babies been born early??

my mum says its cos they were all conceived round xmas that people havent got exact dates...
i'm hoping baby is born before the 25th as its my birthday and i dont want to be 35 when i have him. although if he arrives on the 24th thats our wedding anniversary- i did that to my mum and dad. she says she never got a look in after that. everyone always forgot it was their anniversary ( except their 25th)
really should have planned all this a bit better......

Similar to me then - due on the 20th, but first wedding anniversary on the 21st! We have booked a lovely restaurant for my due date just in case baby is not here yet, I don't want to be sitting in the house hanging around thinking about it all day. Will just make it our anniversary dinner a day early. I have already complained about the fact that we can't go away for a romantic anniversary weekend for the next 18 years if baby comes round about that date!!

jillie1974

crikiey just realised the time. although DH hasnt rung to say he's left work which means he hasnt..... typical!!

am going to go. so i can pretend i;ve hardly moved all night. really need to get a laptop!!

chat tomorrow

Bear_family

Evansangel wrote: »

4. Mum not speaking to me as she assumed she would be my birth partner and i said she's not going to me and i said she has to wait outside at the 20 week scan as only OH would be coming in with me :rolleyes: (we did invite all parents before i knew that only 2 adults would be allowed in the room and i didn't want to choose so i said its fairer if they all wait outside)

Oh by the way my mum is a complete control freak and if things dont go her way she gets nasty, just incase you thought i was being mean to her by denying her of seeing her grandchild on a screen lol.

x

Maybe best to nip this in the bud quickly before she starts telling you how you should be raising your baby?

Well done lil'mis, looking forward to seeing pics.

32B - It occurred to me after I'd logged off this afternoon, that if your sister has been admitted to hospital because of her attempts, how was she given access to items that would help her do this again and again? Surely that's bad hospital policy?

Bearx

Evansangel

Bear_family wrote: »

Maybe best to nip this in the bud quickly before she starts telling you how you should be raising your baby?

Yeah i want to but i dont want to upset her.
When i said i wasn't inviting my extended family to my wedding she said if they dont go she wont go.

She gets jealous really easily to. We are moving about 20 mins away from OH's parents and she got super jealous and kept saying "well that means they'll see the baby more than me!" and other such mean things about them, even though they are two of the most loveliest people i have ever met.

The reason we haven't moved near her is cause she lives way out of town, and this house came up by OH's parents.

My dad keeps telling me to basically confront her and tell her what she's doing, but everytime i try i get her having a go at me, then saying "oh i forgot, you have a new family now and we're not your family anymore."
Once she told my 9 yr old sister that i dont want to be her sister anymore as i have a new family... I just dont want to have to deal with it. Im an adult now lol.

Its just annoying, families eh? :rolleyes:

Fitzio

Night Jillie! I am going to go too. Going to make lunch for DH for tomorrow then maybe watch the rest of Miss Marple which I started early. My dad has been here all night and only left a while ago so haven't really spent any time with hubby either.

Night all. x

three2be

Bear_family wrote: »

32B - It occurred to me after I'd logged off this afternoon, that if your sister has been admitted to hospital because of her attempts, how was she given access to items that would help her do this again and again? Surely that's bad hospital policy?

Bearx

Sorry been abit of crossed wires on this one. The attempts were made before the hospital took her. We begged them for help as the things were beyond a joke she was using everything and anything in her attempts, think prison shanks. Just thank full that someone actually listened because i was starting to think i would be planning her funeral shortly.

Evansangel

three2be wrote: »

Sorry been abit of crossed wires on this one. The attempts were made before the hospital took her. We begged them for help as the things were beyond a joke she was using everything and anything in her attempts, think prison shanks. Just thank full that someone actually listened because i was starting to think i would be planning her funeral shortly.

**hugs** there's me moaning about my mum and my problem seems so little compared to yours

I really hope she gets the help and care she needs hun, im glad the hospital finally did listen and hopefully this will get things started to help her getting better.

**hugs again** x

Bear_family

Evansangel wrote: »

Yeah i want to but i dont want to upset her.
When i said i wasn't inviting my extended family to my wedding she said if they dont go she wont go.

She gets jealous really easily to. We are moving about 20 mins away from OH's parents and she got super jealous and kept saying "well that means they'll see the baby more than me!" and other such mean things about them, even though they are two of the most loveliest people i have ever met.

The reason we haven't moved near her is cause she lives way out of town, and this house came up by OH's parents.

My dad keeps telling me to basically confront her and tell her what she's doing, but everytime i try i get her having a go at me, then saying "oh i forgot, you have a new family now and we're not your family anymore."
Once she told my 9 yr old sister that i dont want to be her sister anymore as i have a new family... I just dont want to have to deal with it. Im an adult now lol.

Its just annoying, families eh? :rolleyes:

Difficult one. My MIL is the same. I say yes and no in the right places and then do what the heck I like. MIL keeps banging on about babysitting for us, as she knows as I live 20 mins walk from my mum and that she thinks means she won't get a look in. I won't try and exclude MIL but all her other children really take the pee with getting her to babysit all the time, so OH has already told her she won't have time and I wouldn't leave my baby with 2 older people who are already tired from looking after grandkids. She also hasn't yet figured out that we aren't like her other children and won't be leaving our baby at the drop of a hat, plus if I'm feeding him I couldn't anyway.

Bx