Going out on a date

zippychick

financegirl wrote: »

How patronising are you? I am perfectly entitled to my opinion on an open forum and I stand by my point that I think it is wrong on so many levels to take children on a first date.

Shock horror - not everyone agrees with everyone all the time - there are going to be very different opinions on this board - Op/others take them on board and then make stick to their own decisions.

If you don't like it, don't read it.

I'm not patronising at all. I didn't say I didn't like anything - I was simply questioning where you got the information from to make your (what I thought ) harsh judgements . I asked you several questions about how you came to your conclusions - I thought that's how discussion works. I was genuinely curious.

I didn't necessarily agree with you, so you jump down my throat and tell me not to read the thread?!You seem to be contradicting yourself there Financegirl :rotfl:

If you're out to pick an argument, you've picked the wrong girl, as I really am not interested.

Twopints

financegirl wrote: »

How patronising are you? I am perfectly entitled to my opinion on an open forum and I stand by my point that I think it is wrong on so many levels to take children on a first date.

Shock horror - not everyone agrees with everyone all the time - there are going to be very different opinions on this board - Op/others take them on board and then make stick to their own decisions.

If you don't like it, don't read it.

Why post a load of off-topic bilge instead of answering the OP's question?

If you don't have an answer, don't reply.

Go start a thread in Discussion time if you want to have a Discussion and air your opinion - the clue's in the name. :rolleyes:

ticktock1973

rick im sorry you have received so many bad responses on here, i have been divorced now for 8 years, i have a nine year old daughter and i dont think there is ever a right time to introduce the kids etc i have tried waiting until i was sure of my feelings and then they have done a runner when they meet my daughter or we have all got together for months for it just end after 12 months, so all i can suggest is you follow your gut instincts on this one and do what you feel is right because after all it is your life and perhaps she may not be new wife material but she might just be a good friend and they are hard to find,